笨”女人婚姻会幸福快乐的6大缘故

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?男人害怕女人工于心计、太过锐利。再成熟男人，也期待自身爱着的女人给他们包容和了解，又期待她有一份童真，能跟自身傻傻的地、真正地交往。与这类“傻”女人在一起，男人感觉既安全性又温暖。

1. 高低没有口头上，太聪明的女性不讨人喜欢

 dajiagengweiqiaobuqideyizhongnanren，shishuobaileneilei“waibiandewonangfei，zaokanglideyingxiongrenwu”。doushi，haonanerbukeyijiangongliyeyehaole，zaiqiziyanqianchengweifeng，suannamenzideyingxiongrenwu?zhenduinvren，doushiyiyangdedadaoli，dangdaishehuifazhan，nanrennvrentonggongtongchou，zhichangzhongyixieqiangrenfengcaineijiushiyiqiezhengchangde，keshizaijiazhong，huanshiyaoweichinvrenbense。zheixietitouzhiweideconghui，zheixiedishuibuloudeluojixing，zailaogongyanqianhaiyaoshengyishengle。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 nanrenhaipanvrengongyuxinji、taiguoruili。zaichengshunanren，yeqidaizishenaizhedenvrenjitamenbaoronghelejie，youqidaitayouyifentongzhen，nenggenzishenshashadedi、zhenzhengdijiaowang。yuzheilei“sha”nvrenzaiyiqi，nanrenganjuejianquanxingyouwennuan。

 yuqinrenpenyousidixiadegoutongjiaoliuyoubieyugongzuozhongchangdi，taijiaozhenerhuilingrenjuedefawei。yingjinkenengchengxiannidexiaorong，biaodanixiangyoushifangyalidekuailebingjienafengqudebiaodaxingshi。nvrendanchunxingdegexingtezheng，zainanrenyanlijueduishiyoushi，bingqiedoushicuicutamenqinfenzhuyaobiaoxiandequdongli。

 qianwanbiewujienanren!nanrenxiaidebennvrende“sha”，jueduibingbushizhizhili。neibandenvren，shijianyizhang，duinanrenjiuhuimeiyouyouhuolide。nanrenxiaide“sha”nvsheng，shineileikanqilaishahuhu、neixinquehenyoupudenvsheng。nanrenzongyouxurongxinyejiushishuoaimuxurong，yincizheixieyangzhuangconghui、shifenluchudenvrenshinabuzhunanrendexinde;erdazhiruoyudenvrenquenengmizhunanren。

2、把老公当做家中最关键的人

 nvrenhuodechenggong，hunyinshenghuobuchenggongdexiaogushiqueshitingdeguoduo。shehuifazhanshangdezhichangnvren、xueliditongchangbianchengxingfuhunyinshenghuodezuai。

 gongzuohuoxugenben，danbiewangjinvrenyeyouciwaiyigeguanjianderenwujiaose——moumourendeqizi，buyaoshuoniyizhizaiwaibiandudangyimian，shiqiyelibibukeshaodejishugugan，jibiannideyingxiangligaoyuyiqie，yebixulejiezishendaodishishei。xiabiandexiaogushihuoxudahuoerdoutingguo，neimawomenyiqizaizaiciwenxiyixia。

 qingxizishendejiazhongrenwujiaose，weihubaoyangzhangfudezizunheshouhaozhangfudexin，shimeiyinvrendeyiwu。shiyechenggong、diweimingxiantishengdenvxing，tebieshizaiyaozhenxinvxingteyoudebenxing，shanyuxiezhuzhangfujiangdihuoqingchuduoyudexintaizhuangtaikunhuo。

 congxinlingshenchuguanniandaozishenjinridequdechenggong，bukehuoquezhangfulijihuojianjiedejianronghexiezhu，juebuyunxuzaizhangfuyanqianjugongziao;jiusuanshizhangfuyinweixinlidekunaoraneryouyixiebulixingdeyantanjuzhi，yeyingdangtuijijiren、zhenxinchengyidikuanwei、guiquanhebiaoshu，yaojinkenengcaiyonggezhonggeyangfangfashizhangfujianxin。

 jinguanzishenshiyechenggong，danzairichangjiatingshenghuohefuqiganqingzhongderenwujiaoseheyingxianglirengranheguoquyiyang，suobuyiyangdeshizishenduizhangfugengweixiaihexiexie!

