怎么拒绝公司同事的追求？

 rujinhenduorendoushifendichubangongshilianai，padaoshihouyingxianggongzuo，danzhaoduiderenzhendehennan，bangongshilianaishijishangduigongzuozhongduoduoshaoshaodoushiyouyidingdeweihai，neima，yingduitongshidezhuiqiudajiagailijihuijuema?xiaobianjiaoniruheliaotianjiaowangzhongjujuetongshi。

一、尽可能不必给予异性朋友独立交往的机遇

 zaiqiyeli，wulunyixingpengyoushizenyangdezhuiqiuni，zuoweiyigeconghuidenvhai，zuixianyaoxuehaobubijilingyifangdulijiaowangdejiyu;wulunshizaiqiyelihuanshibiededediqu，jinkenengbubiliangrenzaiyiqi，yidandajiadulijiaowang，bianhuijiduifangweinigaobaidejiyu，yidanpengyouxiangnigaobaiyihou，ruojiushinimeiyoutongyi，huizaizhihoudegongzuoshangshifennankan，ruguonitiaoxuantongyilingyifanghou，tongchanghuibianchengbangongshilidebaoxiaoduanzi;yiner，nvhaiyaojinkenengbubiyudanshennantongshidulizaiyiqi。

二、工作方面要很文明礼貌的与另一方相处

 zaiqiyeli，pengyouzhongjianbutaikenengchuxianyizhimeiyouxiangchudezhuangkuang，yingduizhuiqiuwanmeizishendeyixingpengyou，zaigongzuoshangdexiangchuneijiushiyiqiezhengchangde，yinerbubiduilingyifangguodulengdan，neiyangzaitarenyanli，dajiazhongjianhaowuyiwenyoushuobuqingchudeguanlian;bubijuedeshenbianrendexintaiduinimeiguanjian，yidanrangnichuanchu，zaibangongshilichuxianganqing，duizhiyeshengyafazhanshiyoufeichangdaweihai;yiner，yutagongzuoshangxiangchushi，yaobaozhengyoulimao、ketao，weichihaojianjucaisuanshiqiadangdefangfa，gaosutagongzuoheshenghuoyaofenkai，buyaozaigongzuozhongzhaonvpengyou，shenghuozhongzhaoduiderencaihao。

三、婉转的回绝一次

 jiaruzhuiqiuwanmeizishendeshiyiweibijiaojiandandeyixingpengyou，neimejiumeiyouneimebubiandezhuangkuang，ruguoshitaoyanlingyifang，lijihuijueyici，yeshifeichanghaodefangfa;yixienvhaihuiyouyu，tongshiduizishendezhuiqiuwanmei，zaochengzishenshifenkunao，neiyinggairuheliaotianjiaowangzhongjujueni，kanlaijinyoujijihuijuecaikeyifangzhi;yingduizheixiejianyidenanhaizi，lijihuijuehou，tongchanghainengzaiyiqigaoxingdegongzuozhong。