大男子主义男人对待感情 用这4招来对付他

 wojingchangyudaoyixienvhaibaoyuantamennanpengyoudedananzizhuyi。tamendenanpengyougenbenbuzaihutadeganshou。dananzizhuyinanrenduidaiganqing，tamenzongshizijizuojueding。jishitamentichuhelideyijian，tamendenanpengyouyebuhuigaibiantamendelichang，youqishidananzizhuyi。yinci，liangrenzongshichaojia，dantadenanpengyourengranyirujiwangdijianqiang。tabuzhidaogaizenmechulita。

 diyigefangmian：zaixinggefangmian，tashidananzizhuyizhongweiyideyige。tazongshixiangzheziji。suoyoukaolvdejieguohejuedingdoushiyitazijiweizhongxinde。tacongbukaolvbierendeganshou，yebuguanxinbierendechujing。zhiyoudangtakaolvyiqieshi，tacaihuixiangzhengxingditongzhitaren，erbushiyutarentaolun。zongshizijizuojueding，zijisikao，xiankaolvziji，ranhoukaolvbieren，shenzhicongbukaolvbieren。

 diergefangmian：zaishenghuozhong，dangtaxuyaobierendebangzhushi，tazongshilizhiqizhuangdiwenbieren，erbushilimaodiwenbierenshifouyuanyitigongbangzhu。tacongbuzhishiwenni，nibixubangzhuta，nibixubangzhuta。zheihenqiguai，rangrenjuedehenbulimao，shenzhihenexin。

 disan，zaiqingganfangmian，dananzizhuyizheyouhenqiangdeqingganzizunhebuwending。meiyoubanfazhenzhengjieshoutamendexin，guowendingdeshenghuo。ruguonixiangjiuzhenghegaibiannidedananzizhuyinanpengyou，nibixushiyongzhengquedefangfa，fouzehenrongyicijitamenyanzhongdezizun。

1.避免唠叨和抱怨

nanpengyouyoudananzizhuyideshihou，zuoweilianrenyidingyaobimianbaoyuan、baoyuandengwuyiyidexingwei。

xiangfan，shenghuozhongyaoduoguanxinnanpengyou，danzaibiaodazijideyijianheyijianshi，yaoyouliyou。

youyunanrendoushilixingdedongxi，mianduiyoubanyouyandenvren，tamenwangwangyuanyijieshou。

yinci，nvxingyeyaodaqiyixie，jinlianggaibianzijixiaonvrendexiguan。

youqishiailaotao、aibaoyuandenghuaixiguan，suoyinanrendedananzizhuyihuibijiaoruo。

ruguonixiangyi“xiao”ke“da”neiyidinghuishideqifan，rangnanrengengjiayaneni，yanjuanni。

2.学会用温情化解

zairichangshenghuozhong，nvrenyidingyaozhuyizijideyanxing，duizijidenanrenyaocongneixinqulijie。

 daduoshudananzizhuyidenanhaizongshiduinvrenhenanrentebiemobuguanxin。bijing，tamenshineizhongdananzizhuyidenanhai，tamenyongyuanbuxiangzhaodaoxiangxiongdiyiyangdebanlv。tamenzuixihuandenvhaihuibeichonghuaihewenrou。

pingshishaoshuoduozuo，duowennuan，duoguanxin，jianqingnanrendexinliyali，rangnanrenbiandewenshun。

 nvrenzaigongzuochangsuokeyishiyigejianqiangdenvren，youzijidefangshi，yekeyiyouzijidutedegexing，danhuijianibubichuanyingkuijia，youqishikandaodananzizhuyidenanpengyou，nibixufangxiasuoyoudezhunbei，gaosutawoleile，xuyaojienidejianbang，suoyirouruandeneixin，yinweiyilaitamenxihuandeganjue。

yinweihenduoshihou，nanrendedananzizhuyixuyaoyigekeyijifadedifang，neijiushinvhaiwenroudeyimiankeyibaorongtamen。

3.有底线，有自己的原则

 dananzizhuyinanrenduidaiganqing，suirandananzizhuyidenanhaixihuanbeinvhaiguanxinhechongbai，zheihuirangtakuaile，danmangmudiyinghetadepianhaohuiehuaaiqing，yinweiruguonizaihenzhangyiduanshijianneimangmutuoxie，jieguozhihuirangtayongyuanyaponi，suoyiniwulunruhedouyinggaiyouzijideguandian。

buyaorangtaduinideaishiquxinxiangan，suoyiniyeyaoyouzijidedixian，jianchizijideyuanze。

 dangtafancuowushi，shidangdizhichutadecuowu，rangtamingbaizhenxiang，lianggerenzhijiandezhengchaoyoushikeyizengqiangganqinge，zhishizhuyishuohuadeyuqi，bunengshuohuaihua，shiyongzhengquedefangshi。