 changchangxiangzhangfutanpaixinlidekuchuhekunao，shushuozishenchuwaisuopengdaodezhuduogongzuoyali、jiankuhekunjing，qingzhangfujizijixianjixiance、jiejuekunnan。neiyangzuonenggoujianshaofufubicidechabie，lajinxintaizhuangtaijianju，jinerjinyibuzengqiangzhangfudegerenjiazhigan，huanjieqijingshenyali。

 nvrenguigenjiedijiushishuonvren，xingdanyingzhidequdechenggongburongyirangwomenchanshengzhenshidekaixin。jiatinghemu，laogongchongni，renmencaikeyixunzhaoxingmingdexinrengan。yaodedaozheiyiqiebingbuhuitainan，zhongyaoshiyaoranglaogonglejieniduitadeyilai。

3、夫妻间沒有絕對的是是非非

 renshuo“buzhengchaobingbushizhenfufu”，zheijuhuarenshengdadaoli，2gegexinghuadandudechengnianrennanrennvrenzaitongyigewuyanerbinsimo，youdianxiaoxiaofenqidoushiyiqiezhengchang。

 manglitouxianbanyiliangjuzui，daoyoujiazhonglejie、goutongjiaoliuqinggandezuoyong。jinjinyixienvren，“zhuajianer”guanle，fuqijiandoushizheiban，meiyicizhengzhi，bixuchongfenfahuinvxingdeyanyutianfu，zhengmingcailiaozishenjueduiyanzhiyoulierlaogongjueduiyouwu。zheijiuyixieyiguo。

 shijieshangjiaodadekonghaozhiyijiushishuoherenbuduanzhengzhi——yulaogongjichulilundajiajiadekonghaogengyaofanbei，zhengzhidejieguoshishibicibizhiqiangengxinzijijueduiqiadang。ruguoshudiao，huoxujiushudiao，jiaruhuosheng，nihuanshishudiao，youyuzhengzhiyingbushangtadexin。jiarubanilaogongpibodelianhong、yakouwuyan，nandaoshuojiushishuohuoshengma?

 bu，tameihua，zhibuguojuedeyigelaonanrenbuzhiheqizijiaozhener，gengbijiaoyanzhongde，tahuirenweinimanbujiangli，buxiangyaozaishechilangfeixinlile。xianggebanfa，shiyichangxiaoxiaozhengzhiguanjian，huanshidajiazhangjiudeqinggangengguanjianni?

 tongxinderenzaoyijiangguo，“fuqijianmeiyoushuying，yaobuhuligongying，yaobutongguiyujin。”pingyongdefufu，juewudewanyixie，danzongyoufanyingweidaolaideneishihou：younaxiehaochaodeni?wulunzenyangshuo，tahuoshitabuquanshizishenzuiqinmijiechuderenma?shengyudenanti，jiushishuoruheladiaoqingmian，zhongguiyuhao。

 qianwanbierenweirenrangdenvrenmeiyoubenling，tamenjinguandixiatou，danbingbushiyiweidixiatou，zheixieyiweidixiatoudenvrencaisuanshizhenshiruonvzi，renrangdezhongyaozaiyige“shi”shang。zaiqingshanggaonvxingdeaiqingbaodianli，congmingnvrenshiduliuluchunzhenhenuoruo，tajianghuodeliruguanai、tengxi、xiezhu、xinlaidengyixiliedelianghaojieguo。

4、男人的事，请不必越俎代庖

 rujinkeyizuodenvrenxuduo，zaiqiyefahaoshiling、dudangyimian，zaijiazhongdoushimangmangliuliu，shierwulunchicun，tongtongdoukangleqilai。keshizheileinuli，zuozhangfudequebuyidinglingqing。yincinvrenhenbiequ：bawoyikexindouquchulaiweizheiyijia，taruhehaineimaduodejianyini?

