有被花镇骗过的吗？请谈一场高技术恋爱

 jiarushuoxiangqinyuehuishierwanwuqianlizhangzhengdeqishidian，neitanlianaihaowuyiwenshichongxiangmeimanhunyinzheiyizhongdianzhanshi，bukehuoquedexiulian。zheiyihuanjie，chukaidanlianghejiqing，jishuxinggengweiguanjian。yexuninengbianbowojiang，ganqingyingdanggankaiwanqian，jiaruzaijiashangjishuxingneimejiubujiaozhenzhengdeaiqing。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？shubuzhishishishang，dikejihanliangdeaicaisuanshiyizhongzishende，taobizerendeganqing。

 shuobailejishuxing，bingbushijininazheyiben《lianaizhinan》，shengbanyingtao。zhishishinizairenshengdaoluxuxuduoduodebuchenggongzhong，chixuxiqujingyan，jiangzheizhongfengfude、yubierenjiaowangdegongzuojingyanheconghuileijiqilai，yongyuxuanzeyigefeichangzhidezuiaideren，erqiehaohaoai，zhangqidiai。

 chedihushijishuxingzhijiangjuede，zongshijinilvbailvzhan，jiniyizhuanghunyinyuanfendejilvxiangdangyubishangyandounengzhongwubaiwanjujiang;meiyoujishuxingdetanlianai，bingbuyiweizhechunzhenyuzhenzheng，zhiyouyiweizhenimeiyouchengzhangxing。

说白了恋爱的技术，大致包括了下列好多个层面。

选拔人才的技术性

 jiarumoushiqinghaodebuxiangqueshi，neimatashiyoubajiujiubingbushiqueshi。ruguonijuedezishensuotuofeiren，neibuyidingshiyouyunibuxing，henkenengxiyinzhunidebianshitongyizhongleidenanhaizi。

 zainidiyicipengdaozheixieyiyude、gudande、tianyanmiyuhuoshixiaocuochixudenanrenshi，shibushinijingchangchuziyuyizhongmuxingdebenneng，qudangzuozhananzhengjiuzheyulangzhezhongjizhe?danshichiguoyiliangcikuihouniyejiuyingdanggaoqingchu，zheixieyijianxiabianjifaniweihuchongdongdenanren，yidingbushihezuonilaogong。yeyouyizhongnanren，tamendeqinggantiwenpimeihuojianshengkong，zheileirenyiyangbunengxin。youyuhenkenengdangtashuodaobuainishi，zishiyehuiyiyangkuai。shijishang，buguannihuanshita，qinggantiwenguokuai，quanshidikejihanliangganqingdeyuzhao。xuanbarencaidejishuxingguanjiandianshi：jiarunidezongtimubiaobujinshitanlianai，neima，xuanyigeshihederenjingzhengxingtanpanyigenizuiaiderengengguanjian。xiashuguilvnenggouxiezhuninenggougenghaodirenqinglingyifangdeyixieshizhi。

 1.shiyingshengguilv。dangdajiazaiyiqishi，taduishiyingshengdexintai，henkenengbianshihunhoutaduinidexintai。shizhongbuyaoxiangxinzheixieduibierenkuangzao，zhiduiniyigerenhaoderen。

 2.babamamaguilv。tababamamashibushixiangaibingbushizhiguanzhongyaodewenti，guanjianshitamenshibushimingbaiyouxiaozhizefengong，xianghubaorong，jiarutababaconglaibujiawulaodong，neima，ninanyijixiwangyuhunhoutaxiangyaojiawulaodong。

 3.piaoliangmeinvguilv。yexunirenweizouzailushangconglaibutoukanmeinvdenanrenshilixianghuadelaogong，dankeguanshishizhenghaoxiangfan，jiarudajiazouzaiyiqishi，tashizhongmubuxieshi，neiwufashuomingtazhuanyi，zhiyoubiaomingtajubeiqiangjingdexuqingjiayixinlizhuangtai，jurannenggoujibaixiangkanmeinvdebennengfanying。

 4.wenjuandiaochaguilv。duotiwentishilejieyigerendejindao，suiran“nideqiannvyouhaokanme”bingbushiyigehaonanti，shubuzhi，jiaruotadehuiyingshi“tayoupangyouchouhuanshigeduiyan”，chongzuxianxianchuzheishiyigexinxiongxiaai，qianquesuzhidenanren。

紧抓他的技术性

jiangjishuxingbingbuyiweizhexuqingjiayi。zhengyouyuniaita，caihuixiangyaoquxuexiaidejishuxing。

 zaiganqingzhong，yueyoushiminggandenanrentongchangyuelixing。“wanxialuobuming”“shengchanzhizaodisanzhe”dengzhemoyounverendeshoujiyouxi，queshihenyoukenenglinshilingqinggantiwen，shubuzhi，tazhiheshihaimeiyouzhangdaledenanren。wanshandenanrenburongyigenju“woxihuanni”zheisangezilaifenbianshibushinitayaozhaoderen。jiaruniyaoyuyiweiwanshandenanrenjieguoshi，neimejiuwubibawoshitayulaiyuyilainidejishuxing。aijinjinyichangreqing，eryilaihuibianchengyizhongxiguanxing，xianeryijian，zuizhangqidejihudoubingbushiai，zhishixiguanxing。

 jishuxingguanjiandian：jiaruninengzaiganqingzhongyingyongjishuxing，hendangran，tayehuidanshijilao，dajiademudibingbingbushiyaobalingyifangpiannadao，zhishiyaolinglingyifanghuanle。ninengneimezuo：

 1.zaitayouyufancuowueryumenshi，duitashuo“nihenbang”。youyuzaicizhizeyigezaoyilejiedaozishenbuzhengquedenanren，burongyikanqilainigenggaochao，zhiyoubiaomingnijishuxingdi。

 2.congdajiamingquelianaiguanxidiyitianqi，kaishixuexiyixiangshengcunjineng。zuotiandian、zuomeican、anmobaojian……zheizhongzhuanyejinenghuijinikanqilaihenxiangshoushenghuo，ermeirenhuihuijueyuxiangshoushenghuoderenzaiyiqi。tuiyibujiang，jibian tanlianaishibai，zuishaonihuodeleyixiangzhuanyejineng。

 3.wajuedajiadexiangtongdian。youdiaoyanzhengshinanrenbinvrengengxiainannvguanxi，neishiyouyutamengengzhuzhongkeyiyuqinglvyiqizuoshiqing。