娶老婆到底为了什么 人为什么要结婚

 renweishenmeyaojiehun？jiehunweishenme？quxifujiujingyibiannaxie？yixienanshengshuo，nilianzhufandouburongyi，yifukuziyexibuzhengjie，woquniyouyongma？haiyixienanshenghuijialeyikandaoxifumeizhufanjiugangkaishifapiqi，shuozishenleizhemeitianhuijialeliankourefandouchibuqi。

 keshi，xiangduinishuoniqudeshixifubingbushilaomazi，sheibingbushileizhemeitianni？zheihuashuodehao：nizhaoxifubingbushiweinishengxiaohai，shiyibiangennixiangyixiangwei。shuobailefufu，zhangfubingbushizheizhongzhenshishenfen，zhishizheizhongyiwu；xifubingbushizheizhongnicheng，zhishizheizhongshouwei。bianchenglianrenyexuzhibixuganqing，danbianchengqinrenquebixulianggerendenuli、xunzhiherangbu。yiqifeichangrongyi，zouxialaimeibanfa。

一、什么是家

 jiashifufuxianghuyunyingde，shougongbianzhizhemenghekulasuantiandewo。jiabingbushi1gejianyidedingyi，jiabingbushifangzi，bingbushicaisedianshi，bingbushidianbingxiang，bingbushihuaxuewuzhiduijiqilaideshineikongjian。jiabixuxiaidejiaren，bixuzheifenfeichangdezhenqingshigan，2gehuxiangguanianderenjiushishuojia。

二、婚姻生活就象大桌宴席

 tashibaifangzaijialidegengweizhongyaodenanti。zairichangshenghuozhong，haolaogongweibinengqudaohaolaopo，haolaopoyeweibinengjiadehaolaogong，haolaopohehaolaogongyiqiyishizhuxingyouweibixingfukuaile。

 jiehunweishenme？renyouqianbaizhong，shiyoubaixiang，meiyirendegexing、pinwei、suzhijiebuyiyang，fuqixiangchudefangfajiubuyiyang，yibaiduifufuyouzhaoshijiaowangdefangfa。

 hunyinshenghuojiuxiangdazhuoyanxi——aiqingshizhengcan，baorong、lejie、xinlai、zhongshijiushishuoyidaoyidaocai，shangxi、fengqu、quweixingjiushishuojiuheyinpin，zhinenglingwaijuyousuoshuhaoduogezhongleideyanxi，caisuanshishangqiaruqifendeyanxi，zhiyuandahuoerzaihunyinshenghuozheizhuoyanxishang，chideshushianyi，chidetairan，chideyongjiuxing，zhizhixingmingdezuizhongyixi。

 zhengshuobaile，bainianlaoxiuweitongzhou，qiannianxiudegongzhen。40suizhihou，zhenshidefufu，bingbushisheizhengfu2shei，zhishisheiguanzheshei。

三、两只好的夫妇就应当是那样的

1、自始至终

 renweishenmeyaojiehun？40suizhihou，huixiangdaoliangrenyikuaieryishizhuxingzheixienian，xieshoubingjiantaguoneimaduodekankankeke，yishizhuxingyejianjiandiquxiangningjing。chongjingweilai，yemeishenmejiannanweicengpengdaoguo，meishenmekanbukeyiyiwang。zuiguanjiandeshi，qianhaoshenpangderen。caiyi、caiyi，shizuibuzhide！yaolejie，ruguozaochenglebuxinlai，qingganjiumeibanfapojing。

 40suile，zinvdaduoshumeiyoushenpang，jiazhongzhonghuileliangrendeyishizhuxing。cike，henheshiquzuomouxienianqingshiweidabiaodemeng。kanzheichangyingpian，songzheifenrenzhendexiaolipin，huozaiduqianzhelaobanerdeshouquliuda，dounengzhongxindianranareqing！

2、不太过较真儿

 “bubizhengfu2lingyifang”tashifufuzuiguanjiandenanti。zhengfu2，shifuqijianchangchangchanshengdeshier。taolundaodishisheiduide，zhuizedaodishisheicuode！tantaosheisunhaileshei，sheitaiguole！zheizhong，quanshijihui。haofufu，yongyuandouzaihuxiangzhuanghutu、huxiangzhuangxia、huxianghuduan。keyihuduande，suanshizhenqing！

 jiaruliangrenyebuxiangyaobiansha，doucongming，shashibixunonggedaodi、gaogegaoqingchu，neizaishenghuozhong，haowuyiwenshijinxiaoshenwei，zhanzhanjingjing，huodexiaosayidianerdoubuqingqingsongsong、bukaixin！

3、“fufuhe”，wanshixing

 errentongxin，huangtucengbianjin。jiawushiwuduiyucuo，zhinenghebuhe，“fufuhe”nenggoujiahe，“jiahe”nenggouwanshixing！fufuchengjialiye，zheiyijiashijiangaidediqu，bingbushijiangdaolidediqu。jiangdaolidediqushifayuan。jiashiyougenheyouhunde，erzheigehehundouyoufufucaokong；nalingyifangmeicaokonghao，doushi“shihe”。

 chaolibule，mabusan，dabudong。zhinengneiyang，nenggouweichi“fufuheqiliu”，nenggourangjiazhongchangsheng，zuyeqiangsheng，ernvzisunxiangyouhongfu！yiduanhua：fufuhe，wanshixing！

4、互相照顾

 ai，buyaozaidiaonanlingyifang，biekekelingyifang，biechizelingyifang，zhishiyaoshashadedizaicixiangsui。sha，youyugongtongduguolezheixienian，zaoyizaoyijuecele，pingdingle。meishenmebixuzaizhangwo、zailejie、zaigaishan、zaijianquande！

 youfazhan，jiujiena；meiyoufazhan，yejiena。neima，40suizhihoudefufuzhiai，jiuzaineibianle。yisheng，keyiyougeren，haohaodienai，zishizhizhongxiangsui，duopiaolianga！40suizhihou，fufuhaiyaozaicihuxiangzhaogu，huxiangzhaoliao，huxiangshouhou！

5、坚定信念

 yiqiyishizhuxinglezheixienian，ganqingjianjiandibianweilezhenqing，jishiliangrenrujinyiqi，meiledangshidereqing，neiyeqingbiewangjiyeyouqinggan。ruguoniyuanyifangkaishoudeneishihou，youmuyouxiangguodangshiweihepeitahuotazoulaidaozheier？yiqijiule，jishimeiyouneishihouneimaenai，haiyaotiaoxuanzaicibaitouxielao，zheizhongdouduixianghubaozhenglemeiyou？

 nvxingdongbaitouxielao，nanshengdongganxie，suanshiyisheng。yinci，40suizhihou，buguanzenyang，yebiewangjiyeyouqinggan。zaifenbugushendeganqingyedibuguoyishizhuxingdeyouyanjiangcu，zaijingtiandongdideshiciyedingdanshixianghudehuxiangshouhou。

 enaifeichangrongyibaitouxielaonan。mingjiaoshengxifufeichangrongyi，mingjiaoshengfurenyebuhuitainan，keshimingjiaoshenglaotaitai，queshiyishengdechengnuo！renmendeyibeizi，pengdaoderenxuduo，yushangxiaideburongyi，pengdaoxiangaiderengengnan，enaiyounengyiqiyeshidelaibuyi。

zuixingfudexiachangjiushishuo，nibianchenglewodezeren，keshiwobianchenglenideshouwei，zheibanbaitouxielaoyibeizi，xiangyixiangwei！