夫妻之间靠什么维系感情，夫妻长久的感情靠什么维持

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？qianzhongshushuo：“hunyinjiuxiangyizuoweicheng，chengliderenxiangchulai，chengwaiderenxiangjinqu。”hunyinshifuzade，fuqiyaoxiangyiqiduguozheiduanxingfuerfuzadehunyin，haibixuyoujianshideqingganjichu。

 shishishang，ganqingzhongmeiyourenshiduide，yemeiyourenshicuode。hunyinzhiwaiderenbuhuiqupanduan，zhiyouweichengliderenruyuyinshui，lengnuanzizhi。

 daolezhongnian，hunyinzhongzuitongkudeshiqingjiushifuqiguanxidanle。danglianggerenhuijiashi，tamenyaomewanshouji，yaomewanshouji。ruguobushiweilehaizi，tamenbuxiangduoshuoyijuhua。

 yixiezhongnianfufushenzhishuizaibutongdechuangshang。tamenhuijiahoukeyijianmian，shengxiadeshijianjiuxiangmoshengrenyiyang，jihumeiyouqingganjiaoliu。

 dangfashengchongtushi，bicibuxianglihun，danlengjingxialai，lixingsikaobuhuifuchuzheigexiangfa，bijing，jianliyigejiatingbingburongyi，likaibuyidingnengguoshangxingfudeshenghuo。

 yushi，youxuanzeletuoxie，xiangyaoweichihunyin，keshibicizhijiandeganqingquemanmandanxialai，rangrenyouxinwuli，buzhiruheshihao？

ruguofuqizhijianbudongdeguanliheweichi，zaishendeganqing，zuizhongyehuibiandefenbenglixi。

shishishang，zhongnianfuqiganqingdanbo，weixihunyindejiqiaoyouhenduo，qizhongyoulianggetebieyouyong：yishizanmei，ershixinren。

一，赞美

 renmenyouyigegongtongdian，tamenzongshizanmeimoshengren，dantamenduishenbianderengengjiakekehewanmei。shijidezanmeishiyizhongliliang，youqishizaifuqiguanxizhong，xinshangshiyizhonglangmandemeixue。

 xuduofuqiwangwangquefayizhongyouxiaodebiaodafangshi，zheiyiweizhetamenwangwangbushanyuyancihebutongdeyijian，zuizhongdaozhiduifanglijieshangdecuowu。ruguomeiyouzhengquedebiaodafangshi，henrongyiyingxiangtamendeganqing。

lianggerendeganqingyizhibaochidehenhao，zanmeiqidaolehendadezuoyong。

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？zhangjiudehunyinlibukaixianghudexinshanghezanmei，zhengrugongqijunsuoshuo：“aiqing，bushixunzhaoyigewanmeideren，ershiyongwanmeideyanguangquxinshangneigebuwanmeideren。”

 zhangqidehunyinbukebimiandihuidaozhishenmeipilao，danzaibuduandexinshanghezanmeizhong，womenkeyizhenzhengkandaobicideyoudian，zuidaxiandudijianshaoquedian，zaiquyueheguliwomendeairendetongshi，anshiziji。

二，信任

shashibiyashuo：“buruyidehunyinjiuxiangyizuodiyu，yibeizijizhengedou，bunengansheng。”

zhiyoufuqizhijiandexinren，caihuichanshengpingdeng，ruguoshuangfangdouchiyoujianmian，neimepingdengjiushikanbujiande。

buruyidehunyinzongshichongmanbuxinren，buxinrendehunyinshiruhekaishide？

 hunqian，dangtingdaoduifangshenqingdishuo：“wobuzaihunideguoqu，wozhizaihuwomendexianzaiheweilai”，nishifouhuigandongdetongkuliuti，zhijuedezijiyanguanghao，jinshengyudaohaonanrenhaishihaonvren？

 jiehunhou，dangnidaizheyidianxiaomimizhunbeixiangduifangtanchengxiangdaishi，duifangzhishiqingqingdijujue，shuotawulunruhedouhuixinrenni，aini。nihuijidongdeguibuqilai，zaixinlihan:zheibeizi，wozhiaizheigeren？

shishishang，zheixieganjuebeizhiyudeshike，yeshiniweizijidehunyinhuashangyinmaideshike。

dangmaodunchuxian，huozherenheyifangchiyoushaoyoubutongshi，duifangdexinjiuhuizaibuduandejiujiehekendingzhongzhixiangduifang。

 suoyi，dapozheiyiqiedezuihaobanfa，jiushizaidiyishikebapanchulai，erbushixiangjiyagaoyiyang，yidianyidiandihuidaduifangdewenti。

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？xinrenlvdexinrenyeshinizhidexinren。xianghuxinrenshiweichiganqingdezuihaofangshi。yinci，fuqizhijiandexinrenfeichangzhongyao。zhiyaocunzailijiehexinren，fuqiguanxijiubuhuijianruo。