保鲜爱情与婚姻的好习惯

 nannvzhijianchanshengdeqingganshifounengzhangjiudouyaojubeiyidingdexianshitiaojian，guangyouaiqingshibugoude，renxingjingbuqikaoyan，guangyoujinqianyeshibugoude，jinqianwudingshu。doushuoaiqingxiangzuohunyinxiangyou，niduiaiqingxiangzuohunyinxiangyoushibushiyeyouzijidexiangfa？neinideaiqingyuhunyinyinggaizenmehengliangni？zuipahunyinaiqingjingbuqikaoyan，suoyiyinggaizenmebaoxianzijideaiqingni？

dangranla，yanzhiheshencaishiaiqingyuhunyindebaoxianji，qingquhexiuyangshihunyinaiqingdebaoxiandan。

一、关注自己的外在和内在

 bulunnannvwomendoushiwaimaoxiehuidehuiyuan，chengrenshijieyimaoqurenyeshizuikuaijiedeshejiaofangshi，meidezuocuoleshiqingyerongyihuodeyuanliang，choudezuoduileshenmeyebuyidinghuibeihenkuairenke，ruguobenshibudapiqiyouhendadehua，huizaochengzijimeiyouxuanzequeyizhihuangbuzelu。zheiyangdeqingkuangzainannvqingganzhonghuiyinweishijiandeliushixiandeyuefajianrui。

 womendeyanzhiheshencaijiushiaiqingdebaoxianji，qingquhesuzhizeshihunyindebaoxiandan，yangchengyixiehaoxiguanchulezaojiuzishendemeimaohexiuyang，yenengchengjiuwennuanyuanshengjiatingfujixiayidai。

二、稳定的收入

 buluncongshishenmezhiye，shourudeduoshao，zhiyaonenggouyanghuozijidoukeyibubitaijijiao，dannanrenhenvrendouyaoyoushikezuo，bingqieyouwendingdeshouru，zheishishehuidiweidezhengming。budulidenannvgenbenmeiyounenglishuoaiqing，jiehungengshiqueshidanfuzerendejichu，qinghuazaihaotingyeyaochibaofan，ruguoyourengaosuniyaodaizheniqulangjitianya，neijiuqingtazijishangluba。

 zaizheigeshidaili，tanjiaqushiruguohaibunengzijiyanghuoziji，jiudoushixiabai，sibenzhileideshashigengshigexiaohua，buguoshiyuwangzhixiataobizerendejiekoubale。

三、想要什么你就说

 bulunlianrenhaishifuqizhijian，gaoxingshibushanyubiaodaganen，bugaoxingshiyoubunenglianghaogoutong，shihenduonannvdetongbing，yuanbenxiangaijiushiyaowomenbicitancheng，yibianzaizheigeboliangdeshijianbiciwennuan，ruguoyinweixiangaiquenongchulegengduodeshifeiheshanghai，neilianaijiehunqibuchenglezinve？

 xiangyaoshenmenijiushuo，buxiangyaoshenmeniyeyaoshuo，zongshixuyaocailaicaiqudebuguoshixiewuliaodeaimeiyuwuwangdejiujie，zhenqingdoushixuyaoshuochulaiyueeryouzuochulaishangxinde，queshiletancheng，aimeiyouxin，renmeiyouqing，jiameiyounuan。

四、适当赞美和鼓励

 jibianyijingailehenduonian，womenhaishiyaodongdezaiyixieqiadangdeshike，zanmeiduifangdemeiliyudandang，guliduifangdemengxiangyuzhuiqiu，bingqieyizhiyiqizou，lianggerenzhishoudelushang，aiyinggaichengweililiangerbushibanjiaoshi，yongaishufuziyoudezuofa，yedoushixiebudongaiderenzaitounaofahun。

 zanmeiairenshiyikeganendexinzaitiweixingfu，guliairenzeshiyikezhihuitounaozaichengzhangfengying，dangwomenzongshibaoyuanairenzaigaibiandetongshi，huoxushinizijishenshangcengjingbeixinshangdedongxizaimanmanliushi，buzishengyejiubuhuiyouyongyuan。

