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什么是有福之人

youfuderenyeshiyongqingzuishenderen,yongzijidezhenzhideqingganduidaitaren,neishenmeshiyoufuzhirenni?tamenyoushenmetezhengni?

一、活在当下

shenmeshiyoufuzhirenni?cengguofanshuo:“jiwangbulian,dangxiabuza,weilaibuying。”

 “jiwangbulian”,guoquledejiurangtaguoqu,wulunshiqingganshangdeaihenqingchou,haishiwuzhishangdekunkuxile,douwuxuniannianzaihuai,rangqiyingxiangxianzaidexinqinghexingwei,guoquledeyijingwufagaibian,yinkezaishenxinzhongdeyewuxukeyimoshahuobaoliu,quliusuiyi。

什么是有福之人

“weilaibuying”,wuxuweiweilaizuokeyideqipan,keyideqiqiu,yaolaidezongshihuilai,bulaideyingwukeying。

 “dangxiabuza”,haohaotiyan、ganshoucishicikederenhewu,zuohaocishicikederenheshi,buyaozaizuoguyoupanzhong,cishicikeyouchengweile“jiwang”。

 mihuoderenhuozaiguoqu,shewangderenhuozaiweilai,zhiyouqingchederenhuozaidangxia。guoqudewufawanliu,aitanyemeiyong,buruxuehuifangxia;weilaihaimeiyoulaidao,youwushukenengxing,wangqiuyemeiyouyong,tuzengfannao;huozaidangxia,caigengyoukenengchongshidiguohaomeiyitian。

 dongdehuozaidangxiaderenshiyoufude,buyaotaixiangnianguoqu,yintahuijinidailaibeishang;buyaotaisikaoweilai,yintahuidaijinikongju;yongweixiaohuozaidangxia,tahuidailaixile。

什么是有福之人

二、知足常乐

 kuailejiushikandanchenshidewuyu、fannao,zhizuchangle。renshengyichang,bierenyaohaozhaibieshu,wozhiyaofenghuaxueyue,chuiladanchang;huapengshideng,xiaozuoweizui;qinggeyiqu,cuchayibei,zideqile。

 pinganshixing,zhizushifu,qingxinshilu,guayushishou。xuqiuyuexiao,ziyouyueduo;shehuayueshao,shushiyueduo。zuoyigejiandanderen,tashierwushi,buchenniyuhuanxiang,buquyongrenzirao。

什么是有福之人

 renzhixinxiong,duoyuzezhai,guayuzekuan。ningkeqingpinzile,bukezhuofuduoyou。zhuzhaishushifangbianjiuxingle,hebifeiyaoloushanglouxia。xiapanxiangqi,dadapuke,yanghuaweiyu,shanlinzouzou,xiangshouziranzhimeibushihenhaoma?

 shouenshenchuyixiantui,deyinongshibiankexiu。fanshiqiadaohaochu,renqingshiyongyicishaoyici,biezhiwangbierenhuiyongyuanduinihao,yongyuanqianjiuni!renbukenengyibeizifengguangwuxian、chunfengdeyi,shengshichangzuoshuaishixiang,shangchangdangnianxiachangshi!

 shibukeshijin,fubukexiangjin,bianyibukezhanjin,congmingbukeyongjin。dedaoxinran,shiqububei;jibuwangqiu,yebujujue;laiqusuiyuan,ziranerran;deyijinhuan,shiyidanran;yuanlaiyuanqu,zhangkongbaiyun。

 xiaokanfengyundan,zuokanyunqishi,buzhengjiushicibei,bubianjiushizhihui,buwenjiushiqingjing,bukanjiushizizai,yuanliangjiushijietuo,zhizujiushifangxia。

三、能动能静

 “liushuibufu,hushubudu。”changliudeshuibufachou,changzhuandemenzhoubuzaochongzhu。renyinggaichongmanhuoli,jingchanghuodongjingu,xuehuixiangshoushenghuo,xiaiyiqiemeihaodeshiwu,zanmeibingxiangshoutamensuodailaidemeihao,erdangkunnanlailinshi,yongweixiaoqumiandui,yongzhihuiqujiejue。

