如果你爱上一个离婚的女人，不妨这样做

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一、帮助她走出阴影

 ruguoniaishangyigelihundenvren，niyaobangzhutazouchuyinying。lihunnvrenheyibanrenbuyiyang，tamenjingliguoqingganshanghai，yejiubuzaihezuikaishineiyangduiyiqiedeaidoushenxinbuyi。ruguonimeiyouxiadingjuexinqushenaita，neijiubuyaoqingyihetakaishi，buranjiuhuiyoushanghaitayici。ruguochenggonghetaxiangaizhihoujiuyaozhudongguanxinta，bangzhutazouchuguoqudeyinying，buyaorangtayizhigugudandanshoujinshibaiaiqingdezhemo。

二、不要伤害她

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 buyaoqingyikaishiyiduanlianqing，youshibuyaoqingyihelihunnvrenkaishiyiduanaiqing。ruguonibuquedingshifoushenai，neijiubuyaozuotaiduodeshiqing，yebuyaoquzhudongyinyouta，rangtapaoqiyiqiehenigongtongshenghuo。tamendouhencuiruojingbuqinizheiyangzheteng。zaimeiyouquedingkeyishenaitazhiqian，jiubuyaoquzhaota，rangtayigerenananjingjingdeshenghuo，jiushiduitazuishendeai。

四、心里要有她位置

 helihunnvrenxiangchudeshihou，zuibunengshaodejudongshiguanai。tamenzaixindeganqingzhongyouyuguoquteshujingli，huibiandejiduquefaanquangan。zhiyaoniyikebuzaishenbian，huoshiyanyuzhizhongshaolejifenguanxin，neijiuhenrongyirangtahusiluanxiang。suoyizhaolihundenvrentanlianai，nikeyidingyaoshishikekexiangzheta，buyaosuiyiduidaita。