如何追求女孩子

一、抱一棵良好的心态、细心和包容心

 tanbaidaishadenanhaieryingduinvshenghuijiaolvbuan，pashuocuohua、biaocuoqing、fancuowu。neimaneiyangzenyangzhuiqiuzishenaiderenni？wojuedemeiyoubiyao，nikeyizuodewojuedejiushishuozuozhenshideziji，rangbierenqingqingchuchudejiandaonideyoushi、texing，quexianbixutiaojianchengshuzaizhanxian，yaoburanzaimeiyouguoduoqingganjibendeneishihou，yuanbenchedikeyijienadequexianfeichangrongyibeibiandagaiguorenhe，lingwaiyegengjiandaonideyichengxiangdai。shijieshangmeiyoujizhidenansheng，niwuxuyizishendeyichengxiangdaiweifuchudaijiaquyangaigerenquedian，jibutaikenengyebuhuasuan。jibiannikeyiyinzangyizhenzihainengyinzangyisheng？jieguozhibuguoshishechilangfeixianghudeshijianheqinggan。

 qianwanbieyixiangchunvshenglikejiunaozilidianjizhequzhuiqiu，zishenweizijishengchanzhizaojiaolvbuanqiti。lianghaodexintai，congpenyouxueqi，bujiqiezhuiqiu，suiyueran，ninenggouyoudezhuyaobiaoxian、jiaodadejiyu。youyiduanhuabiaoshuzenyangzhuiqiuzishenaideren，“xinbuchengzeling”，bingbushimeiyoudadaoli。

 shangxi、xihuanyuaizhongjianmeiyouxianzhudejiexian，nvshengzishenchangchangyegaobudong，nanhaieryaoyouxixin，yaojinvshengchongzudemohubuqingshineikongjian。nvxingyoushihuihenxiaishenzhishichenzuiyuzheileimohubuqing，zheizhenduiqingchanggaoshoudenanshengeryanqiahaoshiwanruoyinruoxian、wanqingganshoujiyouxidedahaoshiji，shubuzhizhenduitanbaidaishadenanhaiereryanquemianbulejihuofangzaixinshang。youxieren：nvxingzaiaiqingwojuedehenxiangxiaowugui，ganjueyoufengxian、pabeidaidaodeneishihoujiusuojinzaiqiaozili，yueqiaoyuesuodejin，zhinengzaijuedemeiyoufengxiandeneishihoucaihuichuquyaotouhuangnao、yaotouhuangnao。zheijiushishuoshuobaile“ruojiruoli”delaili，yaodejiushishuoxixin。

 quanshijiedoumeiyoujizhidenvxing，ai1genvshenghaiyaotiqianzhunbeihaojieshoutaquanbudeyoushiyulieshi。tanbaidaishadenanhaierzhenxizishendeganqing，tongchangjiujingbuzhukanbuguandediqu，caixianrujinengjienayoubushedesheqidetongchudangzhong。nikeyixiangqingxi，tadequexianninengfoubaorongdaojienayishengdeshuiping，qianwanbieyizhenzicouhezishen，weizijijianglaideshirizhongxiadingshizhadan。

 nvxingshixurongde，nvxingzhongjianzhongjiuzaijiaoweizhetamendenansheng，rutongnanshengxiangtong，xifueryizhitarendehao，nibixuyaozuotaderongyu。jiangnidenenggou、youshi、gongxian、zhuanyezhishi，quanbuhaodecengmiandougaozhita，tahuihuishenkuadaqiciwubeizaiqugaozhitashenpangdeguizhongnvban，tarenxianmujiduhedujidexiaobiaoqingshinidedadajiafenyaosu。qiancaicengmian，huoxutabingbushizaihuniweitahuaxiaoshiduoshao，keshiniganwanbukeyirangtadeguiyouganjueniyeshi1gexiaojiaziqibao。yiyangyishuhua，songzhitagongsibangongshilijianghuibisongzhitaqinshilishijixiaoguogengqiang，qingmianjingchangbilizigengguanjian。

二、要明白怎样发追求女生的短消息

xuduoxiongdiwenzenyangzhuiqiuzishenaideren，feichangjiandanjiushishuoyaohuifazhuiqiunvshengdeduanxiaoxi。

zaimeiduanlianqingzhong，zuiguanjiandehuanjieshidajiachucijianmianhoudenagelibai。

 chucijianmian，shashidoukanqilaineimaxingfu，meiyounanti，dajiaxianghudouchuzainongnongtianmeiqi。haoxiangnenggouzhongjiuneiyangxialai，meiyoufenqi。keshiyijuwohelaoshimendeqinshenjinglikanlai，dajiapengmianhoudenagelibaidefazhanqushicainengzuodaozhenzhengjueceniqudechenggongshifou。zonglanzhengpan，gaodao1genvhaidehaohuoyuepaofeichangrongyi，keshixiangfazhanqushibianchengzhangqixingguanlianqueshichedilingyigezheizhongbenling。xuduoxiongdidouhuizheiyijieduanzaigentoule。

 woshizhongmingjizhushiqing：diyicixiangyuhou，wozongshigenjuduanxiaoxilaishenhualianluo，weihe？youyusuiranniganjuezuotianwanshangzaoyijitaliuyoulekegumingxindeyinxiang，neishihoutayefeichangxianggennifayan，keshigetianzaoshang，taxinglaishi，shoujiyouxihaideyaodiangangkaishi。zheishihou，zuotianwanshangshanglejiedemouyirenhurantongdianhuahuilai，feichangshiruguozuotianwanshangtahaipengdaolemouxiechaojibiantai，tashihuiyouyiqiezhengchangdehaipa。faxinxiduitaeryanmeineimamaomei，danrengnengcujinganqingdejindu。yincixuehaozhuiqiunvshengdeduanxiaoxishishifenguanjiande。

zhuiqiunvshengdeduanxiaoxibameigonglveliuyiyixianeirong：

1、lianghaodexintaibubishuabao。yaoburanhuikanqilaihenguaiyi。

2、hufadayue８dao１０tiaoduanxiaoxiyihouzaiyaoqing，neiyangcaibukanqilaimaomei。

3、chufadianjiufabubichufadianleyihouruhe。