夫妻关系不好怎么办，婚姻能否长久往往不是夫妻两个人的事

 fuqiguanxibuhaozenmeban？aiqingyuhunyinzuidadequbiezaiyu，aiqingzhishilianggerendeshi，erhunyinzeshilianggerendeshi。congnimenlianggejuedingjiehundeneiyikeqi，jiuyiweizhenimenbuzaizhishilianggedulideren，ershihunrulelianggedajiatingdeguanxi。nixuyaochulidebujinjinshinideganqing，haiyounihefumu、xiongdijiemeideguanxi。

 youtaiduodeganqing，zuizhonghennanjixuxiaqu。shishishang，zheibingbushiyinweishuangfangdoubuai，yebushiyinweilianggerendeganqingfashenglebianhua，ershiyinweitamenmeiyouhenhaodichulihaodisanfangzhijiandeguanxi。zheishiyinweilianggejiatingzhijianyouliefeng。tamenzaiyiqitaileile，suoyitamenzhinengxuanzejieshu。

 guoqu，worenweizhiyaolianggerenxiangai，tamenjiunengdiyuyiqiekunnan。houlai，wofaxianxianshishenghuozhongyougezhonggeyangdezhangai。zhengshizheixiezhangaizuizhongfensuileai，shiaizhiliposui。

 buyaobahunyinxiangdetaijiandan，yebuyaogaogunimendeguanxi。youshihou，dangnixiangxinzhenaideshihou，nihuifaxiantawufayuqitaguanxixiangbi。

 yiduanchijiuwendingdehunyinbujinjinshifuqideshi，zheisangerenzaiqizhongyeqizhezhiguanzhongyaodezuoyong。ruguonichulibuhaozheixieguanxi，jishinimenguanxihenhao，yehennanzoudaojintou。

婆媳关系

 ziguyilai，poxiguanxijiushiyigedawenti。henshaoyoupopoheerxinengbaochilianghaodelianxi。shuangfangrongyifashengmaodun，yidanmaoduntuchu，jiuhuiyingxiangfuqiguanxi。

 zuichu，lianggewanquanmoshengderenyinweiyigenanrenercanyubingchengweiyigejiating。zaixianghulijiezhong，zheigerenshishijieshangzuizhongyaoderen。taxiangzaizheiliyingdezhuquan，suoyimaodunzishengle。

 duiyupopolaishuo，fuyangerzibingburongyi。taxiwangtadehaizimennengliuzaitashenbianweizijifuwu。taxiwangzijinengzaierzidexinmuzhongganshoudaozijidenuli，zheibuhuiyinweiyigewaiguonvrendeguanxieryingxiangerziduizijideganqing。

 fuqiguanxibuhaozenmeban？duiyuerxilaishuo，popodejiatingzaiyidingchengdushangshimoshengren。zaixuanzelezheigenanrenzhihou，tamenxuanzelejinrushenmeyangdejiating。

 buguanerxidexinggeduomeshanliang，zhongxinrongruyigejiatingshiduomebufangbian，suoyitamenhuibasuoyoudeliliangdoutourudaonanrenshenshang，xiwangnanrennengchengweizijidehoudun，chengweibangzhuzijidakaipopoguanxideqiaoliang。

 ruguonibataiduodejinglifangzainanrenshenshang，henrongyidajia。youxiepopobijiaotongqingdali，buhuiguoduodijuanrufuqiguanxi。ruguoniyudaoyixiebuzhidaoruhehengliangdepopo，nihuijingchangjiqifuqiguanxi，yingxiangtamendeganqing。

 《shuangmianjiao》zhongdepoposhiyigeshoutaizhangderen。tajingchangcharuzhangfuheqizi，duierxishuohua，jingchangtiaoqizhangfuheqizizhijiandeguanxi，fanfucijitamenzhijiandemaodun，zuihoujiaosuoerziheerxidajia，daozhibeiju。

 youxuduoyuanbentianmidenianqingfufu，yinweitamendeyuemuganyutaiduo，zuizhongchenggongyingxiangletamendeganqing，daozhilefensan。ruguonixiangjiehunhenzhangyiduanshijian，niyinggaichulihaopopoheerxizhijiandeguanxi。popoyinggaijianshaoganyu，xifuyinggaigengjiakuanronghekuanrong。nanrenyinggaizuohaozhanheji，yiquebaohunyindechixu。

