花镇情感机构正规吗?迟迟不和不适合恋人分手的几大原因

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，dajiadoulejieyiduanqingganheshizoulaidaozhongdianzhan——buyuangoutongjiaoliu、meiyouhuanle、meiyouhuanxiaosheng、meiyoushentijiechu、meiyouqingyi、yeyoutamenchanshengdewuqiongwujinyiyuzheng……zuihou2gexinhuaiguitaiderengangkaishitiantianguoqi“nitongwopaixi，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?woshouyiyibiaoyan”derichangshenghuo，kanjiantamenneiyanghuxiangcuican，woqueshigaobudong，zheishiweishenme?

•习惯性•

 xiguanxingyouduokongbu?jugeshili，gebidelinjujialiyouduishifenqinfenducuxiaohailiangangqindebabamama，yizhiyumeirizaoshang6:30～7:10(dagaishixiaohaitiqianzhunbeinianshuyiqianba)wodoushihuibeixiaohaidexueqinxiangshengnongxing，chongfenkaolvzuolinyoushejiandehemujiqixiaopengyoudejiqing，woyubiedegebilinjuduizheishizuihoutiaoxuanlerenshou。gangkaishidejirihennanguo，hennaonu;guojitiangangkaishiganjuebutaizaiyile，bingqiejichuyebuhuiyingxiangwodeyiqiezhengchangrichangshenghuole;rujinjiarunaizhibixukeyiqutingcaihui“qingting”daogangqindeshengyin。kongbudeshi，jiarunatianxiaohaimeiyouliangangqin，wonengyouyizaoshangwuyuanwugudequeshaogan，zongganjueshaoledianshenme。

 renchangshuoyigexiguanyangchengbixuershiyitian，jiarunichixuzaiershiyitianjienafanfudecijixing，neimaershiyitianyihouniyejiuhuichedijienazheiyicijixing，jiusuantashigerangrenbuyukuaidecijixing，erdangzheiyicijixingxiaotuideqingkuangxia，niyaobixuershiyitianlaijienazheiyikeguanshishi。

 jiaruganjuezaoyihetazoulaidaozhongdian，neimaqingbuyaoyouyuxiguanlingyifangdecunyouerzaochengjiangjiudexinlizhuangtai，yaolejienengjiangjiudedoubingbushijiangjiuchuqude，huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?bukeyijiangjiudezuihoudoujiangmeifajiangjiu。jiaruzhishishiyouyuxiguanxingerjinibukengaibianxiankuang，neimazaozhongwannixuyaojizijidezheiyikesuxingfuchuyingyoudedaijia。rujinnagexiaohaizidagaishishengxuekaoshile，keyejiaolvbuandemeikongxueqinleba!meirizaoshangliudianbanwoxinglaishiyihouzaichuangshangdouhuiqianyishipiaodaozheiyigousishanglai。

jilao“wozhishixiguanyouleni，bingbingbushifeinibuai。”

•情面•

“jiarutarenlejietashuailewo，wogaiduodiumianzi。”

“jiarutarenlejiewoshuaileta,shifouhuijuedewoshigeshuixingyanghua/xinhuaibuguideren?”

“jiarutarenlejiewomenfenshoule，biwenwoweishenmedeqingkuangxiawogaizenmehuida?’，

“jiaruzaijieshangpengdaotadepenyougaiyouduonankan?”

……

 womenzhongguorenshigedui“qingmian”jiweiguzhiderenzhong。youduoguzhi?yaoduoguzhiyouduoguzhi。youxierenhuiweilegenghaodiqingmianerzailaotongxuejuhui、laoxianghuidengchangsuojielichuipengzishendezaojiu、gongzidaiyu、yingxianglinaizhiluomanshi。wangwangneimehaomianzi，zhibuguoshibuyuantarenyouyuzishenmoucengmiande“bugou”erqiaobuqizishen，yinci ，henduorenweilegenghaodibaochinage“youzhexingfuganqing、jiatinghunyin”de“qingmian”，meirishouzhezishenneicanjiubukande“lizi”guoshenghuo。yeyourenyouyuzishenheairenfenleshouerzhudongcongzheixiecengyinzhengzishenxingfuhunyindequntizhongxiaotui。shijishang，woqueshixianggaosuni，fenshou，meishier;beishuaile，meishier;youyumeifazaicilikaita,yemeishier，youyu“meiyousheihuikanbuqini，tarenyagenjiumeiyouqiaoni。dajiadoubijiaomangde。”

•投入过多，不甘•

 youyigexiangduixingting“yemen”dehaogemenchajuezijixiangchuhenduoniandenvpengyoujingranjiaocaidebujintazheiyitiaochuan，keshilianggerenzaoyilinglezheng，yemailaixinfang，zheijiaorenqingyihekan?

 yincizaihedahuoerheguowushuchang“fenshouhoushushuo、jiandingbuyixinxin、shuailetazan18tianhouyeshiyitiaoliangshanhaohan”dejiuyihou，dajiadouyugulikejiangtingjianlianggerentichufenshoudexinxi。suiyuerushuiliubancongcongmangmangerguo，guoqubannian，dajiayemeiyoutingjiannagexinliqidaitingjiandexinxi。zongsuanyouxierenjinbuzhubazheiyijianbenlaibuyinggaibaishangchujutaimiandeshierlijiyonglaizhiyizheihaogemenle，dahuoercaizhidaotashi“nanweiyuejizheqiong”dedianxingxingyiweizhe，henduonianlaizainvyoudeshenshangdehuaxiaojiqizheiciyizhizaichouhuazhongdehunyanjibenshanghuawanletadequanbucunkuan，wangwangbutichufenshou，bingbushiyouyubushede，zhishiyouyubugan。

