周末夫妻的正确打开方式

 suizhechengshifazhan，shenbiandezhoumofuqishenzhiyuedufuqiyuelaiyueduo。tamenyinweigongzuo，fenliyuchengshihechengshizhijian，huoshiyigechengshideliangdi，zhiyouzaizhoumohuojiejiaricaiyoujihuixiangjian，guozhe“5+2”moshideshenghuo。

 xintaixuejiacheng：zheiranghunyinjiegouxiangduisongsan，xingshishangheganshoushangyouletaobijiatingzerenheyiwudekongjian。takenenghuirangnijuedehaixiangweihunshineiyangziyou，danshiyerangrengengrongyixianruhunwailian，“suishuo‘julichanshengmei’，danzhoumofuqiyaogengzhuyiqingganweihu。”

一、周末夫妻的基本认识

 zhudongxuanzejinnianlai，“zhoumofuqi”deqingkuangyoulegengshencengcideyanbian，tamenjibushiyinweigongzuoyebushiyinweizhufang，fenjuchengweizhoumofuqideyuanyinshiweileganqing。tamenchongshang“julichanshengmei”，sidixiaqiandingxieyi，zhiyouzhoumoxiangjuzhongwenganqing。tongguozheizhongfangshilaihuanjieshenghuozhongchanshengdemaodun，bingxiangshougerenkongjianheziyou。

三、夫妻周末相处积极影响

“zhoumofuqi”zhengbeiyixienianqingrentuichongwei“xinshishang”，jushuohaochuduoduo：kejukefen，shoufangziru

 ，jushixiaobieshengxinhun，fenshichongfenyongyougerenkongjian；jibubicisimo，youyouqianchangguadu，buzhiyujimonannai；rangrenkeyizai“weicheng”zhongshenchutoulaixidianxinxiankongqi，younengtongshiyongyoudanshendeqingsongziruhejiatingshenghuodewennuantashi。zhoumofuqi，huozheshibanyuefuqidengdeng，tamenhaoxiangdouxingfuzhe。zhoumodejianmianchenglexiangdangdeqidai，rutongrelianbande，jiangqingrenyanlichuxishifahuidaolejizhi。

 baochiwanmeilianggerenmeitianzaiyiqichifan、shuijue，nanmianhuifaxianduifangdeyixiexijieshangdequedian，ranhoubazheixiebenlaibushishierdexiaomaobingfangda，zhengchaobuduanshengji。erlianggerenzaigongzuoribuzaiyiqi，zhiyouzhoumocaihuizaiyiqichanmianfeice，jiuhuijiangbicideyoudianfangda，shenzhishiquedianyehuibiandeneimemeimiao。zheiyang，nizaiduifangdeyanzhongyongyuanshiwanmeide。

 dulikongjiancizhongxinxinrenleidehunyinfangshiyuchuantongdehunyinshenghuobutong，ganjuedaofuqizaiyiqigongtongshenghuoshiziyouhedulideqianban，tamenbuxiangbazijimaimeizaiwubianwujidesuosuijiawuzhong，renweizaifuqijianbaochimiqiedeguanxidetongshigeziyiranshenghuozaigezide“xiaojiating”。yizheizhongfangshi“tongju”，bicijiangyouchongzudekongjianqusikaogengduodesixiang，zuogengduoyouyiyideshiqing。ranglianggerendeshengmingdoudedaoshenghua。genyibanyiyishangfenjubutong，tamenshi“fenjugongguo”。jushuozheiyanggengnengbaochifuqijianjiqingdechijiuhewending。

四、周末式夫妻的消极意义

 goutongjianshao“zhoumofuqi”youyuzaiyiqideshijianxiangduijiaoshao，youhuozheyinweigongzuodeyuanyin，fuqizhijiandejiaoliuxiangduijiaoshao。fuqijiandejiaoliuwangwangzhinengtongguodianhua、wangluodefangshi，zheizaiyidingchengdushangjianruolefuqijianqingganjiaoliudejishixing、pinfanxinghechijiuxing，jiaoliushangdexiangduijianshaocongkeguanshangyejiangdilefuqijiandeqinmichengdu，shijianzhanglejiuhenrongyichanshengmoshenggan，shenzhiyoukenenghuidaolewuhuakeshuodedibu。

 taobizerenzizhuxuanzede“zhoumofuqi”tingqilaihenmei，danzheizhonghunyinmoshibutaishiji，jirenyibuanquangan。xuanzezuo“zhoumofuqi”deyaomeshibuxiangbeishufu，buyuanchengdanjiatingzeren；yaomeshiduichuantongdehunyinmoshiquefaxinxin，xiangyaotaobi；yaomeshiwanmeizhuyizhe，xiwanghunyinzongxianglianaineiyangtianmi。zheishizhixiangshouhunyindejiqing，taobihunyindezerendexingwei，shiduihunyindequjie，shiyizhongzisidebiaoxian。

 xincunyiniansuhuashuo，zhendadekulongdoudadefeng。neixierangzheyaoyouzijikongjianderen，xiangdangduodeyibufenshixincunyiniande。guicaixiangxin，lianggeshenaiderenyaoyiniulangzhinvdeshenghuoweile。jiqinglangmanzhishihunyinshenghuozhonghenxiaodeyibufen，xiangruyimocaishihunyinshenghuodezhuti。jielehunnenggouzaowansishou，neishiyizhongxingfu，weishenmeyidingyaorenweidizhizaofenlilangmanhefengqingjuyoutaiduodeyouhuoli，zhipajuyecongcong，sanyecongcong，jishiniyouhenqiangdemianyili，niyouzenmedanbaodelenidelingyiban。