 ganqingshenghuozhong，guangyoubucilaokudehaopinxingshibuzude。nanrendegexinghua、xingzi、hanyangmeigebuyiyang，duinvreneryan，ruguonitiaoxuanhunyinshenghuoshi，zhishaoduizhangfuyaoyouyigezhangwo，bingyouyizhongzuohehunizhangfuguidingdeqizidexintaizhuangtaihegongzuonengli。

 bingbuyidingdenanrendouxiaibingrongrufanlaizhangkou、yilaishenshoudeyishizhuxing，zheihuibijiaoyanzhongsunhaitamennanshidezizunxin。hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendetange，bixuxiangqixianghupeihezhetiaohaota，ruonizhianzhuzishendegudianpianpianqiwu，mianbulebubeilingyifangcailejiao。

 buguanbiaomianqiangdahuanshiwenruodenanren，tadeneineixindouqidaizishennengjiyunvrenwuzhiyuwangdeguishugan，tajuedeweihuzishenaidenvrenshilisuoyingdangde，yincinvrenyeliyingshitingcongde。

 weixinyidenvrendangfengzheyu，zheiyeshinanxingdeyidianxurongdezizunxin。ruguoyigenvrenzhuyaobiaoxianwaiduiyigenanrendeganqinghenengliangdeqipan，guangpingzheiyidian，tajiuhuiganxinqingyuandiweitanuli，erqiehuiyizhichenjinyuzaizhengqilinrandexingfujuedezhong。

 renmenyongyishengdeshijianquxunmiyigeheshizishendelianren，gouchengyigepingwenwennuandexiaojiating。zaimouzhongyiyishang，zhongshizhangfujiushishuozhongshinizishen。youyu，zhongshitajiudaibiaonizuochuleyigecongmingde、jinshendetiaoxuan，neishinizhaodaoyigezuigaiyouzhezheifenaihezunjingdenanren。fanguolai，dangniduitabuzunjing，jiubiaomingnizuochuleyigeyumeidetiaoxuan，zhaodaoyigebuzhinilaiaihezhongshideren。

5、别挑破老公善意的谎言

 xingfudeganqingshenghuoli，bujinbixurenmentanchengxiangjian，jiangchuzishendezhixinhua，zaiyixieneishihou，yebixuyixieshanyidehuangyanzuoqingganderunhuaye。zhenduinvren，zheizhongjiahuashiyibianjilixintaiandandelaogong，jiyishizhuxingzengjiayimoxianyandeyanse;zhenduinanren，jiahuashiyibianweihubaoyangzishendepinpaixingxiang，fuweixifudexin。

 nanrenshiwanqiangde、keguande，meiyichengnianrendenanshidoushibujingyidiweihubaoyangzheileijuede，zheishinanxingdelingyicengyifu，zuoxifude，jibianduitadedixileranyuxiong，yemeibixuchuopota。buran，beirenaoledenanren，huiyidaliangdejiahuahegengdadexingzilaibaoweizishendezizun。

 dangnanrendehuangyanshiyibianjiazhongdehepingchang，zuoqizidezuishidangdexintaijiushishuo“hulihutu”。nanrenzaizheyanhuoshizhuyaobiaoxianzishendeneishihou，leisidoushikunjiongde。jiarunvrenrenqizhenlai，lvejiazigezhengshubiankejiangnanrenbodepianjiabuliu。dancongmingnvrenjuranshanyujianxinhemorenshezhita。

 tamenyingduinanrenneiyiduiyiduideganqingshiyanweizuopibo，fandaozishenshifenyongxindicongzheidangzhongzhaoxunbeiaidewennuanhexingfukuaile，tamenyifangmianyangzhuanghulihutu，yifangmianqueyouganshouzheganqingdetianmei。jiaruzuoqizidekeyizhangwohaozheileihulihutudeshudu，neitayidingshizuixingfukuailede、zuijubeizhihuixingde。

 renmenzhongguohanzide“hun”zi，chaixiekanlai，jiushishuoyige“nv”ziheyige“hun”zi，zheihenlingrennairenxunwei。tangruonvxingbuhunletou、buhundehulihutu，huoxuzheishijieshangjiumeiyouaiqinghehunyin。

