婚姻到底怎么经营，婚姻要怎样经营才幸福

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？xuduofufuzaiyiqishenghuolehenzhanghou，xuduofufujinrulejuandaiqi，wuyiguanlitamendehunyinshenghuo。suirantamenmeitiandouzaiyiqijianmian，danzaiyiqimeiyoushenmekeshuode。neime，hunyinshenghuoshiruheyunzuodeni？

第一，不管是什么，都是相互的

 liliangdezuoyongshixianghude。ganqingshiyiyangde。zhiyouhuxiangguanxinhezhenxi，womencainengweichibicideganqing。ruguoyifangyizhizaitouzi，lingyifangmeiyoujiyuganenhefankui，neimeyifangzaibuduantouzizhonghuizhujiangandaobeishanghebeishang。

 yinci，ruguowomenfangqiweichilianggerenzhijiandeguanxi，lianggerenzhijiandeguanxihenkenenghuichuxianliehen，daozhizuizhonglihunhehunyinbuxingfu。yinci，fuqibixuxianghuxinren。

第二，我们应该学会积极沟通

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？fuqizhijiandegoutongshibibukeshaode。tebieshizaifashengjiufendeqingkuangxia，womenbixujinxinggengduodegoutong，zhanzaiduifangdefangxiangshangsikao，jijidishuochuwomendexiangfa。

 buyaotuisuo，shenzhixuanzejiatinglengbaolidefangfalaiganraoduifang，zheizhihuirangduifangganjuebudaonideguanxin，ranhouzhujiangandaohanlenghebeishang，daozhiganqingpolie，zhidaozuihoudehunyinbushunli。

第三，我们应该学会欣赏对方的优点和缺点

 dangfuqizaiyiqishi，tamenyikaoduifangdexianghuxiyin。zhiyouxuehuixinshangduifangdeyoudian，rongrenbierendequedian，tamendeganqingcainengjixushengwen。dangtamenyoumaodunshi，tamenbixuxuehao“xianghuzunzhong”fangfa，baocunxiangtongdian，fenqidianfenbiezhuyi。

第四，我们应该有进取精神

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？dangyifangfancuoshi，lingyifangbixuxuehuirongrenlingyifang。zhiyoukuanrongcainengweichilianggerenzhijiandelianxi。dangran，ruguolingyifangzhendebujiangdaoli，tayekeyiheliditimingwenti，ranglingyifangyishidaowentibingjishijiuzheng，zhiyouzheiyang，lianggerendecainenggengzhangjiu、gengxingfu。