娶老婆到底为了什么 人为什么要结婚

 renweishenmeyaojiehun？jiehunweishenme？qulaopodaodiweileshenme？youxienanrenshuo，nilianzuofandoubuhui，yifuyexibuganjing，woquniyoushenmeyong？haiyouxienanrenhuijiayikanjianlaopomeizuofanjiukaishifahuo，shuozijileileyitianhuijialiankourefandouchibushang。

 danshi，woxiangshuoniqudeshilaopobushilaomazi，sheibushileileyitianni？zheijuhuashuodehao：nizhaolaopobushiweilenishenghaizi，shiweilegennixiangbandaolao。suoweifuqi，laogongbushiyizhongshenfen，ershiyizhongzeren；laopobushiyizhongnicheng，ershiyizhongshouhu。chengweiqinglvhuoxuzhixuyaoaiqing，danchengweijiarenquexuyaoliangrendefuchu、xishenghetuoxie。zaiyiqirongyi，zouxiaquhennan。

一、什么是家

 jiashifuqigongtongjingyingde，bianzhizhemenghekulasuantiandewo。jiabushiyigejiandandegainian，jiabushifangwu，bushicaidian，bushibingxiang，bushiwuzhiduiqiqilaidekongjian。jiaxuyaoyouaideqinren，xuyaoneifentebiedezhenqingshigan，lianggexianghuqianguaderenjiushijia。

二、婚姻就象一桌酒席

 zheishibaizaijiazhongdezuiweiguanjiandewenti。zaixianshishenghuozhong，haonanrenbuyidingnengqudaohaonvren，haonvrenyebuyidingnengjiadehaonanren，haonvrenhehaonanrenzaiyiqishenghuoyoubuyidingxingfu。

 jiehunweishenme？renyouqianzhong，shiyoubaitai，meigerendexingge、pinwei、suyangjiebutong，fuqixiangchudefangshijiubutong，yibaiduifuqiyouyibaizhongxiangchudefangshi。

 hunyinjiuxiangyizhuojiuxi——aishizhushi，kuanrong、lijie、xinren、zunzhongjiushiyidaodaocai，xinshang、youmo、quweijiushijiuheyinliao，zhiyoutongshijubeishangshujigepinzhongdejiuxi，caisuandeshangwanmeiwuquedejiuxi，danyuandajiazaihunyinzheizhuojiuxishang，chideanyi，chidetairan，chideyongjiu，zhidaoshengmingdezuihouyixi。

zhengsuowei，bainianxiudetongzhou，qiannianxiudegongzhen。sishisuiyihou，zhenzhengdefuqi，bushisheizhengfushei，ershisheiqianjiushei。

三、一对好的夫妻就应该是这样的

1、从一而终

 renweishenmeyaojiehun？sishisuiyihou，huixiangqilianggerenyiqishenghuozheimeduonian，xieshouzouguoneimeduodefengfengyuyu，shenghuoyemanmandiquyupingjing。zhanwangweilai，yemeiyoushenmekunnanbucengyudaoguo，meiyoushenmekanbunengguoqu。zuiyaojindeshi，qianhaoshenbianderen。caiji、huaiyi，shizuibuzhidede！yaozhidao，yidanchanshenglebuxinren，ganqingjiuhennanpojingzhongyuan。

 sishisuile，ernvdaduobuzaishenbian，jiatingzhongguilelianggerendeshenghuo。zheishihou，henshihequzuoyixienianqingshiweiwanchengdemeng。kanyichangdianying，songyifenyongxindexiaoliwu，huozaiciqianzhelaobandeshouqusanbu，dounengzhongxindianranajiqing！

2、不太过较真儿

 “buyaozhengfuduifang”zheishifuqizuizhongyaodewenti。zhengfu，shifuqizhijianjingchangfashengdeshiqing。tanlunsheishiduide，zhuijiusheishicuode！taolunsheishanghaileshei，sheiguofenle！zheixie，doushidaji。haofuqi，yongyuandouzaixianghuzhuangsha、xianghuzhuangxia、xianghuhuduan。nenggouhuduande，caishizhenai！

 ruguolianggerendoubuyuanyibiansha，doujingming，shenmeshidouyaononggejiujing、gaogemingbai，neizairichangshenghuozhong，kendingshizhanzhanjingjing，rulvbobing，huodeyidianyebuqingsong、bukuaile！

3、“fuqihe”，wanshixing

 fuqitongxin，huangtubianjin。jiashiwuduicuo，zhiyouhebuhe，“fuqihe”cainengjiahe，“jiahe”cainengwanshixing！fuqichengjia，zheigejiashijiangaidedifang，bushijianglidedifang。jianglidedifangshifating。jiashiyougenheyouhunde，erzheigenhehundouyoufuqizhangkong；nayifangmeizhangkonghao，douhui“shihe”。

 chaobuli，mabusan，dabuzou。zhiyouzheiyang，cainengbaochi“fuqiheqi”，cainengrangjiatingxingwang，jiayexingsheng，zinversunxiangshoufuze！yijuhua：fuqihe，wanshixing！

4、相互扶持

 ai，jiubieweinanduifang，bietiaotiduifang，biezhizeduifang，ershiyaoshashadijixuxiangban。sha，shiyinweiyiqizouguolezheimeduonian，zaojiuyijingjuedingle，rendingle。meiyoushenmexuyaozailejie、zaizhidao、zaigaijin、zaiwanshande！

 youjinbu，jiujieshou；meiyoujinbu，yejieshou。neime，sishisuiyihoudefuqizhiai，jiuzaineilile。yibeizi，nenggouyouyigeren，haohaoxiangai，shizhongxiangban，duomeia！sishisuiyihou，fuqiyeyaojixuxianghufuchi，xianghuzhaogu，xianghupeiban！

5、不忘初心

 zaiyiqishenghuolezheimeduonian，aiqingmanmandibianchengleqinqing，jiusuanlianggerenxianzaizaiyiqi，meiyouledangchudejiqing，neiyeqingbiewanglehaiyouganqing。dangnixiangyaofangshoudeshihou，youmeiyouxiangguodangchuweishenmepeitahuotazoudaolezheili？zaiyiqijiule，jiusuanmeiyoudangshineimexiangai，yeyaoxuanzejixuxiangshou，zheixiedouduibicizuodaolema？

 nvrendongxiangshou，nanrendongganen，caishiyibeizi。suoyi，sishisuiyihou，wulunruhe，yebiewanglehaiyouganqing。zaihonghonglieliedeaiqingyedibuguoshenghuodechaimiyouyan，zaijingtiandongdideshiyanyedingbuguobicidexianghupeiban。

 xiangairongyixiangshounan。jiaoshenglaopohenrongyi，jiaoshengtaitaiyebunan，danshijiaoshenglaotaipo，queshiyishengdechengnuo！womendeyisheng，yudaoderenhenduo，yujianxihuandebuyi，yudaoxiangaiderengengnan，xiangaiyounengzaiyiqigengshilaizhibuyi。

zuimeihaodejiejujiushi，nichengweilewodezeren，erwochengweilenideshouhu，rucixiangshouyisheng，xiangbandaolao！