怎样挽留男朋友？请看这里

 dangnanrenjuecelikainideneishihou，niganjueshidajiadeqingganchuxianwentile，keshiqueconglaibufanshengzijidebugou？yuanyiwanhuinanyoudehua，nijiugaisikaozishen。neimajiujinggairuhewanhuinanyouni？

一、挽回男友之正确认识本身缺点

zhinengzhenshigaoqingchutichufenshoudeyuangu，nenggoufangzhiwanliuzhongduoyudebuzhengque，rangwanliushibeigongban。

1.pingchangshibushiduilianrenyouyidingdecuxindayi

 shiqudezhongjiushishide，shiqucaizhidaojiabeiaixi。tashirendequexian，danbingfeinanyinengyeliao。nvxingzaibeizhuiqiuwanmeishiyizhiwanbanheai，yiqihouquebaibantiaoti。erzhongqingkuangxiazaochengdeqifuyueda，suogoujiandecuojueyueda，moulingyifangneixindeqifuyueduoda。yincihaohaodihuiyiyixiaxia，zishenpingchangyounaxieguodushiquziwoerhushilingyifangtihuideshier，huozhefuwuchengnuoguohenduodanshizhongmeiyouduifudeshier，congzheiyishijiaokaizhanziwofansihexiaojieei，woyehuixunzhaojinxingwanliudefangwei。

2.yingxianglishibushijunheng

 wenxintixing，shijunheng，bingbushigongping。bingbushizhibiciyaonulixiangtongdeshiyongjiazhi，dedaotongyangdeshiyongjiazhi。zhishizaidajianannvdapei，chongfenfahuifenbieyoudiandeneishihou，youmuyouaixilingyifangdenuli，bujiangqishizuolisuoyingdang。henduonvxingzongbananpengyoudangbaibianjingangxiangtongyingyong，zhushibixunanshengyijiao，ganjuezishenshinvxing，yincilisuoyingdang。

3.shibushiyichengxiangdaigoutongjiaoliu

 henduorendaoqingganyanqian，zongfeichangrongyikuanyudaiji，yanyudairenjiewu。bujinyankeguidinglingyifangzijintouru，baozhengzishendeguishugan，bujinyouxiangyaozishendeshineikongjian，duilianrenyouyidingdebaocun。yaolejie，ruguonitiaoxuanyanzangshi，nideweixiao、shipinyuyin、shentiyuyan，zaidaoneirong，henrongyierqiesihaomeiyouliuqingdechushouni。niyichengxiangdaideshuipingyuedi，lingyifangzhangwonideshuipingyueduodi，xianghuzhijianbuxinlaidezhuangkuangjiucengchubuqiong，weihaiqinggan。

二、挽回男朋友之复建诱惑力

 nianqing，youmeili，meimaodenvshengyiweizhezhefanyugongzuonengliqiang，yichuanjiyinyouzhi，erzaiyuanguneishihou，renmencunhuolvbugao，yibianrenzhongyichuanjiyinfanzhifazhanzhuangda，nianqingpiaoliangdenvshengjiubianchengnanshengqinlaidelingyiban，qijinzheizheizhongtiaoxuanquxiangyebucengyougenggai。yinciyaowanhuinanpengyou，tigaoyouhuolishifenguanjian。

 nvweiyuejizherong，shenkeyinxiangshishifenguanjiande，yaotigaozishenyouhuoli，jiuwubi“zhongxinkaishi”。yongxindezhuangmian，yanhanqiubo，nanshengtongchangfalidiyu。meiyouchounvren，zhinenglannvxing，nulixuexichuanzhedabandefangfa，xuexiyifudapeidefangshi 。youxierenyaoshuo：zheixierendoubushihuo，zhikanbiaomian，quebumingbaishangxineizaimei，danshijishi，biaomianzaoyibumeiguan，sheixiangyaozaihaohuashijianzhangwonideneixin？

 keshidangzhikaowaiguanshejixiyinzhu，meiyoushijixingdeneihan，waiqiangzhonggan，neiyangdehuijiadeguanlianhaowuyiwenbuzhangqi，nvshidemeibudanqujueyubiaomian，haiqujueyubenzhixiuyang。wenrou，tiexindenggexingtezhengshishijieshangmeinanrendouwufakangjude。meiduanguanlianzhong，runvxingshizheqianghandihexinmeiduanguanlian，neimazheimeiduanguanliandeliekaidoushinenggouyuliaode。

