女神应正确看待撩和追求

一、怎 样算是撩，怎样算是追求。

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我回复：这不是追，是撩。 因为这个回复，很多姑娘跑来问我“撩和追到底有什么区别。”  jianyuzheigewentiyijuhualiangjuhuashuobuqingchu。gugujiuxielezheipianwen，zhuanmenjinimen“kepu”yixia“liaohezhuidequbie。”sheirangwochongfenni，erqieshijiacuchongfen。neimezhendeshiliaoshizhuiqiuma？“bu，liaoshisiyiwangwei；zhuishixiaoxinyiyi。”henjiuyiqian，wojiutingrenshuoguo：“taolushisiyiwangweide，zhiguzijikaixin。zhenxinshixiaoxinyiyidi，huizaiyiduifangdeganshou。”zheijuhua，fangzai“liao”he“zhui”shang，tongyangshiyong。liaoniderenhuijianggezhongtaolusuishounianlai，yigegetaozainideshenshang，tabuhuiyousihaodanqie，yebuhuizaihuzijishuochuqudehuanishifouxihuan。biru：takeyizairenshinisantianjiuhaobuzaihudishuochurenilianhongxintiaodehua：“wodexinliquanshini。lailailai，jiwoqinyikou。xiaoshoujiwolayixiabei。”zaibiru：takeyizaijintianduinibaibanreqing，peinitongxiaoliaotian，quezaidiertianyouduinilengdanzhiji，hulenghurerangnizhuomobutou。suoyinigengyinggaizhengquekandailiaoshizhuiqiumazheigewentitacaibuhuikaolvnidexintaidongtai，yebuzaihunishifouhuijuedetabugouzhengzhiheshenshi。yinweitayaodezhishiyigehuanjiekongchuangqijimodeaimeiduixiang。

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