脾气大，爆脾气是什么原因？

你很难想到，发爆脾气居然是是期待对方理解你和接受你的想法或者意见不太有效的方法，如果对方也正在气头上，不听你说，一味的给你说他自己的意见和看法，那么你们两个就会越来越不可开交。

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或者你发现自己的兄弟姐妹中，在脾气大时有一方安静下来了，你会在你的潜意识里觉得这样解决问题会给你带来安全感。等你离开家人来到大学，你就会忍不住要发爆脾气，这不能怪你。因为你解决问题的方法太少了，找不到其他解决办法。

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比如班上考试结果出来了，有的人考的成绩比她高，而她就会觉得自己受到了伤害，而无端的生气。可能还会给她好朋友抱怨，而她好朋友为那个成绩好的辩护时，她会觉得整个世界都在给她过不去。这些场景不只是电视剧里经常出现，身边也会有这样的人，只是表现的没有电视剧里表现得明显罢了。

youxierenfapiqi，nizhendebunengguaita，nizhidaozhenxianghoushuobudingnihaihuikeliantani！

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