把脉 幸福婚姻 “心态体检”

高度重视婚姻品质

 hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating ?wangxiaojieyiyunanyouxiangchuhenduonian，qingganfeichanghao，dandangnanyoutanjiwanhunshiwangxiaojiequeyouyuqilai，yuangushiwangxiaojieduihunyinyouyizhongmomingqimiaodehaipa，xiangqijijiangyuyigenanrenzhouyexiangshouneixinjiudanxin。zuizhongtadaoxintaimenzhenzixun，dafuduiwangxiaojiedexinggekaizhanlejiance，zuoyilexintaishudao，zuizhongwangxiaojiecaijuecewanhun。

 jiaxiaomeihezhangxianshengcongputonggaozhongshijiushishuotongxuemen，zhizhibiyehou，rujindouhuinanninggongzuo，tamentiqianzhunbeixiayuejiehundengji。qianjiri，tamentingleyiweipenyoudetiyi，quxinlizixunshineibianceshixinggeshibushi“langcainvmao”。xintaizixunjigouzaiduitamendexinggekaizhanjiancehou，gaozhitamendexinggeguishuyu“xiangfuxiangchengxing”，tebieshihewanhun。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?

 juxiangguanzhuanjiatuandui，dajiazaijiehunqiankaizhanxintaizixun，biaomingdajiazhongshihunyinpinzhi，guanxinjingshenshijie，shiziworentongdetisheng，shidajiayishizhuxingshuizhuntishengdeyizhongfanying。henduodezhunxinshou，duizishenhe“lingyiban”zaixintaishangdeshenxinjiankang，xinggeshangdehemudengkaizhanxintaizixun，neiyangnenggoujianshao90houlihun，tishenghunyinpinzhi。

有利于“对症治疗”

 hexianshenghezhangnvshiquanshierhun，youyudiyicihunyinjieyinsanguanbuheerliekai，tamenduizaiyiciwanhundoufeichangdangxin。yinci，tamenyequxinlizixunshineibiankaizhanxinggeceshi。

 lijingjiancehou，zhuanjiazhichu，suirantamendexinggeyouhendachabie，danjiarulianggerennengbaozhengkefuzijidexinggequedianerkuanronglingyifangdexinggequedian，yiyangyekeyishihunyinzuodaohemu，gouchengmeimanxingfudejiazhong。genjuxintaizixunjigoude“bamai”，tamenduijianglaidehunyinbaozhenglexinliyoushu。10yue25ri，tamenxijieliangyuan。

 jutongji，yibanjiehunqianxintaizixunbaohan3gecengmian：xintaiyushenglixuederongqiaqingkuang、xingxintaiqingkuangjiqigexinghuaheqichangdepeiduiqingkuang。

 dafujuede，jiehunqianjiugaoduzhongshilingyifangdexinggehexintaishiyizhongjinshendezhuyaobiaoxian，hunyinshibushimeimanxingfu，fufubicixinggeshibushi“langcainvmao”shiyigeguanjianyaosu，jiehunqiande“xintaitijian”henbixu，genjuxintaizhuanjia“bamai”，bangzhuzhangwolingyifangdexinggetezheng，bianyuweilai“duizhengzhiliao”，zaifashengzhengzhishilijiziwodiaojiexintai，weichihunyindexingfukuailehemu。

 juxiangguanrenyuanxiangxijieshao，jiazhongliekaitongchangshejidaoduozhongduoyangyuangu，ersanguanbuhedeshilizhanlehendadezhanbi。youdelaogonghuolaopoxinxiongxiazhai，duji、caiji，changwushishengfei;youdexinggekuangzao，changbazishenwaibianzaodaodeweimanqingxuxuanxiedaojiatingzhuyaochengyuanshoushang;youdexintaizhuangtaihunanxiaochen，shuohuakebo，jiduanhuamiaoshilingyifangdeng。

 erzheizhongxintaijiankangwentizailianqingshiquebuyidingzhuyaobiaoxiandechuqu，yincijiehunqianzuoyige“xintaitijian”，lejieyixialingyifangdexinggedoushihenbixude。

幸福快乐要靠宽容

 dafujuede，“xintaitijian”zhishishiyizhongcanmou，zhenshidehunyinyeyaokaolianggerendeqingganlaizhichengdian，erqinggandeleijibukehuoquechongzudegoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，qiewuyouyuyongyou“xintaitijian ”jiuhulvepingshixiangchuzhongduilingyifangdezhangwo。

 hunyinshifanzade，weihaihunyindeyaosuxuduo，erxianjieduandexintaiceshihaibuzujingque，buyidinghenkexueyanjiu，xintaiceshidejieguorengjinjinyigecanzhaozhibiaozhi，yaoquebaohunyinpinzhi，zhongyaoshifufubicijiehunhouyaoxianghuzhijianzhongshi，xianghuzhijiankuanrong。lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?