先结婚后恋爱的保鲜秘诀

 nizantongxianjiehunhoulianaihaishixianlianaihoujiehun？youshihouyouxierenxianqianbugoulejie，yushijiehunhoulianai，danshiyinggaizenmeweichizheizhongyikaishibuyaolianaiyaojiehundeganqingni？bijingmeiyouaishijianchibuleduojiude。

一、婚前恋爱“零智商”，婚后恋爱“大智若愚”

nvrenchangchangduiaiqingbaoyouhuanxiang，lianaideshihouzhishangjihuwei“ling”，danshijiehunhou，kebunenghaishijixu“ruozhi”e。

 buyaolianaiyaojiehun，buyaozaishewangshengriorjinianrishoudaotadeliwu，buyaozaishewangtahuixiangchuzhongzhonglangmandezhaoshulaitaohaoni、quyueni，buyaozaishewangtabanidang“gongzhu”chongzhe、dang“nvshen”gongzhe，buyaozaishewangtahaibanidangchengyibennairenxunweideshupengzaishoulizixipindu。

 jiehunhoulianaideyaogaosuziji：meiyourenheaiqingnenggouyongyuan“baoxian”，hunhoudelianai，shixianshide，baduiaiqingdeyiqiehuanxiangjiangdi，jingjingdixiao！

二、婚前恋爱“零距离”，婚后恋爱“若即若离”

 reliandeshihou，lianggerenrujiaosiqi，erbinsimo，yifenyimiaoyebuyuanfenkai，jianzhijiushiduifangdeyingzi。aiqingzhongzuixiaohundechengnuojiushi：womencongcizhangxiangsishou！raner，jiehunzhihou，meitiancongzaodaowan，dayandengxiaoyan，nihainengkanchushenmehuayang？riziyichengbubian，bicileruzhizhang，xianghudexinxianganheshenmiganzhujianxiaoshidaijin。

 caoseyaokanjinquewu，“lingjuli”shenghuohuijianruoshuangfangdexiyinli，ruguolianggerenqinmidechabujinyigenzhen，gujilibaozhayejiubuyuanle。suoyi，aiqing，xuyao“zhongchangxiuxi”，xuyao“xiumianqi”，liangkouziwuxuxingyingbuli、qinmiwujian，jiduifangyidianziyouhuxideshijianhekongjian，ouerfenkaifenkai，sinianheqianguazhiqingjiuhuiyouranersheng，dangtuanjushi，cainengjixuaidenengliang、zhongranaidehuohua。

三、婚前恋爱“零缺陷”，婚后恋爱“睁眼瞎”

 “qingrenyanlichuxishi”，lianaideshihou，duifangdoushiwanmeide，liankantabiyiliangcedequeban，doujuedemeirubaihehuabanlisanluodexingxingdiandian。keshijiehunhou，neigezhengzheqiangzhepengzhehongzhefeiyaoqudaoshoude“baixuegongzhu”。

 xianjiehunhoulianaidejingguojiqiangeriyuedejiankumolian，bianchengle“zaokang”、“doufuzha”、“huanglianpo”；neigekuzhehanzhenizheningzhefeijiabukede“baimawangzi”，jingguojiqiangeriyuedecengcengpanbo，bianchenglelouxinangaibingxingnanyide“yanzhongding”、“rouzhongci”。

 dangchushuangfangcengfeijinxinsiyanshide“choumaobing”，huozhelianaishikeyibaorongdesuowei“guocuo”，jianjianzaihunhoupingdandeshenghuozhongdouchongfendibaoluchulaile，shenzhibeituxianfangda。cengjingshihuaqianyuexialangmanqianshoudeyidui，xianzaiqueweilejimaosuanpidexiaoshichuihuzidengyan，maiyuankezedaitiletianyanmiyu。

四、婚前恋爱“无话不谈”，婚后恋爱更要“谈”

 reliandelianggerenzongyoushuobuwandehua，tiannandibeishenliaohaikan，fengyuleidiangaotankuolun，congtongnianwangshishuodaoqingchunshiguang，congtiyumingxingshuodaodianshizhubo，congzhiyeguihuashuodaorenqingshigu，congsanguliuyishuodaozhupenggouyou，congwoainishuodaojiajiwo。hunhou，nayouzheimeduohuatia？zaojiubaduifangdediximodeyiqingerchu，zhenmeishashuode。