要想让恋情和婚姻幸福长期 就得了解这种超准的

怎么经营婚姻? 爱情问题一直困惑着许多人，成千上万人到深夜里买醉，抱头痛哭，脑海中里填满了疑惑：本来完美的爱情、婚姻为什么会变为如今如此不景气样子?

要怎么才能挽救逝去的爱情?

 shijishangzailianaiyuhunyinzhong，doushiyouguilvxingkexunde，xiabianjiuweidahuoerxiangxijieshaolianaiyuhunyinzhong，zheixiecanrendebiaozhunyuguilvxing。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

1、hunyinzhongjuedaduoshumaodunshishizhongcunyoude，erfuqizhijiandejuedaduoshuzhengzhishimeifachulide

 wubixianqueliyigekeguanshishi，zaihunyinzhong，xiantiaodongfanzanantideren，80%duoshiqizi，erzhangfumendouchangshifangzhitantaotamen。

 hunyinmaodunyouyibufenshinenggouchulide，lingyibufenmaodunshishizhongcunyoude，zheidaibiao，tamenhuiyineiyanghuoneibanfangshishizhongcunyouniderichangshenghuo。

 zhenduihunyinmaodunzhongdeguanjiannanti，niwuxuwakongxinsishijianquchuli，danniwubiqingxizaochengdajiazhongjianchuxianmaodundebenzhimaodun，yaodongderangbutuoxiedefangfa，genjuzhongshiyuchengzan，lairenshouzheileimaodun。

hunyinshibushiqudechenggong，zaiyunitiaoxuanleshiduoshaonikeyiyingduidenanti。

2、ruguoniqidaiairenyouzheyixiechusegexingtezhengshi，nidexiansuzaozheizhonggexingtezheng。

 zaiyixianghaiwaiquanweibumendekexueyanjiuzhong，luyisi.temanboshiyanjiushengzaidui2500duifufudediaochatongjiyihou，xiaojiechuyouzhekaixinhunyinderendetedian：qujueyubierendexiangchuzhong，shanyuxiezuo，heaikeqinerpojuzerenxin，erqiesuishisuiditiqianzhunbeiquxiezhuyiqieyoujiannanderen。”

 erzuiguanjiandeyidianshi：“jiaruniyaoqugexiaogongzhu，jiudeshigeyuzhipeiduidebaimawangzi，dangnixiangyaoyigechusedezhangfu，nideqixiangehaobanlv。”

 yaoxiangyaoxingfudeganqinghunyin，quanbushierdeguanjiansuozainikeyizuogeshihederen，xuduorenqipanzhaogepiaoliang、youxiu、nengkuanrongbierendeairen，shubuzhinidexianqinfenbianchengnageshihederen，yaoburandengzhenilijinjianxindilaidaoneigerenyanqian，tajiyoukenenghulvelenidecunyou。

 ruoniqipanyuyiweihenhaoderenwanhun，neizishenjiudeshiyigehenhaoderen。yaobianrenchunibenrenzaishenmefangmianbixugaishan。hebuzaizhixingshangyixiangxiangdiliejuniqidaizhixiqinshuyouzhedegexingtezheng，suihouduizhedanjupingdingzishen。

qiyuedangshiyixiangshiyushoudefuwuchengnuo;nikeyiruhehuode，haiyaoruhezhongzhi。

3、pipingairendezhijieyuanyin

 cengyouyigeguniangxunzhaowo，shuotahenkunao，changchanggenzhangfuzhengchao。dangniduitashencengcizhangwoyihou，fajuetafeichangxiaipipingtaren，tazhangfuganshenmeshier，bixubeitahenhendipipingyidun。

 tabingbushiganjuezishenzuobuduinaxie，tayiliankeliandizhazhedayan，shuo：“wojiushiweitahao，zheizhongquanshiquanjuxingdepiping。”

 suanle，shijishangshijieshangmeiyouquanjuxingdepipingzheileiwupin。yaoshishipiping，doushilingrenbushuangtongchu，pipingburongyiranghunyinyuelaiyuehao，zhishibuduanranghunyinbianzao。

weihefuqijianhuichangchangxianghuzhijianpipingni?

 yigehenguanjiandeyuangushilaiyuanyuyugerenneibu，zheiyuziwohuaiyixiangguan，tayibanzaochengyutongnianshidai，bansuizherendechengcaierfazhanqushi，huanjuhua，ziwohuaiyiqiyuanyuziwopouxi。

 dangniduizishenmeiyouzixinxin，neimaninengyizhiningshizhezishenyuzhixiqinshudecunzaidebuzu。yiqieyigeyunijiehunduixiangdouhaowuyiwenhuiqueshaoyixiekeyongdezhiliang。nantiqujueyu，renmentongchanghuiguanxinzhixiqinshusuomeiyoudewupin，hulvetamenxianyoudexingfuzhiliang，renmenbazheizhongyouxiupinzhishizuolisuoyingdang。

4、lianrenhefufuzhongdebaoyuanguilv

conggudaojin，zongxuduorenhuixunzhaosuanmingshifu、zhanbushi，tuisuanzishendehunyuan。

 erzaidangdaishehuifazhan，zaiyouzheyouxiaodefangfadeqiantitiaojianxia，hunyinxueshuyanjiunengyi90%zuoyoudechenggonglvyucechushenmefufujiangbaitouxielao，ershenmefufuhuixunsuliyi。kexueyanjiufufuyufuqiguanxidezhuanjiajiaoshouxiaojielesizhongfuqizhijianbaoyuandeteshubuzhengque，qumingwei“moshisiqishi”，zheisizhongyidanchuxian，feichangrongyizaochenghunyindewanbihuoshiguanliandeminmie。

1、diyiqishi：xiguanxingdepiping

2、dierqishi：baohuxing(yifangjiedaopipingyihou，suihouhuilikenaonubianbo，niyebutaihao，yeshinanti!)

3、disanqishi：duobi、moshixianghudegoutongjiaoliu (jindudaozheiyikedeneishihou，zhongzhibaoyuanyeyouzhengjiudejiyu)

 4、disiqishi：qingshilingyiban，meiyouzerenxin，yizhiyuhuiduiairendetongchuzhiruowangwen(tashizuijupohuailidezhuyaobiaoxian)

ruhegenggaizheiyangdeshiqing?

 · tantaohuohuiyingbijiaominganyougongzuoyalidehuatitaolunshi，nikeyizhushitadeshuangyan。hunyinxuezhefajue，dangqizibaoyuanshi，zhangfuningshiyuezhang，hunyinmanyilvyueduogao

· qizifajuezhangfudemuguanggangkaishikuangsuanle，jiubixuranglingyifangjiangxiehuale。

 · yaodongdeyongyouqudeshiheyoumofengqulairangshieryuelaiyueqingqingsongsong。feichangshinengyiqigaoxingwanlebingranglingyifangshenzhanhuangexiaoyu，huiduigenggaiguanlianyoutingdadeshijiyiyi。

· huixuegongxiangziyuanxianghudexihao，bingxianghuzhijianrentong

· youhemulingrenmanyidefuqishenghuo。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?