出过轨的婚姻还要继续下去吗，出过轨的婚姻还能过好吗

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48岁的陈大姐：

01.我没有足够的能力给自己和孩子一个好的环境

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02.我身体不好，害怕自己不能独自照顾孩子

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03.怕孩子伤心，毁了孩子的童年甚至一生

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04.怕双方的父母伤心难堪

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05.世界上的男人都一样，没必要再找一个

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06.不想死第三者

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