如何打消孩子的攀比心态？

 “tarenjiaxiaohai”，shizhongshiwulinshangde1gechuanshuogushi，shizhongduoxiaopengyoumendegongdi，shizuishuxidemoshengren。renmendebabamamayiqianneiyangkandaiguorenmen，erzairenmenbianchenglebabamamayihou，yiranyouxuduozaiyiyiyangdefangfakandaizishendexiaohai，yinci“dongshidehaizi”zishizhizhongyinhunbusan。neiyangdeshilifushijieshi。mangmupanbibudanhuichanshengzaichengnianrenshoushang，yehuichanshengzaihenduoxiaohaishoushang。aipanbixintaidexiaohaijiuyaoshuo“tongxuemenchuanxianliangxiuxianxiezhenpiaoliang，muqinniyebangwomaiyiduiba”“niqidancheganwanbiesongwonianshu”……tingjianxiaohaishuoxiangjindehuajiqiaipanbixintai，zhenduixiaohaidepanbixintaifumugairuheyingduini？womenyiqilaiqiaoqiaoba。

一、不必跟小孩喊穷

 fumuzaixiaohaiziyanqianqianwanbieyitiandaowanhanqiong，neiyangfeichangrongyihuiweihaixiaopengyoudejiazhiquxiangjiqiduiqiandelejie，yingdangcongqiadangdeshijiaoqujixiaopengyouzuozhengqueyindao。jiarurangxiaopengyouguanniandaojiazhongbingbushitaiyouqian，tamenjiuhuizaochengaipanbixintaihebuzixindexintaizhuangtai，ganjueburuqitadetongxuemen。zheiduixiaohaijianglaidechengcaihexingqingpeiyangyemeiyouyichu，jiyoukenengxiaohaiweilaijindaochuruzhichang、tarushehui，huiguoduogaoduzhongshijinqianquanyi。

二、爸爸妈妈要搞好楷模

 fumushixiaohaidejiaoshi，babamamadegerenxingweijiqishuohuaxiguanxingfeichangrongyihuiweihaidaoxiaopengyou。jiarufumuchangchangzaixiaohaiziyanqianshuohuayizhimingmuzhangdandetanjijinqiandebiyaoxing，youmouxiedouhaimeixuehuisikaogongzuonenglidexiaohaizixunsujiuhuiduizhehuluhuadabing。xiaohaijiuxuehaojianyidifanfuchengnianrendehua，xiaofangchengnianrendeyudiaoqudianpingzishenhebieren。dajiachangshuo，babamamashixiaohaideshourenqimenglaoshi，babamamadeyijuyidong，xiaohaidoujianghuikanzaiyanzhongjixinli，duixiaohaixingqingheaipanbixintaideyingzaohezhiliangdechanshengzaochengerrumurandeweihai。yiner，zuoweibabamama，wubidangxinliuyizishendegerenxingwei。

三、鼓励孩子的价值取向

 gulihaizidejiazhiquxiang，rangxiaohailejiebabamamadegongziheyiyuekaizhideguifan。jixiaohaimaihuoshiyouxiaohaizishenlaifufei，tahuixuehaozuozhang，renshizijidesuoyaoyubabamamadenuli。lingyige，zuoweifumu，bukeyiduixiaohaiqianyibaishun、jiaoguan，bubijixiaohairenhetayuanyidewupin，neiyangfeichangrongyipeiyangertongguoduodezisizilidexintaizhuangtai，daozhixiaohaidepanbixintaiguanxingli。

四、正确对待小孩的方位

 fumuxuzhuyixiaohaidejiaopengyouquan，jiaruxiaohaizhoubiandeduiyoudoushanyuxuexipeixun，erqiehuxiangxuexijiaoliu，neimaxiaohaidaziranyehuiyibianrongjinzaiqizhong，congerzhuanxinzhizhixuexipeixun。lingyige，xiangxijieshao，fumuyaozhengqueyindaoxiaohaizaijijizhudongdecengmianyubierenkaizhanjiaowei，liruxuexipeixun、pinxing、zhuanyejinengdeng，haiyingjiaoyuhaiziyizhengdangxingfangfa，genjugerennulilaikuayuetaren。