女神应正确看待撩和追求

一、怎 样算作撩，如何算作追求完美。

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我回应：这并不是追，是撩。 由于这一回应，许多女孩跑来跟我说“撩和追究竟有什么不同。”  youyuzheiyinantiyiduanhuajijuhuashuobuqing。gumajiuxielezheipianwen，zhuanyejidajia“kepu”yixiaxia“liaohezhuidechabie。”sheiyaowochongfenni，bingqieshizitijiacuchongfen。neimaqueshishiliaoshizhuiqiuwanmeima？“bu，liaoshizhigaoqiang；zhuishitixindiaodan。”henzaoyiqian，woyetingrenshuoguo：“zhaoshushizhigaoqiangde，zhituzishengaoxing。zhenxinshiyishitixindiaodandi，huizaihulingyifangdetihui。”zheihua，fangdao“liao”he“zhui”shang，yiyangkeyong。liaoniderenyaojianggezhonggeyangzhaoshushunshounianlai，yigeyigetaozainideshoushang，taburongyiyoufenhaoqienuo，yeburongyizaiyizishenshuochulaidehuanishibushixiai。liru：tanenggouzailejieni3tianjiuhaobuzaihudijiangchurenilianhongxintiaodehua：“wodeneixindoushini。lailailai，bangwoqinyidakou。shuangshoubangwolayixiaxiabei。”zailiru：tanenggouzaijinriduiniwanbanjiqing，peizhenizhengyexianliao，quezaigetianyouduinilengmowubi，shilengshirejinizhuomobutou。yincinigengyingdangzhengqueduidailiaoshizhuiqiuwanmeimazheiyinantitacaiburongyikaolvdaonidexintaizhuangtaidongtaixing，yebuzaiyinishibushihuiganjuetabuzugangzhengbuaheshenshi。youyutayaodejinjin1gejianqingkongchuangqigududenuanweilingyiban。

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