如果两个人走到了离婚这一步，离婚挽回的最好方式有哪些

 lihunwanhuidezuihaofangshiyounaxie？yidanrenmenjiehun，nanrenhenvrendouhuiyoumaodundejingli。danshi，ruguonizailihunhoumianduiyigeren，nikenenghuijuedezheigerenbugouhao，shenzhihuaiyiziji，fuqiguanxikenenghuishoudaoyingxiang。ruguolianggerenzhendelihunle，tamenzenmenengzhaohuilingyibanni？

1.在恢复之前先了解对方的需求

 lihunshi，wozuidanxindeshilianggerendoushiduifangdeqianrenhezijideqianren。yinweiyouxierenzaiganqingshangzibei，erlingyixierengengzixin。tamenzaiganqingshanggengguanxinziji，erlingyixierenzebutong。tahuixiangzhaodaoyigenengrangtagandaobeizhongshihebeiaideren。

 zaizheigeshihou，xuduorendehuifujihuajiangbeidaluan。yikaishi，nikenengbuzhidaoduifangshifouduinigandaoshiwangheyanjuan，danruguonizhidaoduifangxiangyaoshenmehebuxiangyaoshenme，nijiuhuizhidaoduifangzaiyutagoutongzhiqianzhenzhengxuyaoshenme。

2.给另一半精神上的暗示和情感上的善意

 lihunbushilianggerenzhijiandemaodunhewenti，ershilianggerenxinlizhuangtaidechongtuhewentidebaofa。ruguolianggerendexintaibupingheng，maodunjiuhuijinyibushengji，zuizhongdaozhiguanxipolie。suoyibuyaoqingyifangqizheiduanguanxi。zhiyaoniyuanyizaicixiangchu，huifushuangfangdeguanxi。

3.不要总是使用冷战.对待对方的冷暴力

 lengzhanbunengjiejuerenhewenti。zhiyaolianggerendouyouwenti，jiuyinggaitongguogoutong.goutongkeyijiejuewenti，erbushicaiqulengzhanshenzhilengbaolidefangshi。

 lihunwanhuidezuihaofangshiyounaxie？lengzhanshifoudingduifangdeganqing，erlengbaoliwangwangshikoutougongjiduifang。congzhangyuanlaikan，zheijiangbukebimiandidaozhilianggerendewuliao.didui.jishishizhengchaodezhuangtai，yidanzheizhongqingxuchixutaijiu，shibihuiyingxianglianggerendeganqing。

4.以积极平和的态度面对对方

 dangnidexintaibiandegenghaoshi，shishishang，nidexuqiuganhuizhujianbiandegenggao。tongshi，nihuigandaofeichangmanyi，zheiyeshihuifudezuidakunnan。

 zaizheigeshihou，womenxuyaoyijijihelengjingdetaidumianduibici。buyaozongshiyixiaojidefangshiduidaiduifang。ruguoduifangzainihetalihunqianfaxielesuoyoudefumianyinxiang，tacishijiubuhuidedaotaxiangyaodexiaoguo。

 yinci，zaikangfuguochengzhong，nibixuzuohaoxinlizhunbei。lihunhoubuyaorangduifangdaihuijia，yebuyaorangduifangyihuijia，yebuyaorangduifangzainilihunhoudaizhefumianqingxuhuijia。

 zhiyoudangnijijierpingjingdimianduiduifangdeneixinzhuangtaishi，nicainengmanzuduifangdepoqiexuqiu。zheiyeshiwomenzaihuifuchuqizuixuyaozuodeyijianshi，neijiushiyijijijiankangdetaiduduidaiduifang，gaibianduifang。

5.给自己多一点空间，让对方知道自己还有其他感情等着他

 xianzaidaduoshulihunderendouhenmaodun，yinweiyixieshiqingerlihun。yinci，zaizheigeshihou，zuihaodebanfashijizijiyixiekongjian。

 ruguonihaimeiyoujieshuyulingyifangdeguanxi，qingjizijiyixieshijianlaixiaohuata。ruguonihaimeiyoujieshuyulingyifangdeguanxi，niyinggaibaochijijijiankangdetaidubuyaoyinweilihuneryingxiangta。

 lihunwanhuidezuihaofangshiyounaxie？zhiyaonizuodezugouhao，nijiunengrangduifangzhidaonihaiyoulingyizhongganjue。ruguonizaifenshouhoumeiyouzhaodaoheshidejihuizhongxinkaishiyiduanxindeguanxi，nibixushouxiananpaixindeguanxi，jizijiyixieshijianlaixiaohua。