 jiarunimaihuilaiyikuairouzhunbeijianzhechi，yincinibaihaoyou，diaohaojiangzhi，mailaipingcanqianjiu，haiteyipeilejishuzhuanyedexicantingshukongdaopian，zaitiqianzhunbeiguodeqingkuangxianiyaoyibuxiaoxintanglaidaoshou，kaijiudeqingkuangxiahaigaozangcanzhuobu，diyijiebaxialaihaiyaodaoshetou，suihounifajueroushichoude。jiaruniyouyunizaoyizaizheifangmianroushangxiaohaoleguoduodeyuancailiaoheshijian，tourulehendadechengbenerjuecebatatunxiaqu，neiqingjiangzheigegushixiangxidifushuyibaigeren，haojinibaochiqingxingdiyishidaozheiyouduoyumei。jiarunijiandaozheierhaiganjuezheiyihaogemendezuofahenqiadang，neimeniwuxufushule，nicaisuanshizuiyuchunderen，jueshengdianfeng。

•如果分手，再碰到的人或许还比不上这个呢•

 youshi，“jiaru”zheigedongxihuimouhairende。dangchuxichubawangxiangyuzaixiaohebianxiangdejiudagaibianshi“jiaruhuilaikandaojiangdongfulao，jiarutamengenwoshuoshibushiweiyeyishi，wogaizenmezuo?”sunshangxiangdayuexiangdeshi“jiaruxichubawangxiangyuqushile、bawohangaozuliubangbawozhule，wogaizenmezuo?”nikankan，xiaochende“jiaru”zaocheng debidingshixiaochendejieguoyitamenliangdouneishale。

 nikankanbierenhangaozuliubang，xiangdebianshiyijianshi：“jiaruruguobaxichubawangxiangyuzhengsile，wogaizenmehengsaotianxia。”nikankanrenlvzhi，xiangdebiranshi：“woyaodanghuanghouniangniang!”yiyijijizhudongdeyuqihuodejijizhudongdejieguo。

 haodesiweimoshijuecechenggongyushibai，jiaruniyizhizaiyingduizhedangjinzheiyifenjinibuzuquexinnengjianchidaodideqinggan，xiangqideshi“zaizhaoyigehaibibushangzheiyi”，neidangranninengtiaoxuanrenxiaqu;jiaruniyaodeshi“yaoshigentafenli，zaipengdaoderuheyehuibitahao”，neimeniyidinghuitiaoxuanbaituozheiyifenbuyinideqinggan。yinci ，dangjianglaihaijinjingeweizhiliang，bunengyongnizijidexiaojitaiduqujiedingta。

认可相互不适合的胆量

 ziran，tanlianaibianshi2gelazhepijinerderen，fushangdetongchangshibukenfangkaishoudezheiwei。xuduo qingkuangxia，dajiatongchangbuyuanyirenkezishenshinagezuizhongbukenfangkaishouderen。jiarunibeijushibufangshouderen，neimawojianyinizaicikanyixiaqianbianwotijideshili，jiarudajiaqueshibunengzaiyiqi，buyidingjiushiniduobutaihao，yebuyidingshitayouduobutaihao，queshibianshixianghubuyi，zheigeshihounixuyaodebianshilejiedaozheiyidian。

 daodiruhelaifenbianniyunidetashifoushihedeyidui?zheimeiyoufangzhisihaierjiezhundeguifan，keshiruguonijuededajialiangrenzhongjianchuxianlexialiedenanti，bianshixiangyaonisikaodeqingkuangxiale。

 zuixian，lejiezishenqidaicongqingganzhonghuodeshenme。huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?dajiachangchangjiandaodeganqinglizhishujidougaozhidajia，zaigangkaishiyiduantanlianaiyiqian，dajiabixuxianqingxidilejiezishenyaodeshisha。keshizheigewentijiufangfoershikaoshimeiyoukaohao，jiaoshixunwenni“nilejieniweishenmemeiyoukaohaome”shinidejuede。womenzhidaoyaokaohao，yelejiekaobutaihaohenbutaihao，keshidajiabuqingchuzennengkaohao，ruheyounengfangzhikaobutaihao。yiyang，womenzhidaodajiabixuganqing，dajiayelejiedajiacongganqingzhonghuihuodexuduo ，keshiyaodajiashijishuoyishuodajianengcongganqingzhonghuodedeshisha，dajiaqueyouwufadechuzhunquedehuida。zhenduidabufenrenlaijiang，ganqingnengshouyutamendewupinguanjianyou：huanle、xinrengan、guishugan、xinxin、reqing……

 jiarunihelingyifangzaiyiqigangkaishiyuelaiyuehuanlediyutongchu，jiarunigangkaishiganjuehelingyifangzaiyiqimeiyourangjinixinrengan，jiarulingyifangdexintaigangkaishijiniganjuequefaanquangan，jiarunihelingyifangzaiyiqishizhiganjuebuzixinhuoshiganjuetahuifangqini，jiarudajiazaiyiqideqingkuangxiapingpingchangchang……neimagujinibixusisuoniyulingyifangdeguanlianshibushihenixiangxiangzhongdeneimajizhile。

 cizhi，nixuyaosikaozaizheiliduanqingganzhongdajiabicidetianpingchengshibushijunheng。ganqingbingbushijianyidefuchuyushouhuo，jinyouliangrenzai“shi”、“shou”zuodaoxiangduixinghemu，zheiyiduanqinggancaikeyibaochizhangqi。jiarujinjindanfangdetouru，lingyifangqueweicengyoushouyihuozheshouyidexiangfa，neimaneiyangdebupinghengleijizuizhongbidinghuiyiliekaishouwei。