如何追求女孩子

一、抱一颗平常心、耐心和宽容心

 laoshimunedenanhaimianduinvhaihuijinzhang，pashuocuohua、biaocuoqing、zuocuoshi。neimezheiyangruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderenni？qishidakebubi，niyaozuodeqishijiushizuoniziji，rangrenjiamingmingbaibaidekandaonideyoudian、tedian，quedianyidingshijichengshuzaizhanshi，buranzaimeiyoutaiduoganqingjichudeshihou，benlaiwanquannenggoujieshoudequedianhenrongyibeifangdagaiguoyiqie，tongshiyegengkandaonidetancheng。shishangmeiyouwanmeidenanren，nibubiyizijidetanchengweidaijiaquyanshizijidequedian，jibukenengyehuabulai。jishininengyanzangyishihainengyanzangyishi？jieguowufeishilangfeibicideshijianheganqing。

 qianwanbuyaoyijiaowangnvhaizimashangjiumannaozixiangzhequzhuiqiu，zijijizijizhizaojinzhangkongqi。pingchangxin，congpengyouzuoqi，bujiyuzhuiqiu，shunqiziran，nicainengyouzuijiadebiaoxian、dejihui。youyijuhuajieshiruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen，“xinbuchengzeling”，bushimeiyoudaoli。

 xinshang、xihuanheaizhijianmeiyoumingxiandejiexian，nvhaizizijijingchangyegaobuqingchu，nanhaiziyaoyounaixin，yaojinvhaizizugoudemohukongjian。nvrenyoushihouhuihenxihuanshenzhiyutaozuiyuzheizhongmohu，zheiduiyuqingchanglaoshoudenanrenlaishuozhenghaoshiwanmenglong、wanganqingyouxidedahaoshiji，ranerduiyulaoshimunedenanhailaishuoquebumianjihuoshangxin。yourenshuo：nvrenzaiqingaiqishihenxiangwugui，juedeyouweixian、pabeidaizhudeshihoujiujinsuozaiyingqiaoli，yueqiaoyuesuodejin，zhiyouzaiganjuemeiyouweixiandeshihoucaihuichulaiyaotouhuangnao、shouwuzudao。zheijiushisuowei“yuqinguzong”deyoulai，yaodejiushinaixin。

 shijieshangyemeiyouwanmeidenvren，aiyigenvhaizijiuyaozhunbeihaojienatasuoyoudeyoudianhequedian。laoshimunedenanhaizhenshizijideqinggan，wangwangjiurongbudekanbushunyandedifang，caixianyujinengjieshouyoushebudefangqidetongkuzhizhong。niyaoxiangqingchu，tadequedianninengbunengkuanrongdaojieshouyibeizidechengdu，qianwanbuyaoyishimianqiangziji，jizijijinhouderizimaixiadingshizhadan。

 nvrenshixurongde，nvrenzhijianyongyuanzaibijiaozhetamendenanren，jiuxiangnanrenyiyang，xifuzongshibierendehao，niyidingyaozuotaderongyao。banidecaineng、youdian、chengjiu、zhishi，suoyouhaodefangmiandougaosuta，tahuizhuanshenkuadashibeizaiqugaosutashenbiandeguizhongnvban，bierenxianmuhejidudebiaoqingjiushinidejiafenyinsu。jinqianfangmian，yexutabingbujijiaoniweitahuafeiduoshao，danshiniqianwanbunengrangtadeguiyoujuedenishiyigexiaoqibao。tongyangyishuxianhua，songdaotabangongshilikenengbisongdaotasushelixiaoguogenghao，mianzichangchangbilizigengzhongyao。

二、要懂得如何发追求女孩子的短信

henduogemenwenruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen，henjiandanjiushiyaohuifazhuiqiunvhaizideduanxin。

zaiyiduanlianaizhong，zuizhongyaodejieduanshinimendiyicijianmianhoudeneigexingqi。

 diyicijianmian，shenmeshidouxiandeneimemeihao，meiyourenhewenti，nimenbicidouchuyunongnongdetianmiqi。sihukeyiyongyuanzheiyangxiaqu，meiyoumaodun。danshigenjuwoyudaoshimendejinglilaikan，nimenjianmianhoudeneigexingqidefazhancainengzhenzhengjuedingnichenggongyufou。zongguanquanpan，gaodaoyigeguniangdehaomahuohunwaiqinghenrongyi，danshixiangfazhanchengweizhangqiguanxiqueshiwanquanlingwaiyizhongbenshi。henduogemendouzaizheigehuanjiezaigentoule。

 woyizhilaojizhuyijianshi：chucixiangshihou，wozhihuitongguoduanxinlaijinyibulianxi，weishenme？yinweijinguannijuedezuowanyijingjitaliuxialeshenkedeyinxiang，neishitayetebiexianggennijianghua，danshidiertianzaochen，taxinglai，youxihaidezhongtoukaishi。zheishi，zuowanshangrenshidemougerenturandadianhuaguolai，tebieshiyidanzuowantahaiyudaoleyixiebiantai，tashihuiyouzhengchangdekongju。faduanxinduitalaishuomeineimetangtu，danrengnengtuidongliangrenguanxidejinzhan。suoyixuehuizhuiqiunvhaizideduanxinshifeichangzhongyaode。

zhuiqiunvhaizideduanxinbameigonglvezhuyiyixiajidian：

1、pingchangxinbuyaoshuabao。buranhuixiandehenqiguai。

2、hufadagai８dao１０tiaoduanxinzhihouzaiyaoyue，zheiyangcaibuxiandetangtu。

3、xiangfajiufabuyaoxiangfalezhihouzenmeyang。