婚恋问题：相亲约会闪结婚后的夫妻间该怎么经营婚姻

 hunwailian zenmeban?xiangqinyuehuixunsujiushanhun，liangzhinanrennvrentongchangshizaitarendeducuzhizhong、hulihutudijicongcongzouruhunyin。zheixieducudajiajiehunduixiang，wojuedebingfeifazifeifuganjuedajiahuixingfukuaile，huoxuyouderenzishenyebuqingxi，hunyinbixuxienaxie。

 jiranzaoyishanhun，muyichengzhou，tarulehunyinzheisouchuan，jiujinliangbuyaodinaoliyi。hunyinbingbushierxi，shanjiehunhoudefufujiaruduodiansixujingyinghunyin，wojuedehaikeyiguodefeichanghao。

一、搞好充分准备

 chuduixiangninengqingqingsongsongkaixin，danhunyinbuyiyang。hunyinjiushishuoyishizhuxing，jianbangyouchengdan。shanhunyihouyingduideyishizhuxing，zaimeilidenvxingyebutaikenengbushiyanhuo，meiribixuganzahuo，shejichaimiyouyanjiangcucha，yemianbuleshejirichangshenghuohenzangdeyibian。richangshenghuoyizhicanrende，nikeyixuehaodanfuhunyinzhonggaijindeyiwu。

 wulunduoqiangdenanren，zaihunyinliyemianbulequeshishiqi。zaihunyinli，nidebuchengshuqi、nidewaishang、nidexintaichuangshang、nidezhuduobugou……doushibaoluwuyi。zenmejingyinghunyin?yinci，shanhunyihou，nihaiyaogaohaochongfenzhunbei，zhongjiumengxiangyuxianshideqifutingda，niwubishiketiqianzhunbeihaochengdanyishizhuxingrangnideyanlidajihegongzuoyali，yongnanbiandingyudexintai，quyingduihunhoushenghuo。

二、对相互承担

 shanhunbingfeiyitiaozhongshikuaican，niyaochijiuchi，xiangrengjiureng。dangshijiyankanzhonglejiushanhun，muqianyiyanbuheliyi，neiqibuxiangerxitongchang。laoxiangsuoyao、conglingyifangshoushanghuodenaxiederen，butaikenengxingfukuaile。zouruhunyinderen，yaoduosuzaoshiminggan，hunyindaliangdeshiyiwu，xingfukuailebixuzishendeqinfen。

duixianghuchengdan、xiangyaoweilingyifangfentan，bicinenggouxianghuzhijianyicun，hunyinnenggouzhangqicunyouxialai。

 zenmejingyinghunyin?bubixiaokanjiehunhoudeshenghuodeduoyuanxing、zhuduodejiankuhetiaozhan，yaoshihunhoushenghuoyouyisisinenggougaijindejianghui，haiyaoduoxiangzhefangfaqujiejuekunnan，bubiyouyuyizhenzideyuwangshuosanjiusan，suibiancuihuixingfukuaile。

三、多花時间掌握另一方

 shanhunyiqian，wojuedefuqijiandezhangwohaibugou，hunhou，suzaoliangrendeqinggansuanshizhenglu。zhenduixianghudexieaizeng，nishiyaonongqingchu，jiaruxuduodeqingkuangnihuanghuanghuhumengzaiguli，quandoubuqingchu，jiehunqianmeiyouqianzhanxing，neimajiehunhouyingduimouxiechuhuyiliaodeshier，jiumeibanfajiejuehao，weinenggenggaizheileixiankuangdehuatongchanghuidaozhinankanjushi，rangliangrendeguanlianyulaiyucha。

 duohuaxieshijianquzhangwolingyifang，nenggougaohaohunyinguanlifangfa。zhenduifuqijiandezhize、jiaowangjihui、xianghujiandedaodedixian、lvxian、jiqijingjiexian，niwubikaolvzhoudao。xuduoshierbukeyizhimibuwu，nikeyiduogenlingyifangtantaoshangyi。gaohaozheizhonghunyinguanlifangfa，shanhundeshirinenggoujianchixiaqu。

四、应用优势视角

 shanjiehunhoudefufu，yuanyihunhoushenghuoguodegengxingfudian，pengdaonantininengyingyongyoushishijiao。yiqiekefouruyuanyichang，zhikanzhenihexindianzenyang，ruguonizhaoduiyige，jiunenggouqiaoqiyuzhou。zaiwulunzenyang，nibixubahexindianfangdaozheixiejubeiyoudiandejijizhudongcengmian，bingcongzheidangzhongzhaoxunrenhenenggougenggaidejianghui。