第三者上位，怎么样挽回婚姻？

 disanzheshangwei，zenmeyangwanhuihunyin？zenme wanhuilaogongdexin ?meigenvrendouxiwangzijidehunyinxingfumeiman，dandang“disanzhe”chuangruzijiyuanbendehunyinshenghuo，zonghuiyoubiaoxiandecuoshoubujihuozhezuochupianjixingweideshihou，yincihuishiyongyixiecuowudefangfalingjumianjiajuehuashenzhizuihou“disanzhe”shangweichenggong。neimejiexialaihexiaobianyiqikanyixiahuazhenqingganzhuanjiazongjiechulaidesizhaoguanyuzenyangwanhuilaogong。

一、找出并改正自身问题，适当学习第三者的优点

 disanzheshangwei，zenmeyangwanhuihunyin？nishifouyouxiangguonilaogongweishenmehuichugui?zhendezhishitayigerendewentima?suhuashuodehao“yigebazhangshipaibuxiangde”。yaozhidaozhiyoudangyigenvrenbunengmanzunanrendexuqiushihou，tacaihuizaiwaimianzhaoqitanvrenlaimibusuoqueshide。

 renzhenxiangyixiangnishifouyoujiyutayigejiatingyinggaiyoudeganjue，shifouyoujiyutananrenyingyoudezunyan，shifoumeiyouzhuyizijidedabanrangtaxiangshoumeideganjue...cangyingbudingwufengdejidan，yexuzhengyinweiniqueshaozheixiecaihuirang“disanzhe”youjikechen。

 zenyangwanhuilaogongdexin，zheishinijiuyaochenjixuexi”disanzhe“shenshangdeyoudianle，congerwanhuilaogong。erqienibunengmangmudiquzenghenta，zhengyinweitayounimeiyoudecaikeyibanilaogongxiyinguoqu。

付出这么多为何他如此无情?情感诊断能不能挽回

二、扩大交友圈，重塑自己的魅力

zenyangwanhuilaogong？faxianlaogongdexinyijingbuzainishenshang，buzaizheigejiale，nizonghuixiangzhezenyangcainengwanhuilaogongdexinni?

 qishinikeyirenzhendikanyixiaziji，rijianfahuangdepifu，zouyangdeshencai，qiaocuidemianrong，shixiangxia，yigerenzhidongzaijiazuojiawudehuanglianpoheyigejidongdedalijiatingzaiwaiyoubushifengcaidenvren，tahuizenyangxuanze?meilishinvrendeziben，dongdejujiadetongshiyeyaoxuehuidabanziji，bingqieyaokuodazijijiaoyouquan，rangzijishenghuogejufengfuqilai，xiangtazhanshizijimeilirengranjuda，zuihoutacaihuibeinidemeilixiyinhuilai。

三、坚守自己正室的地位

 youhenduonvrenzaimianduilaogongchuguideshihou，bushixiangzheyaozenyangwanhuilaogongdexin，ershiyiweixuanzezhudongtuichujiunengranglaogongcunyoukuijiugancongerhuixinzhuanyihuozherang“disanzhe”juedexiukuierlikaizijilaogong。qishinicuole，huoxukeyirangnilaogongyoukuijiugan，danbijingnixuanzezhudongtuichubingqieduifangjiranxuanzedang“disanzhe”jiuyijingduibierendekanfabuhuizhongshi，tahuiyongyixiehuayanqiaoyubanilaogongdekuijiuganyangaiguoqu，ranhoushunlichengzhangdeshangwei。

 suoyiyidingyaojianshouzijizhengshidediwei，rangduifangzhidaonicaishihenilaogongyiqizouguofengyu，jinglirenshengderen，nicaishitaweiyideairen，ruguozheishinilianzijidediweidoufangqidehua，zhendejiuluobaile，zhendekenengzaiyemeiyoujihuikeyiwanhuile。