qiannanyoupingbinizenmewanhuini,zaiaiqingdaolushang,henduoshihouhuiyudaogezhongpingjingwenti,limianzuilingrenxinsuidemoguofenkai。ruguohaiaizhenidenanyou,quebuzhidaozenmewanhuitadeneixin,bubidanxin,dajiaweinintigongle10geshiyongdefangfa,bangzhuzijizaiciwanliutadeneixin。
一、保持理智和理性

dangmianduifenshoushi,henduonvhaizihuijuedefeichangnanguoheqingxubuwending。danwomentuijiannibaochilixinghelixing,jinliangbuyaodizuorenhequeding。xianjizijiyixieshijianyukongjian,shizijirenzhensikaozheifenganqingshibushizhendezhidewanliu。yucitongshi,yexuyaolizhidipouxidajiafenshouyuanyin,xunzhaowentidebenzhi。
二、不必纠缠不休
henduonvhaizizaifenshouzhihouyiranxianghenanyoubaochilianluo,naizhichixujiuchanbuxiu。cifangfashibuzhengquede。ruguonixiangyaowanliutadeneixin,jiuyingjinliangbimianzheizhongzuofa。buyaoyizhiweitafaxinxi、tongdianhuahuoshipengmian,neiyangzhihuirangtagengweifanganhepaichi。fanguolai,nikeyishidangdijitayixieshijianyukongjian,shitarenzhensikaonimenzhijiandeganqing。
三、改变现状
zaifenshouzhihou,henduorendouhuishenshizijixingweibiaoxianqueding。zheishiyigehenhaodejiyu,ninengrenzhensikaozishenzaizheiduanganqinglicunzaidebuzu,bingchangshigaibianzishen。huoxuniyouyixiebuliangxiguanhuoshixingweimoshirangnideqiannanyouduizijidetibuqixingqu。changshigaibianzijizheizhongbugou,rangzijibiandegengjiazixinxinyuyouyouhuoli。
四、展现自己的使用价值
zaitishengzijideyucitongshi,yeyaodongdezhanxianzijideshiyongjiazhi。ninengtongguoshejiaomeitihuoshipengyouquanzhanshizishendeshenghuohegongzuoqingkuang,rangtakandaonidiaozhenghefazhan。yucitongshi,yeyaogaoduzhongshisuzaogerenxingquaihaoyujineng,rangzijibiandegengjiayoupinweiyumeili。
五、重新建立关联
qiannanyoupingbinizenmewanhuini,ruguoyijinghenhaodiwanliuniqianrendexin,neimenixuyaozhongxinjianliguanlian。zheijiuyiweizhenixuzhongxinzhujian,biebacongqiandemaodunhewentirongrudaoxindeganqingzhong。yaodongdehaohaojingyingzheifenganqing,rangtamenzhijiandexinrenyulijiegengjiawengu。yucitongshi,yeyaodongdelingtingyuzhichilingyifang,yiqimianduiweilaidetiaozhanjiannan。
六、学会交流与理解

zaixindeganqingzhong,goutongyulejieshishifenzhongyaode。yaodongdeyunidenanyoutanchengdigoutongjiaoliu,fenxiangzijidexiangfaheganshou。tongshihaiyaolingtingtadeyijianhekanfa,zhongshitadeganshouheyijian。weiyoutongguoxianghuzhijianlijieyuzhichi,caikeyirangzheifenganqinggengwendingyujiankang。
七、解决矛盾和分歧
zaisuoyoudeyiduanganqingzhong,maodunhemaodunshiwufabimiande。jiarunihenideqiannanyouzhijianyouyixiemaodunhezhengyi,yaodongdetuoshanchuzhigezhongwenti。bunengtaobihuoshijiutuobujue,yaodongdepingjingdigoutongyuxieshangchulifangshi。jiaruwomennenggouyitongjiejuezheigewenti,zheiyangdehuanimendeganqinghuigengjiajiangu。
八、创建共同爱好
youzhegongtongaihaoshiweichiganqingdezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。shizhelejieniqianrendegerenaihaohexihao,bingshizhecanyujinlai。zheiyangkeyizengjiadajiazhijiandegoutongyujiaoliu,yeshilianggerenzhijianyongyougengduodehuatitaolunhaotan。
九、尊重对方私人空间
suirannimenrujinzaicizoudaoleyiqi,danshimeigerenhuoshiduligeti,xuyaoyidingsirenkongjian。buyaoguofenganyuduifangsishenghuo,jiyubicizhijianyidingdesuiyi。chuangjianjiankangdeshenghuojiexian,rangshuangfangzaizheiduanganqingzhongshizhongbaochizijuexing。
十、珍惜现在并憧憬未来

aiximeiyigedangxiashigoujianpingwenganqingdejichu。bukeyizongshijiujieyuyiwangdebukaixinqinshenjinglihuozheweilaidebuquedingyinsu。yunideqiannanyouyiqixiangshouxianzaixingfudeshiguang,binggongtongchongjingweilaideshenghuozhuangtai。jihuaweilaideqiantixia,haishiyaohaohaoyunyingxianjieduandezheifenganqing,rangaiqingzhihuazairujinhuanfachuzuimeilidesecai
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