情感口述：如何维护彼此的情感空间

 yiduanganqingxiangyaozoudezhangyuanjiuyaogongtongweihubicideqinggankongjian，jiaqiangqingganjiaoliu。jiexialai，huazhenqingganxiaobianqinggankoushuxia ，ruheweihubicideqinggankongjian，jiaqiang qingganjiaoliu dejigejiqiao。

一、 要谈就要有诚意的谈

wulunmianduihezhongqingkuang，zhiyaodangshibuxianggoutong，jiuyoubugoutongdequanli。

 daizhefanzaoyufennuqutanrenheshi，douhenrongyidaozhizhengchaochongtu，shishiqinggengnanchuli。daizhejiaolvyudanyouqutanrenheshi，huishipeiouyeyouzheigeqingxu。

 suoyi，ruguozaineiyikenibuxiangyuduifanggoutong，keyixianlengjingyixia，danshiwomenxuyaodongdecaiyongshidangdebiaodafangshi。niyaomingbaifuqibixuweichigoutong，xianzaibutan，yinggaijiduifangshenmeshihoutandechengnuo，erqieshimingquedechengnuo，erbushi“dengwoxinqinghaolezaishuoba”zheiyangdechengnuo。

二、客套话也要说得恰到好处

keqihuashibiaoshinidegongjingheganji，suoyiyaoshikeerzhi。

ruguoduifangshijingyoutarenjianjietingdaonidechengzan，binizhijiegaosubenrengengduoleyifenjingxi。

xiangfandi，ruguoshipipingduifang，qianwanbuyaotouguodisanzhegaosudangshiren，bimianjiayoutiancu。

(yuyixingxiangchudeguochengzhong，nishibushiyehuiyudaolingnifannaodenanti?zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme?

三、 支持伴侣，就算他/她做得并不完美

 zaizhongrenmianqian，dangbanlvshuocuolehua，buyaomashanggengzhengta/ta。yinggaidenghuidaojializhiyoulianggeren，bingqieliangrendouzaizhengmiandeqingxuzhuangtaizhongshi，zaigaosuta/ta。

 gengjinyibulaishuo，dangbanlvzaimouxieqingkuanglizuoyixiejuedinghuozhexingwei，zhiyaobushihuiyinqiyanzhonghouguo(lirufanfa)huozhedaijiataigaode(lirudaliangjinqiandesunshi)，jiuzhichita/ta。liruzouzaimaludezheibianhuoneibian、ta/taxiangmaiyijianxihuandewupindeng。dangliangrenzaiyiqishi，ruonizongnengzhichita/tadexuanze，ta/tayehuiyizhichinizuoweihuibao。

 youshi，ta/tameinengzuochudexuanze，nikeyigaosuta/tazenyangcaihuigenghao。ruguota/tabujieshou，buyaojianchinidekanfa，quanlibangzhuta/tashixingta/tadejueding。dangjieguozhengmingnishiduide，ta/tabianhuixinfukoufu，tongshiganshoudaoniduita/tadezhichile。

四、避免不该说出口的回答

 xiangshi：buduiba，yinggaishi……zheizhonghuaxiandeniguyizaizhaocha。lingwai，womenyechangshuo：tingshuo…，ganjuejiuxiangshinidaotingtushuodelaidexiaoxi，youshixinyi。