 “jingnengshenghui,ningjingzhiyuan。”jingshiduishisudechaotuo,shiduiminglidebingqi。zhiyouzuodaojing,cainengxujinganxian,huiyankantoushijie。renshengdezhenziwei,zhiyouchenjingderencainengpinchangdedao;shijiandeyiqieyuanyouheguisu,zhiyouchenjingderencainengkandetouchemingle;tianxiadeyiqiezhenqingshijing,zhiyouchenjingderencainengshuodezhenqie。

 “jingruchuzi,dongrutuotu。”jinengpashanpanyan,yenengfenxiangdanqin;jinenghuihanruyu,paoqianpaohou;yenengxinruzhishui,xinbupangwu;jinengduanjushinei,zhengjinweizuo;yenenghuwaisaye,wantongjuzhi。renjiuyinggaiyouyizhong“yizhuangyixie,nengdongnengjing”debenshi。

 gurenshuo:“nengdongnengjing,suoyizhangsheng。”dongyiyangxing,jingyiyangshen,xingshenjianyang,keyizhangsheng。nengdongnengjingderenyoujiankangdeshentihebaomandejingshen,shentihao,weikouhao,chimamaxiang,dangranshiyoufuderen。

四、悲天悯人

 beitianminrenshibaoyide,danshibeihenduorenwuyiweishibianyide。tadeyisishijingchanggantanshenghuodejiannan,lianminbierendedekutong。yinweishanliang,youbeiminqinghuaiderenhenmingan,shishangzongyouzaoyubuxingderen,neixiebuxinghuichupengdaotadexinling。

 youbeitianminrenqinghuaiderenshiyoufude,yinweitadexinzhongchangcunshannian,yurenweishan,erweishanzhonghuiyouhaobao。beiminjiuxiangyitiaoshanliangdeheliu,chengqingzheyanludefengchen,tabuyidingjirendailaixingfu,yebuyidingjishi,danyidingyouguang,yidingbanzhegandong。erdangbeiminnenggoubuzhizhenduirenlei,yenengkuodadaohangaiyiqiewanwushengmingshi,cainengshanyaochuzuihuihongshensuiderenxingguanghui!

 《caigentan》:“lujingzhaichu,liuyibuyurenxing;ziweinongde,jiansanfenrangrenchang,cishisheshiyijilefa。”zaixiazhaidexiaolushangxingzou,yaoliuyibudedifangrangbierenzou;yudaomeiweikekoudeshiwu,yaoliuchusanfenrangjibierenchi。zijiguodebucuo,rangbierenyeguodequ;zijiyouhaochu,rangbierenyedexiehaochu。

beitianminrendeqinghuai,shiyizhongshanliang,shiyizhongrenxingdegaogui,tongshiyeshiyigerenlishenchushizuianquan、zuikuailedefangfa。

五、孝顺父母

 “tangqianfumudarutian,xuzhiwanshanxiaoweixian。”yigerenlianhanxinrukubazijiyangdadefumudoubuai,zenmenengxiangxintahuiyouyikeganendexin;yigerenduifumudoumobuguanxin,hennanxiangxintahuiduibangzhubierenchongmanreqing。

 gurenhaiyouyijuhua,“baishanxiaoweixian,lunxinbulunxing”,yongqingzuishenderenjiushishuo,pingjiayigerenshibushizhenzhengdexiaoshun,yaokantashizenmexiangde,kantadexiaoshunshibushifazineixinde,erbushikantazenmezuode。

 yigebaiwanfuwengrangfumuzhuzuiguideyanglaoyuan,chuandeyifu,chidedongxi,queconglaibukanwangtamenyiyan,tasuozuodeyiqielixiaoshunhaichadeyuan;yigeqiongdejiebukaiguodeerzi,meitianyixinyiyizhaogunianlaodefumu,tadexiaoshundangzhiwukui。

 erxiaoshunfumuderenshiyoufude,mengzishuo:“shisusuoweibuxiaozhewu,duoqisizhi,bugufumuzhiyang,yibuxiaoye;boyihaoyinjiu,bugufumuzhiyang,erbuxiaoye;haohuocai,siqizi,bugufumuzhiyang,sanbuxiaoye;congermuzhiyu,yiweifumulu,sibuxiaoye;haoyongdouhen,yiweifumu,wubuxiaoye。”

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