xiaochenanpengyoufenshouhoushifenyouyi,lianggerenyuehaozuoyibanpengyou。xiaochuiyingdanshen,hepengyouhenhendifengwanleyizhenzi,xiadayu,rangqianrenlaisongsan、hezuijiurangqianrensonghuijiale,tahaihenyinyiweihaodihezishendezhiyouxianbai:kanzhewozheitichufenshoufende,huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?dajiaquanshishaoleyigeqinglv,woshiduoleyigepenyou。
1•一定要历经充足长的冷静期
rang2gexiangshenaiderenzaiduanqineineihuranbianweiyibanpengyou,jibenshangshibutaikenengde。rendeqingganbutaikenengxiangdianyuankaiguanneiban,xiangyaokaigejiukaixiangguanshiguan。youyigejiaofa,fenshouhoudeshangkouxiufushijiantanlianaishijiandeyiban。huanjuhuashuotanle6geyuedetanlianai,fenshouzhihouyao3geyuecaikeyixiufu。ziranzheibutaikenengshishifenjingzhunde,jinjinyigedazhideguilvxing。keshidabufen,yaodengfenshouhouhou6geyuezaigangkaishikaolvdaozuopengyou。zheiershuode6geyuejiushizhimeiyouyiqiefangshidelianluo,meiyoudianhua,meiyoudianziyouxiang,meiyou“haihaoma”neiyangdeduanxiaoxi。jinyouneiyangchedimeiyoulianluode6geyuenicaikeyilejiexinshoufazhanqushixinganqing。jiaruguoquleneiyiduanshijian,niyaoxiangpangbianrenzuopengyou,neinijiunenggoukaishile。
2•明智地挑选场所
youhuolishiyigehenyouqudedongxi。youshitajibenshangshijuebuxiaotui。henyoukenengnilaibaomingcanjiachuzhongbiye30zhouniandelaotongxuejuhui,jianniyimianhenzaoyiqiandeqianren,duitayeyouzaodongdejuede,rutonghenduonianqianni16suideqingkuangxiayiyang。zheileixiyinzhuhuiyizhiliudaonaohaizhongbingqiebeishouzang。jiadingnirujinzaoyidengle6geyue,youyujiannideqiannanyou,dajiayougangkaishishuluoqilai。xiangyixiangxiabianjileiqingjing:
yiqunpenyouyiqiqukanzuqiusaishi,yeli12dian——fengxianxingzhishuzhidi
dajialianggerenzaixingbakekafei,zhongwu1dian——fengxianxingzhishuzhidi
hexiaohuobanmenyiqichiwancan,zhongwuliudian——fengxianxingzhishuzhizhongdengshuiping
huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?gongzuozhongyanhuihou,zhongwuliudian——fengxianxingzhishuzhigao
shengengbanyezhuojiu,yeli10dian——zheijiushizuosi!
jiushisemeiren,heqiannanyouquyinjiuxiangdangyudaizhuyigejingyanlaodaodelaobaofuhui,fengxianzhishuzhiyouduoda?
3•创建不一样的规范
xiaochenanpengyoufenshouhoushifenyouyi,lianggerenyuehaozuoyibanpengyou。xiaochuiyingdanshen,hepengyouhenhendifengwanleyizhenzi,xiadayu,rangqianrenlaisongsan、hezuijiurangqianrensonghuijiale,tahaihenyinyiweihaodihezishendezhiyouxianbai:kanzhewozheitichufenshoufende,dajiaquanshishaoleyigeqinglv,woshiduoleyigepenyou。zhizhiyouyitianxiaoczongsuanyongyouxinshangren,dangtagaozhizishendeqianrenyihou,qianrengangkaishibujiedianhua、buhuiduanxiaoxile,xiaochenshengqi“naxiepenyou!”xiaocdeguizhongmiyoumenhenwunai“laodajie,nishishuangyanchulenantihuanshinaozijinshuile?”yinci ,fenshoujiusuanzaizuopengyou,niyeyaoyouyigeshifende“penyouguifan”,jiarudajiayaozuopengyou,yixiexiangchudefangfayaogaibian。liru:
“晚上吃的哪些?”
“meiyoushiyuyebiechitaiduolade。”
“在干啥?”
“xiadayu,nidaisanlemeiyou?”
“mingrijianwen,zhuyibaonuan。”
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haijide,nibushibaoxiantuixiaoyuan,bubisuishisuidiwusifengxiannideguanzhuhejiqing,zheizhongwenhaozaoyichaoyueledajia“qinglvqiwanbi、penyouxianmeiman”dedaodedixian,youjuhuazenmejiangde?kandaiqiannanyou,yaoxiangqiufengluoyeyiyang,tianliuwomeiliu!
erruguonishinagejiedaowenhaoderen,qingjilaofenshouzhihoudehaoduogebiaozhun:sancaoxianxingzhengce。
haomabuchihuitoucao——niquwoxinnikendingbuhuizou,woyigerenzouworuguonibulaiguo。tuzibuchiwobiancao——jianshifangkai,bubiyouyufenshouhouerjiqiecongshenpangzuishuxiderenzhongxunzhaonidelingyiban,zaiduokanyixia,duoxiangyixiang,bubicaijigeyuedeshijianjiubaqiannanyoubianweiqianqiannanyoule……
tianyahechuwufangcao——lai,gaikanyixiaqianbiandeshanlinle!
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