想让你的婚姻更幸福，男人如何经营婚姻才会幸福

 nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？duilingyibanqiwangguogao，shiyiqiezainandekaishi。zaiyiqijiehunhou，xuduorenfaxianshenghuohenkuaijiuhuiconglangmandetiantangxianrutongkuderichangshenghuo：zhongfudegongzuo、fanmangdejiawu、fuzadepoxiguanxi、chaonaodehaizi、lengmodebanlv……yigerendeshenghuobianchenglelianggerendeshenghuo“zhanchang”。

hunyinzhendeneimekepama？buyiding！

yuneixieenai、tianmidebanlvxiangbi，zijiqueshaodekenengshiyixiebiyaodehunyinrenshiheguanlijiqiao。

第一，降低期望，允许别人做别人

 qingrenyanlichuxishi。lianaishi，nimenzenmekanduifangdoukeai，doushunyan。zhengruzixiazai《dahuaxiyou》zhongsuoshuo：“wodeairenshiyiweiyingxiong，zongyouyitiantahuicaizheqisedeyuncaijiajiwo。”

 dangyouyitiantabaniquhuijiadeshihou，nikanzheneigedahulu、rengwazi、dangzhongdage、fangpi、daiyanshidejiahuo，nihuifafengde。zheishishenme“gaishiyingxiong”？mingmingshibuzhebukoude“latagouxiong”。

 shishishang，suoyoudetongku，doulaiziyunidegaoqiwangzhi。qudiaonikantadeguanghuan，nihuifaxiantayeshichengqianshangwandeputongrenzhiyi。

kanqingchutadebenlaimianmu，jieshoutadezhenxiang，buyaoqiangxinggaibianduifang，nihuifaxianhunyinzhongdechongtuhuijianshaohenduo。

第二，提高对自己的关注，让自己做自己

 xuduonvhaijiehunhou，bahunyin、haizidangzuoyiqie，meiyouzijideshenghuo，shejiao，yuanlipengyouquan，shenzhibazhangfubangzaizijishenshang。

 yigeqinqijiadenvhaijiehunhou，tajizhangfudinglehenduoguiju，biru:tabixufangzaidiyiwei，wulunzoudaonali，tadoubixu“baobei”；jizhutaxihuanhebuxihuandedongxi；bunengtongshihehenduoyixingliaotian，bunengchugui；meicihuifudouwufahuifu；“ee”yingfu……

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tashuo，hunyintaileile，zongyaozhaogubierendeganqing，meiyoudulidekongjianheziyou。yinci，hunyinyijingjieshu。

xuduorenzaihunyinzhongguoyuqiangdiaozhengtixing，erhushiledulixing、touzihetishengziji。

 dangduifangdatabuqianjin，renzhi、siwei、zhishi、shiye、jingyanzhujianzengjiashi，duifangyibubuqianjin，chajuzhujianlakai，fendaoyangbiaoyeshichizaodeshi。

guanzhuziji，tishengziji，shiduihunyinzuianquandetouzi。

第三，积极回应对方，在两个人之间架起一座爱的桥梁

henduorendouzhidaoyouyizhongwujie，renweijiranshiyijiaren，youxieshiqingjishibushuo，duifangyeyinggailijie，zhichi，landegoutong。

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jianlijijideqingganhudongmoshi，duihunyindexingfuyouzheshenyuandeyingxiang。

shidangdigaibianzijidetanhuaheqingtingfangshi，xuehuiguanchazijideqingxu，lejiezijidezhenshixuqiu。

 nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？xuehuiyong“aideyuyan”goutong。tongguofeibaoligoutong“guancha，ganjue，xuyao，qingqiu”chengshi、qingxidibiaodaziji，rangduifangzhengquedilijienideyitu，ganshounideai。

henduoshihou，lianggerenzhijianbingbushiqueshaoai，ershiqueshaoaidezhengquebiaoda。

第四，学会放弃，不幸婚姻时有勇气撤离

 hunyinshiyizhongshenghuofangshi，danshenyeshiruci。dangnizaihunyinzhongfennu、jiujie、beishang、jusang，wufaconghunyinzhongdedaomanzuheanweishi，zaineihaozhonglangfeishengmingshiyijianfeichangkebeideshiqing。

yongganlibie，shinvrenbibeidezuihouwuqi。zuihaodeshenghuo，yongyuanshizijidewanmei。

 lihunbingbukepa。kepadeshi，nifangqileaizijihechengzhang。yonghaizihesuoweidemianziyueshuziji，zaiyiduanwuaidehunyinzhongduguoyisheng，shiquzaicizhuiqiuxingfudenengliheyongqi。

dangniyouyitianhuodezuihaodeshihou，woxiangxincengjingrangnitongkudehunyinyehuichengweinishenghuozhongbuzhiyitidejiyi。

 zhengru《qinmiguanxi》suoshuo：“nideqinmibanlvshiyonglaibangzhunigenghaodilejieziji，ranhouzhiyunidechuangshang，zuizhongzhaodaonizhenzhengdeziwo。yinci，tashiwomenlinghundeqiaoliang。”

hunyindebenzhi，shiyizhongxiuxing，shiyizhongchengzhang，xingfuzhinengyouzijilaidingyi。

 nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？jiangdiduitadeqiwang，zengjiaduiziwodeguanzhu，jijihuiying，youyongqifangqi，xiangxinnitashanglexingfudelvcheng。