中国式相亲，一场以爱之名的绑架

 zhenduizhongguoshixiangqinwanhunhenduowangmingyouhuayaojiang，wojuedejinjin1gezuoxiuzongyijiemu，yeshifanyinglezhongguoshijiehundexiankuang，xiangqinjiehunyoubabamamababadouyoukanguan，neimajinrixiangduinishuoyixiaxiazhongguoshijiatingdehunlianjiaoyouwenhuajiaoyushiruhede。

一、这些以爱为名执行的绑票

 zheixieyiaiweimingzhixingdebangpiao，youzhonghao，shibabamamajuedexintengni，tamenganjuebuyini，neiyangdenvshenghuoshinanhaierdexingqinggenwobubanpei，keshihoubianshuodaodi，nijianghuibuzhangwonidexiaohaixiaideshisha，bingbingbuyidingdexiaohaidouxiaiguaiguainv，daigedajinshiyanjingde。

二、我喜欢你，因此你可以听我的

 dang1gexiaohaizaiyiyaxueyushi，babamamamenyizhibanqishangxiaweihu，haipatabeiwailizuoyongsunhai。dadajiayibiananquanxing，yibian“ai”xiaohai，bijiaoyanzhongfangailexiaohaitansuoyuzhoudeqinfen。bansuihaizichengzhang，babamamamendecunjinchidineiyangzuo，bangxiaohaichuliquanbudenandian，yi“ai”deweituorenbipoxiaohaijienazishendejuece。

1、niyaoxiao，bukeyichuduixiang。

2、nianlinghendale，ganjinjiehunba。

3、tajiazhongbiaozhunfeichanghao，ganjinquxiangxiangqinyuehui。

4、bierenbiaozhunhenhao，meishenmebuyaolingrenmanyide？

 renshengdeyiyiqujueyutiaoxuan，cunwangshitiaoxuan，jizijiderenshengdaoluzuojuecedoushi。dangzijidulijizijidexingmingzuotiaoxuanshi，buguanduiyucuo，tadexingmingdouyouyudulitiaoxuanerduozhongduoyang。zhinengzuoguotiaoxuan，1geyouxiurencaizhenshideaoguo。

dangbabamamayiaiweimingtixiaohaizuojueceshi，xiangdangyuxintaishanglesixiaohai，suiranzheirenhekanqilaiyoushizaitaidezhencheng。

三、我喜欢你，因此人们不分离出来

 zhongguoshixiangqinwanhunzhongyougepianduan，mamatingdaozishendehaizixiainvxingaotang，jiaochendishuo：“muqinyehuia！”tadeyanwaizhiyishizhongjiufushihaizizaishangxia，tabingbuyuanranghaiziliquzishen。nikeyiyoulenizishendeyishizhuxing，nideyishizhuxingbujinjinyouhaizibale，haiyoushiheyuanfanga。

 zuoweibabamama，nikeyizhangwonibukeyipeitamenyisheng，dahuoerfenbieyouzishendeyishizhuxing，nineiyangchajintarenderichangshenghuo，naizhiganyuwenhuajiaoyu，renmenyaozuoyimingtinghuadebabamamaa，gaifangkaishoujiufangkaishoude。

yiqiqukanyixiaxiaxialiejileiqingkuang，shifouganjuehenlejie。

1、huijiae，jiazhonghao，muqinhainengzhaoliaoni。

2、1gerendaowaibianduojianxin，huijiaxiangqinjiehunliudaofumushenpangba。

3、niyeweirenmenkaolvyixia，jinzaoshenggexiaohai，wogenrangnijiunengjishiganle。

 babamamahexiaohaizhandaoyikuaier，yibanlaishuo，doubingbushixiaohaibukehuoquebabamama，youyudanduchengcaishiyuanyuxingmingdeyuwang。erxuduobabamamayouyuzishenmeifajienayuxiaohaifenlichulai，youyiaiweiminglaikaolvzishendebixu。

 neiyangzuozuibijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiangshi，xiaohaihuiweileshixianbabamamadebixu，erzhongzhidanduchengcai，“juying”、“mabaonan”jiuzheiyangpeiyangde。haicunyouzhezhongguoshijiehun，haipadoujiushishuozheileigannaole。

四、成人的挑选，与爸爸妈妈不相干

 xueyuanguanxishixiantianxingde，meifagenggai，danzuilixianghuadeqingkuanghuanshi“dahuoerzuopenyou”。huxiangbalingyifangdangchengrenshigoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliudejiben。

 zai“zhaoduixiang”zheijianshiqingshang，jiebuxiangjiehun、gensheiwanhun、shengbuxiangshenghaizi、shenghaoduogexiaohai，dougenbabamamameiyouguanlian。ernvbuyongweibabamamashibushikaixinshibushikumenerchengdan。

 keshi，“zhongguoshijiatingbabamama”meibanfajienazheitaoluojixing。zhongguoshijiehunzheileikunfudeyishizhuxing，tongchangjiuyaoxiaohaisangshishangjinxin，ebianpoxizhijian，dajiabixuyoushidudeshineikongjiancaidui。

 ziguyilaiwomenshizaihuxiangkunfuliyishizhuxing，shangyidaibangxiaohaitanduixiang，dengnitamen“weizijishengxiaosunzi”，xiaohaizhangdayihouzaizhouerfushi，babamamashuodequanshiduide，xiaohaitingcongshichuantongmeide，shiwei“xiaojing”。

zaizheiyinantishang，liandaoyanyiqianshuo，yaobaxiaohaidangdanduderenkan，buyongxiaohaixiaojing，zhibixutamenshandaiziji。