三、挽回男朋友之创建心锚

 xinmaoshizheizhongnengjiqizhuiyijineryinqirenmenxintaidewaibucijixing。yixiexinmaonenggouyinqirenmenkaixindexintai(fanmianxinmao)；yixiequechanshenghenman（fumianxinxixinmao）。xinmaonenggouyou : shijue、chujue、xiujuesuoyinqi。lianggerenzaimeiduanbuchenggongdeqingganzhongchuangjiandeshibuzhengquexiaochendexintaijiben，huanjuhuashuo，fenshouhou，nanpengyouxiangqinishi，daduoshuquanshifumianxinxideyinxiang，zheijiushishuoyouyuniyiwangdezhuduogerenxingweijiletabukaixindelianqingganshou。xiangwanliu，haiyaodadaozheixiexiaochendexinmao，zaicichuangjiantianmanfengcaidexinmao。

1.地址物件的挑选

 niyuanyiranglingyifangzainaerxiangqileni？youyushashixiangqileni？lirufandian，tayiqianzaimouyifandianweileniqinghezuoshengri，neiyicijiushiniyixiangbudao（xintaiqifujiaoweida），yinciyihounizaiqunajiafandianhuoshishizainajiafandianjitarenqingheshengchenshi，jiuhuishunlichengzhangdexiangdaota，naizhiqingxuhuiyuelaiyuefeichanghao。

2.guanchalingyifangdeqingkuang

 zainichuangjianxinmaodeneishihou，lingyifangdefanyingjiarujiaoweifawei，yejiushishuolingyifanghaiweijindaofeichangdeqingkuang，neimazhihouranglingyifangyouyuzheijianshiqingerxiangqilenidegailvhuiliaoliaowuji。yaolejielingyifangshifouzaoyijindaomingxiandeqingkuang，nenggougenjunideguanchaheyulingyifangdegoutonglejiedao，zainigusuanzuishidangdeshikechushifabingyuanyin。

3.警醒干挠要素

 nikeyiliuyibukeyichuxiangannaoyaosu，youyujiaruzaichuangjianxinmaodeneishihouchuxiangannaoyaosu，jiyoukenenghuilinglingyifangzoushen，suihouxinmaochuangjianbuchenggong。liruniyuanbenyuanyijita1geyiwaijingxi，keshiyijingtiqianzhunbeideneishihouhuranlingyifangjietingdianhuashuojiazhongjishi，ciketaxinshenbuan，nideyiwaijingxijiumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyile。

4.fabingyuanyinyaoyuzhongbutong

 yaowanhuinanyoudehua。zheiyidianeryeshifendeguanjian。zaimouyirenjindaomingxianqingkuangdeneishihou，dangnisuochushidefabingyuanyinshipingshideqingkuanghezishizheileide，neimalingyifangderendedanaojiubukeyibianbiechuzheiyifabingyuanyinyounaxieyuzhongbutongde，neimazheiyixinmaojiumeifachuangjian。

 zongshangsuoshueryan，nvrenhenanrenzaiqingganzhongdeyaoqiuhegongxiaodouduoyoubuyiyang，yincinvxingbukeyiyizhisheqiunanshengyizhaozishendeniantouzuoshi。zhinengzhengquerenshibenshenquedian，lingwaigaoqingchutadeyaoqiu，cainengzuodaozhenzhengbaochiwanliu。