老公提离婚该怎么办，男方提出离婚怎么办

 nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？fuqishenghuozhongzuibaoguidedongxishizhencheng、xinrenhekaolv。fuqitongguoxianghulijiehelijie，ranhoutongguoxianghukuanronghezunzhong，yiweichixingfudehunyin。

 raner，zaihunyinzhong，womenjingchanghuiyudaoyixiemaodun、buhehuoqitawaibuyinsu。zheixieyuanyinshihunyinfashenglefantianfudidebianhua。zuihou，yuanbenxiangaidefuqizoushanglefenlidedaolu，xuanzelelihun。

 raner，zaijuedinglihunzhiqian，youyigemanzhang、tongku、jiannandesikaoguocheng，zheiyeshifuqiconggerenxuqiu、xingqu、guandianhejiazhiguandejiaoduquanmiantichuzijijuedingdeguocheng。

yinci，dangzhangfutichulihunshi，tadaduoyijingzuohaolechongfendexinlizhunbei，yezuohaoleyingduinideqingxuxuanxie。

suoyi，ruguozhangfutidaolihun，erniyoubuxianglikai，gaizenmeban？

1.态度冷静

 zhengruwoyikaishisuoshuo，dangwozhangfuyaoqiulihunshi，tayijingzhunbeihaoyingfunidekuqi、zhizaomafanhejiaoxing。yinweizaitayanli，zheishinibeigaozhilihundezhengchangfanying。

 zainikunaozhihou，tashenzhixiangdaolexiayibu，jiushigaosubierennishiruheshikongde，shiruhexiangdangbuhelidebiaoqing，yiyingdetongqing。

raner，nipingjingerpingdandihuifuleta“wozhidaole”fanerhuirangtacuoshoubuji。

 tahuizhidaoxiayibugaizuoshenme，suoyitabasuoyoudezhuyilidoujizhongzainishenshang。zaizheigeshihou，nixuyaorenshoubeishang，xiangwangchangyiyangzuozijideshiqing，jiuhaoxiangniconglaimeiyoutingshuoguoyiyang。dangran，nikeyiku，keyibeishang，danqingyidingyaozaitakanbujiandedifang。

 lengjingdimianduita。buyaowentalihundeyuanyin，yebuyaorangtakaolvnijiatingdeweilai。zheixiewuxiaodegoutonghuibiaomingnigengguanxinjiating，rangtazaiqingganshangzhanjuyoushi，zuizhongposhinilihun。

2.引起冲突

zainidelengjingyijingchaochulenizhangfudeyuliaozhihou，tayidinghuirenwukerendelaizhaoni。

 yigeshishishiyunilihundehouxuxingdong，lingyigeshihaoqiniweishenmenengrucilengjing。dangtazhudongzhaodaonishi，nidelengmohepingjingbiranhuirangtagandaobuanhejiaolv。nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？

 zhiyouzaizheigeshihouyutafashengchongtu，nimencainengjianliyizhonggongpingpingdengdeguanxi。henduorenkenengbumingbai，yigeyiqifengfaderenzenmenengtandehao。

 shishishang，zhengshiyinweitamendouhenxingfen，erzheigenanrenbuzailixing，nikeyiwentaweishenmelihun，nidehunyinchuleshenmewenti，huozhetaduiniyoushenmebuman。

erqiezaizhengchaohechongtuzhihou，nimenlianggezhujianjinrulepingjing，ercishinimenyezhendeshibicixiangai。

3.引发内疚

jiarulihundeyuanyinshinanrendecuo，neimezaizhengchaozhihou，tamencikejiujiduneijiu。

 dangtamenxuanzelihunshi，tamenzhikaolvziji，xuanzebimianhunyinzhongdewenti。bimianwentidezuihaofangfashibimiantanlunwenti，zheiyangmeiyourenzhidaotamenshifoucuole。danshinidezhengchaoyijingjieluletadecuowu。jiranwentiyijingjiejuele，jiejuewentishinanrendexiayibu。

jiarulihundeyuanyinbushinanren，neijiushilianggerenbunengjixuxiaqu。zheichangzhengchaokeyirangnanrenzhongshiyikaishizaiyiqidejiqing。

suizheshijiandetuiyi，hunyinzhujianbiandepingdan，zheishihenzhengchangde。erzheiyangdezhengchaokeyiranglianggerendeganqingshengwen，pobing。

 erqiechaojiahou，nanrenyehuicongnidezhuangtaizhongkanchuniyouduoaita，libukaita，yehuihuiyiqinisuoyoudemeihao，neijiuganyehuizaixinlimanyan。

4.家庭介入

zuihouyibu，xuyaoshuangfangchushendejiatingjieru，jitayigetaijiexia。

nanrenhaomianzi，jishineijiu，tamenyehennankaikouwanhuihunyin，zhihaochuyujiujie、paihuaidezhuangtai。

cishi，chushenjiatingdejierushiyigehenhaodejihui，keyirangnanrenyoutaijiexia。

zaishuangfangjiatingdequanshuoxia，nanrendexinruan，fuqishuangfangdegoutong，nanrenyemeiyouliyoulihun。

 hunyinheaiqingkeyixunlianqianjiu、kuanrong、qufu、jieshou、shiying、kuanshu、tuoxie、renxinghechengrenmingyun“shixiangquanneng”，erhunyindepeiyangconglaidoubushiyigerendeshi。

 fuqicongbicineilihuodedexingfuzhishihunyindekaishi，erbushitadequanbuyiyi，erhunyindequanbuyiyidoubaohanzaijiatingshenghuozhong。

nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？zhiyoufuqigongtongnuli，xianghubaorong，xianghuzunzhong，xianghupingdeng，hunyincainengzouxiangmeihao。