五、孩子遭罪“周末夫妻”

 zhoumofuqitongguojiajiayouyiqinggan，dequechanshengjulimei，duanzandefenlinenglingfuqideganqingyufachilie。dantamendehaizini？quefashuangqingongaidetongnian，rongyichanshengyuyuguahuandeguduxingge。pingshigemanggedehubuganrao，zhoumoduanzanxiaojubieyangwenxin，zheishiyihaizizaozuiweiqiantide。“zhoumofuqi”，bujinyingxiangfuqiguanxi，erqieyingxiangqinziguanxi，chufeikeguantiaojianbuyunxu，“zhoumofuqi”zaixiangshousuoweidebieyangwenxindeshihou，qingbiewanglekankanhaiziweiqudeyanjing！

六、夫妻周末相处的易感人群

 sangaorenquntamendoujuyoujiaogaodexueli，youyifenmanyidezhiye，hunyinguannianyebuzaineimechuantong；tamenjixiwangzijideshiyegengshangyicenglou，yexiwangzijinengyoudulideshijianhekongjian；tamenbuyuanyibeifansuodejiatingshenghuoxiaoshiershufu，zheiyiqunrenyibanzhishishuipinghegerensuzhidoubijiaogao。

 xiaozibailingtamendaduojiangjiushenghuoqingqu，yanfanlechuantongdehunyinshenghuo，erxiwangnengjizijidehunyintianshangxindediaoweiji，guyidizhizaolangmanhuozheshiweilejipibeideaiqingzhuruxingfenji，dajiadouyoudulidejingjitiaojian，genbenbuyongyikaoduifangjizijitigongjingjishangdebangzhu，youqishipingshixiwangnengchangchangguoshangduli“xiaozi”shenghuodenvbailingjiecengmen。

 gexingqiangrentamenyibancongshibijiaoqianweidezhiye，zuodedoushihenyouchuangyidegongzuo，erqiepingshidesixiangguanniandoushibijiaolingleide，tamenzhuiqiuxinxiangan，xiwangyouwanquanshuyuzijidedulikongjian，youshuyuzijidexiaoshijie，tamenbuxiwangqugaibianbieren，yebuyuanyiquweilebierenergaibianzijiyiguandezuofa。

 dapinyizutamenyibanshiweilegongzuoerpobudeyide，yaomeyinweifuqilianggongzuodixianggetaiyuan，yaobujiushiliangrengongzuoshijianyouhendabutong，pingshijiusuanshishenghuozaiyiqi，yeweibijiandeshangmiandefuqi，dajiaweilebimianyinweigongzuodeyuanyinerzaochengdezhongzhongmaodun，suoyiningyuanxuanzezhoumocaiyiqiguofuqishenghuo。

 nianqingfuqitamenyibanshiganggangjiehunbujiu，canjiagongzuoyemeijinian，doumeiyoulianghaodejingjijichu，fuqiliangdoushizhuzaidanweilifenpeidesushe，shenzhiyoukenengshigentongshizhuzaiyiqide，erqiezanshiyehaibujubeiyaohaizidejingjinengli，suoyizhinengxianguojiniande“dushen”shenghuo，pingshidajiajiuzhuzaizhigongsusheli，xianfendoujinian，dengdaoyoulezijidefangzi，caijieshu“zhoumofuqi”deshenghuo。

七、因应对策

 goutongxinrenshuangfangyaoxianghuxinren，zheishizuiweiguanjiande。pingshidianhuaduogoutong，huojiezhuhulianwangchoukongliaoliaotian，yihuanjiexinqingdeyumen。ruochuxianwenti，yidingyaorangduifangjiangchulai，bunengxianghucaiyi，zhiyoudakaichuanghushuolianghua，wenticaihuidedaozhenzhengdejiejue。

 diaojieshenxinwaipaiyifangpingshiyidingyaobaoyanghaozijideshenti，keyiliyongxiuxishijianduoqujianjianshen，zaizhuchukeyiduokanshutaoyexingqing，anshixiuxidengdeng。huijiazhiqianyidingyaodiaojiehaozijideshenxin，chuxianzaijiazhongdeshenxingyinggaishijiankangerchongmanhuolide。

 paijiefannaoliushouyifangchuleguanhaojiatinghehaizidexuexi，haiyaoxuehuipaijiezijidefannao。keyitongguoxiexinqingriji、heqinpenghaoyouduolianxi、peiyangzijigengduoyeyuaihao(biruhuihua、xiezuo、yangchongwu)dengdengfangshilaichongshiziji。

gongdanjiawujiawuhuoyaodajiayiqilaizuo，renheyifangdoubunengzijixianzheerjiaolingyifangmangshangmangxia。

 bimianzhengchaoqiejizaiduanzandexiangjushijianli，buyaoweisuosuidejiatingxiaoshibanzui，ruyucizhongqingkuang，yifangxiandazhu，zhuanyihuatiyihuanjiejinzhangqifen。zaiyiqishi，yaoguodeqingsongyukuaixie，buyaobagongzuozhongdefannaodaidaojiazhong，yingxiangshuangfangdeqingxu，youshijianhejiazhongzhangbeiduojuju，haikeyiquanjiayiqiwaichulvyouyizengjinqinqing。