夫妻间沟通交流要肩并肩 不必零距离

情感婚姻 怎么过好?女性都期待老公能用心聆听他们說話，特别是在是他们想表述关键念头的那时候。但实际上，即便性子再多的男人，应对这种“叨唠”有时候也会视而不见。

juyingguo《nvxingshengzhijiankang》zazhiqikanjinqibaodao，nanxingdezheileifanyingbingbushibiaomingtamenbuzaiyi，zhishiyouyunanxingjiejuexinxineirongdequanguochengbutongyunvxing。qingganhunyinzenmeguohao?fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?

yinci，nvxingyaodongdexialiefangfa，yongnanxingdeyanyuhebiaodaxingshilaishuohua。 jianbingjiangoutongjiaoliu。jiaruniyaohelaogongliaoyiliaojiaoweifanzadenanti，ruzeguaitawandetaifeng、buguanbugujiashi，juebunengcaiyonglingjulidetanhuaneirongfangfa。

zhuyaocongshihunyinshenghuokexueyanjiudebulangdaxuezhuanjiajiaoshousikete?haozimanqiangdiao，zaiyixieruilidetanhuaneirongzhong，buduan、zhushidemuguangjiaoliurangnanxinghaipa，bingqielingjulishi，nanxinghuibennengfanyingdijindao“tiaozhanmoshi”———“yaobuzuozhan，yaobutaozou”。

yinci，jiaruyaozhaotatanhuaneirong，shitiaoxuanjianbingjiandezishi，liruyiqiliuda、jiachehuozuozhebuyishafashangkandianshijudeng。

奔向主题。

jinqiyixiangkexueyanjiushuoming，nanxingderennaohuibananrendeshengxiangdangzuo“yanshuo”，banvrendeshengyinzuowei“gequ”，yincinanxingduinantongdeshengxianghuigengyansurenzhenkandai。weilequebaolaogongtingjinlaitashuodemeiyigezi，qiziyingdangjianjiemingle、qingchu、langlangshangkou、kuaisudishuochuqu。haozimanzhuanjiajiaoshouqiangdiao，nanxingzuiyaotingdeshizhijieledangdeguanjianyibufen，yincinvxingshuohuashibenxiangzhuti。

他会了解你可以宣泄。

nanrenshixiantianxingde“jiejuewentizhe”，meishaojinzhoujiubiaodatazaisisuozenyangchulimouyinanti。dangqiziduilaogongshushuomouleijiongjingshi，tahuijijijuedeyingdangbanglingyifangzhaoxunyigechulifangfa，erbingbushijianyidilingting。

yinci，nvxingzaiqingtuqianyingdangrangnanxingqingxinidaodiyuanyinaxie，shiyineiyangdefangfakaiju：“wozhendexuyaobazheizhongmenzaixinlideshishuochuqu，nikuanweikuanweiwoyehaola。”

考虑他的虚荣心。

shifoumeiyicinitiguiding，tadoushizuoerjinyouerchu?zheishihounishiduitaliuxupaimayifan。dangnilijiduitamaiyuan“nicongbupeiwodehaopengyouyiqiwan”，neitahenjianghuitiaoqibianboni。

dandangnikaolvletadexurongxin，shuo“nizhenfengqu!wodehaopengyouhaowuyiwenganjuenifeichanghao。jinyenengfouherenmenyikuaiquwanni?”zheileifanmianjiaqiangdefangfarongyitahuijienanidejianyi。fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?