男人如何经营婚姻才会幸福，这4个小秘诀

 nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？suhuashuo：“dijilaogu，fangbuyao！”shishishang，hunyinhegaifangzishiyiyangde。xingfudehunyinxuyaoyongxinlaiguanli。guanlihunyinshijishangjiushiguanlizijideshenghuo。yixiashixingfuhunyindesigemijue。ruguonixuehuizheiyangzuo，nijiangyongyouyigewanmeidehunyin，bingaiyibeizi！

1.记住，爱和厌恶是相爱相杀的姐妹

 buyaobiaodayane，ershibiaodaaiyi！jiehunneitian，jiuyaoshanghunchele，mamalazhewodeshoushuo：“nver，hunyinxingfuyufouwanquanqujueyunishifouhuiyongxinjingying。jizhu，aiheyaneshiyigeqinmidejiemei，bicixiangai，huxiangcansha。mamaxiwangnijianglainengduoaita，shaohenta。

 nanrenaimianzi，rangtayoumianzi，nijiuhuiyoumianzi。ruguoniyoumianzi，nidehunyinxingfuzhishujiuhuihengao！”jiehunhou，woyizhijidemamadehua，zhendehenshouyi！zaihunyinshenghuozhong，fuqihenrongyipaoqilingyiban，nvrenyebuxihuannanrenbugoujinbu。

 nibunengweizijichuangzaogenghaodeshenghuo，huozhenibuxihuannanrenbuaiziji.tailanle，xiabanhuijiabufendanjiawudengdeng，ernanrenhuibuxihuannvrenlata、shechidengdeng。buxihuanhuishanghairen，eraihuiziyangren！ruguoshini，nigengxihuanbeiaihaishibeibishi？

2.与其选择抱怨，不如选择赞美和赞美

 dangtamenxiangaishi，xuduofufujishizaibaoyuanyebuhuishuochulai。tamenhuixuehuishidangdidiaozhengzijidehuaiqingxu，gengduodikaolvduifangdeyoudianhezhangchu，bingzidongshenglveduifangdequedian。ciwai，lianaizhongdelianggerenjibenshangdouyouyoushi，congxindizanmeiduifang：“nizhenbang”.“nitailihaile”.“nizhenhao”.“henizaiyiqishiwoyishengzhongzuidadexingfu。nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？

 raner，danglianggerenjinruhunyindiantangshi，tamenyijingzaiyiqihenzhangshijianle。xuduorenzaihunyinshenghuozhongbuzhibujuedifanleyigedajinji——zanyanghezanyangyuelaiyueshao，baoyuanyuelaiyueduo。yidanyiduixiangaidefufuzongshihuxiangbaoyuan，tamenhenkenenghui“poguanziposhuai”zheiduihunyinyouqibuli。

 zenmeban？womenxuyaojishifaxianwenti，zhaodaojiejuewentidefangfa，jiyuduifanggengduoderenkehezanyang.zanmei。jishishiyijianhenxiaodeshiqing，yexuyaojiyuduifangkending，rangduifangganshoudaonideaihewennuan。shijianzhengming，zaihunyinhunyinshenghuozhong，gengduodezanmeihezanmeibirenheliwudouyaohao。bu，nikeyizheiyangzuo！

3.家不是任何人的，只有两个人一起经营，才能收获幸福的婚姻

 hunyinbunengjinjintongguoyigerendenulilaishouhuotianmideguoshi。taxuyaofuqidegongtongnulihefuchu，cainengkaichumeilidehuaduo，shouhuotianmeikekoudeguoshi。xiabanhou，shaoshejiao，duohuijiapeijiaren，fuqishuangfangdouhuijia。jialidejiawu，nannvdapei，gongzuobulei。

 nixicai.nixiwan.wotuodi；nixiyifu，wopeihaizi...zhoumo，wohejiarenyiqipashan。.paobu。woganbaozheng，zheiyangdehunyinjueduishizuixingfude。zheigejiatingmeigechengyuandexingfuzhishujueduishizuigaode。yinwei，zheigejiayouai，yongxinjingying！

4.拒绝冷战和不必要的争吵，有效沟通

 fuqiyibeizi，buchaojia.meiyoumaodun，jiumeiyoumaodun。ruguonibutongyi，nigaizenmeban？zaizheigeshihou，shiceshifuqigoutongnenglideshihoule！ruguoniyouhuayaoshuo，dangshiqingfashengshi，taolunshiqingbibubiyaodezhengchaoyaohao，erbushibatafangzaixinlishenmedoubushuo。

 jizhu，zaihunyinzhong，wozuihaipadeshilengzhan。lengzhanzhendeshanghailehunyin。youxiaohejijidegoutongbiwushudezhengchaohelengzhanyaohao，zheiyekeyibimianbubiyaodewujiehemaodun。yinci，goutongduihunyinxingfutaizhongyaole。congmouzhongyiyishangshuo，hunyinshifouxingfuyugoutongdezhiliangzhijiechengzhengbi。

 nanrenruhejingyinghunyincaihuixingfu？meigerendoukewangyouyigexingfudehunyin。tamendoukewangyuerzixieshouburuhunyindiantang。raner，shenghuobingbushunli，hunyinyebupingjing。danglianggerenzaiyiqishi，meiyourennengxiangshoutamendechenggong。tamenshihunyindezhujiao。xingfudehunyinxuyaomingzhideguanli、xianghuzhenxi、xianghubaoronghexianghulijie！