花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？如何让懒男人乖乖在家干活儿？

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sheigansheibugan，bideshixinlizhuangtai，pindeshibenling。

你以为干活是件多温暖的事

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洗一洗脑吧，媳妇并不是老太婆

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始终别让男人闲下来

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 nvrenzuichangmaiyuandeyijuhuabianshi：“womenjiananrennaxiedoushihuigan，danbianshibugan!”nengrangnanrenlaolaoshishiganhuoshibenling，meidiaoshihaonanrenzhongjiuhaishizishenmeikenai。neiyangdemaiyuan，haowuyiwenshizaixiangdajiagongbuzishendelansanyuruanruowuneng。