花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？如何应对男人的暧昧？

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xiabianhuizong4tiaohuijueaimeinandexiaoqiaomen，gongnvhaiyingyong：

1.学好说“不”。

 congjiandiyimianqi，niyejiuyingdangrangyanxiadezheiyinanrenlejie，nibushiyigesuiyidenvren，niyoulenidebiaozhun、niyoulenideguiding。huijuelingyifang，bingmeiyoushenmelebuqide，zhongjiudajiahaimeiyoumingquelianaiguanxi;huoxu，shidudehuijuefanershitayougengqiangdezhengfuyu。

2.你没暧，他不昧。

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3.实际上姐不急需用钱。

 weilegenghaodinengyuniweichizheileiguanlian，dabufenaimeinanshikenzainideshenshangzayinliangde，jiarunizhengqiaoyexiai“beitaoqian”，zezhengzhongxiahuai，neishihouyexubutaihaochoushen。yinci ，dajiayiqichulaibubizongshitachuqian，yebubijienatadezhenguiliwu。

4.，，咸猪手!