夫妇婚后有矛盾怎样应对才适合

◆ 婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?别把事情闹大：和蔼可亲点，不必进攻人品，不必骂人的话。

◆zuoxuduorangbu：xiaorangbuhenguanjian，niyidingyaoduilingyifangbaorong，bingqieyaochangchangzuoxiaorangbu。

 ◆shuoshijigerenxingwei：bubishuo“niyeshigecaogaoderen”，yingshuo“wohenbulingrenmanyibaniyifukuzirengzaituli”。neiyangdejiaofabiaodaleniduiyigeshijigerenxingweideganjue，neiyanglingyifangcaijianghuihuigenggaitadegerenxingwei。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

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 ◆zhongzhizhengchao,jinkenenglizhi：zaichaojiazhongniyueningjing，lingyifangyuehuirenzhenwancheng。pengdaomaodunshi,nixianshenxiqi——congyishudaoshi——zaihuxi。rufajueyoubushigandeganjue，mashangzhongzhizhengchao，dengjigexiaoshi,dengninibunaopiqideneishihoujiejue，ganjuenengxiaoyixie，ninengyouyigequanxinshengjidejiaodu。

 ◆tiaoxuanqiadangdeshijian：bubizaiyeli，bubizaidajiapibei、aie、xiaohaidaochangdeneishihou，huoshiyouguanjiangongzuozhongwubijinxingdeneishihou。

◆duokaolvdao：kaolvdaonizhixiqinshudejianjie，kaolvdaonidemeiyizishidehanyi。

 ◆yongdutefangshixiubuguanlian：nengyongfengqufangfa，yenengyongrangbufangfa。qianyizongtimubiao，shishiqingcongtantadebianyanxuanzhuanhuilai。

 ◆zaidianhualitantaomaodun：tashiyigedebanfa，neiyangnengqingchuquanbudefeiyuyanbiaodanengli。bingbushilingjuli，taburongyijiandaotadengzhediaodingtianhuaban;tayeburongyijiandaotafanbaiyan。neiyangnengrangshiqingyougengjijizhudongdefazhanqushi。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?