中年婚姻危机大多数是欠缺沟通交流

情感婚姻 怎么过好?“处于婚姻这一小圈圈内的男人女人，遭受社会发展这一大圈圈以后，什么叫滥情?人体亦或是生命?什么叫获得，又什么叫丧失?伴随着一页页随笔的越过，已不担心，已不执着，目光凝视着更远方，成才。”

bafali·senlinlangshuoguo：“hunyinshiyibenshu，shudediyizhangshipiaoliangdeshiwen，erqitadequanshipingpingdandandeduanwen。”“zhonglaonianhunyinzhiyang”bianchenghenduoren renshengdaoluzhongbijingzhiludeyidaokan，jinxienianyouguancizhutidexiaoshuoji、dianshilianxujuwuhuabamen、jijinshouhuanying。qingganhunyinzenmeguohao?fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?

erzaiqizhong，“ribenaiqingshixuegaoshou”、“ribendangdainanshengpinpaidaiyanren”dubianchunyidedazuo《ziyanghuariji》yiqiduizhongnianhunyinyishizhuxingdezhenzhengmiaohui，zaiyiciyinqishehuifazhanduizheiyizhuangkuangdereqingtantao。yinrucishudewenhuichubanshebiaoda，《ziyanghuariji》fashouyiduorijishichangxiaoshou5wanyuce，jubudiqunaizhichuxianlelinshiquehuodezhuangkuang。

hulianwangshang，youguancishudezhengzhitiezidoushirenxinhuanghuang。zhonglaonian，hunyinjindaopijuanqi 《ziyanghuariji》xushudeshi：yiduiribenfuqirendaosishi，youqianyouxian，zhuzairibendongjinggaoduanxiaoqu。zhangfuyunyingzheyijiayiyuanmenzhen，qizixianshukeyizuo，lianggerenyuyouyieryinv。

jiunizaihaoxiang“hemu”dejiazhongshenhou，queshifuqizhangqixingliangdifenju，qizizaiminganduoyizhonggangkaishizhuizong、diaoyanzhangfu，fajuezhangfuyushuxiaandiliwanglai，qizimanzhezhangfuweixiezhangfudeqingren，quedebuchangshi。meiduojiu，qiziyudaxuejiaoshixiangfeng，yilaierwangyihouyishenxianhunwailiandegudi。

zuizhong，fuqilianggerendouzaicisikaolezishendehunyin，tamenmeiyouyouyijianchixiaqu，zhishijienaxiankuang，jiangzheiyiduanmaoheshenlidehunyinkaizhanjiujing。

tashiyiduidianxingxingdechuzai“zhonglaonianhunyinzhiyang”qidefuqi，zidaxiaohaichushihou，fuqizhangqixingliangdifenju：“jiazhongyouxuanbudewofang，zaiqizhongyouyizhangcudadetiejiachuang，rujinguiqizizhimaziyirenyong。shengwumailaigebuyishafafangdaozishendexiaoshufangli。yelijiushuizaineibian。

zheijianshiqingnenggoushuochengfuqixieshangyizhide，neifangyemeiyoujianyi。”budanrentishangquefagoutongjiaoliu，zheiyiduifuqijingqishenshangdegoutongjiaoliuyebijiaoyanzhongqianque。zhimazihenzaoyifajuezhangfubutaidui，keshitacongbuwendoubunao，jinjinzaisuibizhongcaixiangzhangfudexingwei。

zhangfugenjutoukuiqiziderijilejieqizifajuelezishenyouhunhouchugui，naizhilejieqiziyeshilehunhouchugui，keshitayejinjinxinliananjiaojing，conglaibushuochukouchu。

liangrenbaochizhebinglengdeguanlian，goutongjiaoliudaduoshujinxianyuyuxiaohaixiangguandehuatitaolun。yeyiqiankaolvdaoguoliyi，keshiyixiangqixiaohai，liangrendoudanqiele，baochizhezheiyiduanmaoheshenlidehunyin。

hunyinpolie、hunhouchugui、xiaohai……rendaosishi，zheizhongnantijiezhongerzhi。

dangganqingzhujianxiaoshi，hunyinyehuimanmanjinrupijuanqi。“waiyu”shihunyinfenqidebaofa dubianchunyizaixiangxijieshaoqixiezuochuxinshicengzheibanbiaoda：“shijishangwoguanjianshixiangmiaohuiyigexintaizhuangtaishangzaodongbuandezhongniannanxingdepinpaixingxiang。

xianrujinribenshehuifazhanyouyigezhuangkuangshifenguangfan，jijinguanyouxuduoyihunnanrenlejiecongshehuidaodeshangeryanbukegaohunyinchugui，dantamendexintaizhuangtaiquehenbuanding，duiwaiyuzongyouyizhongmoquancazhangdexintaizhuangtai。wogengshichangshiduizheiyizhuangkuangkaizhanmiaohui。

wodekaolvdaoshi，zaichanshengwaiyushierhou，zhengzhiheliyibingfeijiejuekunnandehaofangfa。liangkouziyingdangxianghuxiangfangfachulizheiyinanti。

zuoweinansheng，zaizheibuxiaoshuojilichangchangnenggoukanjianzijideniantouheganshou。” dubianchunyijuede，nvrenhenanrenbudanzairoutishangyoubuyiyang，xintaishangyechedibuyiyang。liangkouzizaiyiqiyishizhuxingbujinjinjindanchunxingganqingshangdexie，yeshiyaofajueguannianzuiduofangmiandewupin。yibianbiaoshuzheiyizhutifengge，《ziyanghuariji》naizhixuyishejifanganleyigechangkaishidexiachang，yijiaojiyonghuxiangxiang、huiweiwuqiongdeshineikongjian。

yixiaoshuojihedianshilianxuju《paomoshuangmianjiao》chumingwenxuejiedeyingshizhizuozuojialiuliuyiyangjuede，shijishangzhonglaonianfuqizhijiandexuduohunyinpolietongchangquanshiqianquegoutongjiaoliudejieguo。pingpingdandandeshenghuoqijuzaochenglegoutongjiaoliudepijuan，erpijuanyoulijicuishengchudui“waiyu”dechongjing。

“waiyu”jinjinhunyinfenqidebaofa，bingfeihunyindejieshu。dang“waiyu”chanshenghou，jiarufuqibicinengyinerzaochengjingti，tishenggoutongjiaoliu，zheizhongweijiweichangburongyiyanhuaweigaijinfuqihunyinfenqidetupokou。

zhiminghunyinqingganxiaoshuozuojiawanghailingzebiaoda，woguozhongnianhunyinweijishijishangbihaiwaigengbijiaoyanzhong。youquanweizhuanjiacengzuoguotongjifenxi，meiyinianqibayue，quanshizhongguoliyidegaofeng，zaiqizhongjuedaduoshuqianqubeianliyidequanshizhonglaonianfuqi，feichangshi8yuegengshen。

guigenjiedi，xuduohunyinshijishangzaozaoyiliekai，keshiweilebaobaoyouyigexiangduixingningjingdeziranhuanjingkaoshangdaxue，fuqibicitongchangtiaoxuanlelinshiweichihunyin，dengnixiaohaigaokaohoucailiyi。fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?