6、就事论事，接纳不可以更改的物品

 “aiyigeren，jiuyaoaitadeyiqie，baohantadequexian。”zheijuhuasuiyixietigaodexianyiren，quezhongjiuquanshileyitiaoganqingdezhenzhi。dangyigenvrentiaoxuanleyigenanrenzuoweizhongshenairenshi，tajiuhetataruletongyitiaochuan，liangrenjiaowangkaixin，jinmipeihe，neitiaoxiaoxiaochuancaikeyigengwendingyixie，huadexunsuyixie。

 ruoyizhigegedada、biebieniuniu，xiaoxiaochuanjiufeichangrongyichenmei，jishenlinqijingdemeiyigeren，chanshengdequanshigangahesunhai。zaiwanqiangdenanren，doubixunvrendewenroudeweijie。yigehaolaoponenggougenggaiyigenanrenduizishendequanbuguandian，shitayuelaiyuegengxianggechusedenanren。

 suoyourenshoushangchangyouyixiebukeyigenggaidewupin，zheijiushishuotamende“shangba”，lirunilaogongdegezi、rongyan，xiantianxingguodurouruohuoshiguodufeipangzhengdetixing。zainilejietadeneishihou，zheizhongquedianzaoyicunyoule，tashitadebukequeshaodeyibufen。jiarunengliantongzhemishangzheizhongquexianhuoxushi，neimataderouruojiushishuosatuo，tadefeipangzhengjiushishuowenjin，liantadetuding，doushiconghuidedaibiao，qingrenyanlichuxishi，meishenmedadaolihaojiang。yaoshimeiyouxiuliandaozheileichengdu，dazirandijienadoushiyizhongfeichanghaodefangfa。

 xianggebanfa，meigerenbingbushishiquanshimeide，baohanrenmenzishen，2gequehanderen，xianghuchuangjianyifenjizhideqinggan，tashishizaitaiyoumanzugandeyijianshiqing!zhengyouyutashiyigepingfanderensheng，yincicaihepingyongdewomenyiqizaojiutianmideshenghuo，jiarutashibaimawangzi，zaoyimangzhehunquxiaogongzhulaidao。

 youyidianzuicizhongnanrende，jiushinihulveletadenuli，erzhuanyejingongtalibunengjidediqu。nanrenzuibunengrongrenxifushuo：“nikanzheni，naxiedangxing!bierensheisheidelaogongyinianshangbaiwanshangbaiwandizheng，jiushunizuiruanruowuneng!”jiarulaogongyekeyizhengshangshangbaiwanshangbaiwande，tayouyaoshuo：“ai!jiuguanglejieqianqianqian，bierensheisheidelaogongyizhidaitaqulvyou，quliudade，nipeiguowoma?”

 ruguoqiaqiaolaogongyepeiguo，tayouyaoshuo：“aiya，nijiwozuoxiejiawuma，wohaileisile，nidaohao，jinglejiezuozhebuyishafashangkandianshiju，bierensheisheidelaogongkebangyangle，nawoyiwei!”

 haoxiangquantiandiquanbudenanrendouhao，jiutashenpangdezheiyizuicha。neiyangdenvren，yongyoudianxingxingdeyuanfuxintaizhuangtai，buguanzenyang，yizhiduiyanqiandeshenghuoweiman。shijishangwulunkuweihuoshitianmei，quanshizishenniangzhide，nizuochudeshisha，zuihouhuanshiyaoyouzishentunxiaqu。

 zhenduisuoyoureneryan，zheixietianshengcunyou、meifagenggaideyihan，quanshiyizhongzhiguanbijiaomingandediqu，niduizheizhongdiquchezhumeifang，jiuyunhanduitaquanburendefouren。zuijianghuijifadeyanxuexintaishi：qishizheizhongwupinwoyimeifagenggai，neimajiugenggairenmendeguanlianba!niqiaobuqiwo，woyaobikaini。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?