爱上离婚的女人，男人需要的勇气有多大

 ruguoyourengaosuni“woaishangle lihun denvren”，tabiranshiyigezhidejingpeideren。suiranwomenxiaobufenderenduiyulihunnvrenmeiyourenhepianjian，danshidabufenrenhaishijuedezheileirenbuxing。neimeaishanglihundenvren，nanrenxuyaodeyongqiyouduoda?

一、坚定

 nanrenruguoaishangyigelihunnvren，meiyoujiandingdeyikexin，shihennanzouxiaqude，ruguonizaiyikaishihuaiyizijinengbunengchulihaozheiduanganqingdehua，neimehaiburuchenzaolikai。jizijigengduodeshijianquxunzhaolingyigeyouyuanren，yerangduifangtongyangquzhaolingyiban。duinimenlianggerendouhao。yinweiaishangyigelihunnvren，nihuifaxianzijihaoxiangxuancuolerendeganjue，suoyouderendouhuibuzantong，napashinimendepengyou。tamenhuigennijiangdaoli，liechuyixienigenbenwufafanbodeshiqing，shijianzhangle，ruguomeiyouyikejiandingdexin，nihenrongyijiuchenxianxiaqule。

二、父母的反对

 suiranninengshuofunidepengyou，danshinijueduiyaohuadaliangdeshijianlaizuofumudegongzuo。yinweipengyoutadaduoshukaiming，tamenhuijinitigongcankaojiazhi，danjueduibuhuikongzhinidexingdong。fumujiubutongle，tamenhuikongzhinideyiyanyixing，rangniquantaanpaideluquxingzou，tamenzainixiaodeshihou，jiukaishiguanzhini，genhekuangshijiehunzheimedadeshiqing，zheiguanxidaonideyisheng。tamenneigeshiqi，meiyourenhuiqulihun。tamenjuedelihunnvren，tadepinxingbuxing。suoyi，huiyizhibutongyinimenlianggezaiyiqi。nanrenyaozuohaoyizhiquanshuofumudezhunbei。

三、爱

 shouxian，nanrenaishanglihunnvren，yaowenziji，zijiduizheigenvrendeaihuiyongyuanbubianma？haishinizhishixianzaiaita，kenengyinweitahaokan，yihoudelujiushizouyibusuanyibuni？ruguonijuedenimenzhijiandeaibuhuiyinweibierendezulanfenkai，ershixishuizhangliu，napafenkaiyeshiganqingjianjianmeile，xiangzheixieputongqinglvjinglideyiyangma？ruguozheiyang，nimenkeyizaiyiqi。yinweiganqingbiandansheiyekongzhibuzhu，erhuibuhuiyinweidiyigeyuanyinfenkaishikeyishixiantuicechulaide。

四、眼光

 ruguonigaosubieren“woaishanglelihundenvren”，gujihenduorenhuishuo“kan，zheigenvdeshilihunguode，haohaodenvrenzenmehuilihunjiajita？xiaohuoziyanguangyeshiyouwenti。”bierenhuiyongzheigeyanguangkannimen，ruguonikeyibuzaihubierendehua，neikeyizaiyiqide。