五、每天要一个拥抱

 nannvzhijianzongshixuyaoyixieqinmidexingwei，qugengxingxiangdebiaodabicijiandeaiyi，xinlingdeshulizongshicongshentideshuyuankaishi，aiqingdebenzhishinannvxianghuyongbaozhequnuan，yibianwomenbuzaozaosangshishenghuodeyongqi。

 yezongyaoyouyixiehaoxiguanzhichengzhewomenbulibuqibicishenai，huoxushimeitianyigeyongbao，huoxushichumenqianyigeqinwen，youhuoxushimeitianyigedianhuaweixin，qingxiangxin，yueshizhangjiudeqinggandouyouxiehaoxiguanjinmilianjie，yueshizhangjiudexiangbanyedouyouxiehaoxiguan，rangwomenaichengleleiguheshentideyueding。

六、保留个人的空间

 aibushibangjiaduifangshenghuoshenzhisixiangdeliyou，hunyingengbushibaweichengxiuchenglelaolong，womenjiusuanzaiaiduifang，yebukenengbicidouzuogetoumingren，yixiewushangdayadexiaoshiqingyinggaikuandai，yidianshuyuyinsidexiaomimiyinggaifangguo。

 baoliugerendekongjian，womencaibuzhiyuaidaozhixi，yegengyouzhuyuwomenbaoxianzijibuwangchengzhang，zairenheshihoudounengdianranjiqing，rangaixingzherangrenzuizhe。nianlinghuibudaocongqian，xinlingnenggouchunzhenruwangxi，rangnannvzhijiandeqingyuaizaishenghuodefengyumolizhong，jinxianrenxingguanhuai。

七、单独的居所

 xiaofuqijibianmeiqianmaifangziyeyaoyounenglizufangzidandujuzhu，jinliangbuyaohepopohuoshizhangmuniangzhuzaitongyiwuyanxia，laorenxuyaozhaogukeyixuanzezhudejinxie，neizhongmeiyoujulidexiangchuhuijilingyibandaiquyali，ruguoxiaoshunjiushixiaokenlaolaoyoufeiyaotuozhexiaodehua，zhipasheiyeguobuhaozuihounongchengyituanzao。

 popobushima，zhangmuniangyebukenengkanzhenvxudoushunyan，qingganheliyidechongtuhuiyizhicunzai，bushiqindehennanxuemaixiangcheng，burubaochilimaodejuli，bingqieyizhijianchixiaqu，yibianguanjianshikedajiadouhaiyouhuixuandeyudi。

八、学会享受独处时光

 yigerenhuijimo，lianggerenyehuijimo，ruguonibunengxuehuixiangshourenshengzhongyixieduchudeshiguang，neiaiyubuaijiudoubuhuilingnichongshikuaile，fanerhuikongxudaowuliao，youwuliaodaotongkushenzhong。

 shenghuozaizheiyangyigeshidaili，bulunnishichuzaishengcunhaishishenghuodezhuangtai，chuleaiqingwomenhaiyouhenduozhongyaodeshiqingxuyaozuo，womenyedangranyaohuiguijiating，kenianqingdeshihouruguomeiyoufendouhejingli，zhipadaolaoleyebudongshenmeshizhenzhengdehuigui。

duchudeshihouwomenyekeyihenkuaile，yinweixinliyougeren，yizhizai。

九、彼此尊重彼此忠诚

 aideqiantijiushizunzhong，erzhongchengshiwomenjiyuairendeliwu，yibianzaiwomenrenshengzuixuyaodeshihoudakai，yijingshixingfumanmanbingqieyiyifeifanle。

 dangxiangbanbaitouchengweileyizhonghaoxiguan，rizicaihuiyuelaiyuemei，xincaihuiyuelaiyueqing，dangaiqingyoulezheiyangdeyizhongmoqi，qinggancaihuiyuelaiyuenong，shenghuocaihuiyuelaiyueshun。zunzhongshixiuyang，zhongchengzeshipinzhi，meiyouxiuyangderenhuishaolexingfudejichu，queshipinzhiderenjibendouwuyaokejiu。

huanjuhuashuo，bicizunzhongyejiuhuibicizhongcheng，erbicizhongchengjiushizuishenkedezunzhong。