一个婚姻生活幸福的女人的诀窍

情感婚姻 怎么过好?1.要有一份自身的衣食住行。给另一方也为自己留个随意的室内空间。记牢老公并不是你衣食住行的所有。和姐夫完婚的第一天，我就对他说：“从现在起，人们就是说一个人了，因此之后你不在我身边，我不想问你在干嘛，一样你也别问我，或许记牢，你在干嘛，我就在干嘛!”

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