姑婿关系

doushuo“popoyuelaiyuexihuannvxu。”danqishibingbuzongshizheiyang。

 duiyupopolaishuo，nvershitamenshouzhongdeyinger。zaitamenyanli，shenmeyangdenanrenpeibushangtamendenver。jishinanrenzuodehenhao，tamenyehuidanxinbanverjita。

 raner，tamendexiangfashikeyilijiede。bijing，ruguotamenxiangbazheimedadenverjiaojibierendejiating，tamenzongshiyouhenduobuqingyuanhebuan。tamenbuxiangyaotaiduo。zhiyaoduifangdejiarennenghenhaodiduidaitamendenver，zhiyaonanrenbunengrangtashouweiqu，tamenjiunengpingjingdixiangchu。

zhishiruguoyikaishitabutongyizheizhuanghunshi，kannvxuzenmekandoubumanyi。

 zai《xinju》zhong，guxinhegeyuedehunyincongyikaishijiubutongyi。dangtadiyicijiandaoguxindefumushi，takanqilaihaoxiangcongweijianguozheigeshijie。zheilianggejiatingbufuzeshibuduide。

 zheiweifunvzaihunyinfangmianyezuochulehenduogongxian。zaigemukanlai，tadenverjiehunle。guxindejiarenkeyipashangtadeqinqijia，yejiushishuo，tashaolegaoxiang。

 yinci，zaiguxinmianqian，tazongshixiangjinyiqiebanfadadianhuajita。tameiyoujiyuyingyoudezunzhonghepingdengduidai。tasihuzaiweiguxinxiamawei，weinverfaxiefennu，dantawangjilezijidexingwei，zheizhihuirangtadenverzaizhongjiangandaoganga。jiranyijingwanchengle，tayinggairangzheiduifufuguozijideshenghuo，buyaoganshe，yingxiangtamendefuqiguanxi。

 yaochulihaonvxuzhijiandeguanxi，popoyaoshaoyixiezhidaoheganshe，nvxuyaoyongshijixingdonglaichongaiqizi，zheishiduipopozuidadeanwei。

姑嫂关系

 xuduofunvzaiyupopojiehunhou，bujinyaomianduipoxiguanxi，haiyaomianduiayihesaozizhijiandeguanxi。henduoshihou，saoziwangwangshiyingxiangfuqiguanxidezuidazhangai。

 zai《xinju》zhong，fengxiaoqinheguqingyushizhenjianhemaimangzhijiandeguanxi。zaiguqingyudexinmuzhong，fengxiaoqinshiyigexiongxinbobo、jingyusuanjidenvren。tajiajigegeguleideyuanyinshiweilezaishanghaizhanwenjiaogen。jiehunhou，tahaishitucongzijishenshanghuoyi，qiangpoguleijinbu，weixiaolaohumaifangzi，doushiweilezijidesiyu。

 tacongxindilikanbuqifengxiaoqin，yizhizaiweitabianhu。tadanxintadegegehuizaoshousunshi。tayizhizaijigegetijianyi，jingchangzhichutamenfuqizhijiandeguanxi。

zuihouhaiyinweitadezhidian，erjianjieshasilegulei，ruguomeiyoutadetiaoxin，kongpatamendejiatingbuhuibianchengneiyang。

 buguanxiongdijiemeizhijiandeguanxiyouduohao，dangyifangjiehunshi，yaoxuehuizhudongtuichu，buyaoguoduodizhidaoduifangdejiating，zheishixiongdijiemeiyinggaiyoudejuexing。

 zuoweiqizi，tayeyinggaiyouyidingdeliyiganhejiexiangan。tabuyinggaijitasaozitaiduodemafan。buguantamenyouduonenggan，tamendoumeiyouyiwubangzhuni。zhiyoubawohaochidu，cainengbaozhengjiatinghemu。

 hunyinbingburongyi，yinweiwomenbujinyaochuliganqingdexiaoshihezhenchengdebianhua，haiyaochulihaoshuangfangjiatingzhijiandeguanxi。ruguowomenbuweichizheixieguanxi，jishifuqiguanxihenhao，yehennanchixuhenzhangshijian。

weichirenheguanxi，doubushiyigerendeshi，ershixuyaoshuangfangxianghulijie，cainengweichihexie。

 fuqiguanxibuhaozenmeban？jirantamenyijingchengweiyigejiating，tamenxuyaogengduodekuanronghekuanrong。buyaotaitiaoti。tamenyinggaibawozijidebianjieganheliyigan，buyaoyuejie，buyaoguoduoganshebierendexingwei，zheiyangcainengshijiatingguanxixingfuhexie。