追求女孩时应该如何聊天？

 youhaodushixihuanyigerendegangkaishi，ruguoniduiyigerenyouhaoganlecaihuigangkaishiduizheigerenhenganxingqu，dajiakenengyiweizhuigenvshenghenrongyia，bububu，nvshengdexinsihennancaide。dajiadouxiangyaozhidaozhuiqiunvhaishiyinggairuheliaotian？xiaobianjiaonizhuiqiunvshengjiqiao！

1、挑选另一方很感兴趣的话题讨论

 xuduonanhaizizaizhuiqiunvshengshizhiyibiankeliaobuwandehua，yizhitiaoxuanyixiezishenxiangliaodehuatitaolun，buduanbiaoshuzishendeguandianjianjie，haigesanchawudilejielingyifangdeguandian，renweiyaoshihetaliaodaopinciduo，liaodaoshijianjiujiunengzhisheng。

 keshiyixienvhaiyagenyebuzhangwonijuededezheizhong，naizhigennishuodezheizhongchedimeishenmexingqu，niyizhizaigaotankuolunshilingyifangbuqingchuruhequdafuninhao，zhiyouxiaorongerwushiwenminglimaodefuyanleshiniyinci ，yaoxianghenvshengyougongtonghuati，zuixianyaoliaonvhaihenganxingqudehuatitaolun。

2、提升女孩参与性

 xianliaoshiyijiankanqilaijianyiqishifanzadeshier，zhuigenvshengshi，nijiangnidexintaichuansongjilingyifangdelingwai，yebixuzhengqueyindaolingyifangjiangzishendexinlixintaichuansongrangni，rangnvshengcanjianidehuatitaolun，jifanvshengdexintai。neimadajiayingdangzenmezuoni?feichangjiandan，congguanjiandianxiashou，meiyiciniyizhizaigaotankuolunbiaoshuwanzishendeniantoushizaihoumianjiayiju：nijuedeni?nirenweini?neiyangzuonenggouzhengqueyindaolingyifangbiaoshuzishendexintai，tishengchanshenggongmingdejiyu。

3、不必过多传送负面情绪

 ruheliaotiancainengxiyinnvshengni？jiarunizhaobuzhefeichanghaodehuatitaolunquxianliao，ernirujindeqingxuyoubushifeichanghao，jiuqianwanbiezaizheigeshihouqiangzhizhaolingyifangxianliao，feichangshidanglingyifangyuniguanlianbingbingbushifeichangshudeqingkuangxia，jiaruniyizhijinvhaisanbofumianqingxu，nvhaibianhuiganjuenishigehenxiaochenderen，jinerdujueni。