婚姻经营秘籍：为什么有些夫妻过着过着就不爱了？

 benwenfenxianghunyinjingyingmiji：weishenmeyouxiefuqiguozheguozhejiubuaile?youxieren，nvxingzaizheiyishichangjingzhengyalitaidadeshiqi，buruxiangnanshengyiyangpinsipinhuo，keshichukaigongzuozhongyeyouyidabajiawuhuo，yeyaoshengxiaohai，yangxiaohai，pilaoshuipingfenhaobushunansheng。

1、bumingbaixianghulijie，dajiadeqingganshizhongburongyigongping。

tanqizheili，pobudeyitiyigeyongjiuxingdehuatitaolun，jiushishuozheiyiquanshijie：“nanshengleihuanshinvxinglei?”

 youxieren，nanshengzaizheiyiloujiagao，xiaofeigao，wujiashuipinggaodesangaoshiqi，gongzuoyalizhongzhongde，haipaxiexi，haipayongxinquganshou，yizhiyunuoruodehaipadebing，youyudaodile，beihoujiushishuomeifajiezhudeqizi，queshihuodexiaosataileile。

 yeyouxieren，nvxingzaizheiyishichangjingzhengyalitaidadeshiqi，buruxiangnanshengyiyangpinsipinhuo，keshichukaigongzuozhongyeyouyidabajiawuhuo，yeyaoshengxiaohai，yangxiaohai，pilaoshuipingfenhaobushunansheng。

neimeniguigenjiedinanshengleihuanshinvxinglei?

doulei，jinjinnanshengshenxinpibei，nvxingshenlei。

 yinci，dangliangrentiaoxuanjiehezaiyiqishi，dongdedebuyinggaishizuijiaozhizhan，zhishixianghulijie 。zailaogongchumenxinkushi，nvxingyeguanzhujialidesuoshi;zainvrenzaijiapibeibukanrumushi，nanshengyegaidongdeqianjiu，zheicaisuanshiyigejiadejiaowangjiqiao。meiyousheiweijiafengxiandeshuzuiduo，zhishiquanliyifuquqianjiuxianghuweijiasuonulideburongyi。hunyinshenghuo，caiburongyizaizhengduodangzhongyuelaiyueganga。

2、kanbushang。nikanbushangdebingbushilingyifang，zhishilingyifangyanzhongdezishen。

 xuduorenshuo：“congtiaoxuandeairen，jiunengkandechuzheiyirendepinwei”，haoxiaodeshi，xuduorenshicongchengzanzishendeshenmeiguandaowuruzishendeshenmeiguan。

 ruguonizaikanbushangyanqiandezheiyinanshengchuwaidapin，fenhaobuguanbugujiadeneishihou，niyezaikanbushangdangshinagexialeyandezishen;ruguonikanbushangyanqiandenvxinghaochilanzuobukanrumudeneishihou，niyezaikanbushangdangshinagetounaoloushuidezishen。

youyurendeyoushiyulieshiquanshibingcunde，tadeyoushiyulieshishimaiyizengyide，naliyouyaoshiyichugechubiduandeni?

 yinci，chuduixiangdeneishihou，xiangqingxi，nizuiaitanaxie?niaitashanjierenyi，niaitahenshuai，niaitadeqian…haideaitademeimao，niaitadeduocaiduozi…doukeyi，jinjinciwai，nihaiyaojienatadebiedequexian。yigegujiadenansheng，tongchangmeishenmezerenxin，yigeyouzerenxindenanshengtongchangbuguanbugujia，bingfeitabuyuanyigu，chuangdanghedapinshibixuhuashijiande。eryigemeimaodenvxingzongshibashijianhuazaichuanzhedabanshang，eryigeduocaiduozidenvxingdabufenshixuebudaoxianliangshude。

 xiangqingxizishenyaonaxie，biedefujiadequexianhaiyaoyibingjieshou。xuduoneishihourenmenyouyulingyifangdeyoushigenlingyifangzaiyiqi，zheichengweiganqing，queyaohelingyifangdequexianjiaowangyibeizi，zheijiushishuohunyinshenghuo。doubiekanbushang，youyulingyifangdeyoulie，congyikaishi，shiniganxinqingyuanxuande，biehezishentongguobule。