教你如何挽回前男友的绝招

buqingchugaizenyangwanhuiqiannanyou？zhuihuimoji，wunaichouqi？xiabianjiaoni7dajueji，likeyonggongjianwanhuinanyouba!

一、爱她，先善待自己，让自身更有风采

 buguanrenmenshizaitaiaigongzuozhong，aidushu，shandaizijideduifang，zuixiandoubixushandaiziji。youyunilianzishendoubuxihuan，duizishendoutaobizeren，neimanikeyiduisheichengdanni？shandaiziji，jiushishuoxiangfangfarangzishenyulaiyumei，yulaiyushenxinjiankang，yulaiyuyouqichang。meibanfaxiangxiang，1gebuguanbuguzishenrentibushenxinjiankang、shenxingbuqingxi、qingxubushushi、zishenbulingrenmanyi、huitoutulian、cubaonanrenshishamoyang，jianxinneiyangdezishendoushibeizishenhezhuba。

 xuduorenyaoshuo，zhenshixihuanyigerenshiburongyikanbushangtaderongmao，danzairichangshenghuozhizhongyouyousheixiangyaoxiaiyigeshimeidousheqideren？chenkaigededisirenqizichenhong，tabangzhudadaoyandeqiaomenjiushishuozuomohuannvxing！yincizhenzuoqilai，gangkaishixuexihuazhuang，peidachuanyifuba。chishenxinjiankangdeshicai，zuoshenxinjiankangdejianshenyundong，rangzishendeqingkuangweichidao。ruguonizaikandaonanpengyoudeneishihou，lingyifanghuituranermuyixin。neiyang1geyaoyan、shenxingjiaohao、shenxinjiankang、youzheqichangdezishen，buzhiyounajiananshengtaoyanni？

二、从今天起，刚开始读书吧!做1个知性优雅的女人

 chukaimeiri8xiaoshidegongzuozhongshijianzhiwai，nidekeyushijianbeinaxiesuozhanyouni？shihefu、hanguodianshiju、meiguodianshiju？huanshi《lengkuzongcai》、《junwangmengfei》、《wumeidongrenxiaojiaoqi》？zheizhongzhikezuohuanjieyalideyongchu，bunengmilian。yincicongjintianqi，batamentongtongxuehuifangxiaba！zheizhongneironghuijushunideshoujiao，mihuonideyanjing，tamenzhishihuikaolvniyizhenzidexiangxiang，jiniyouzheduanzanxingdekuaile。shubuzhifanhuishijizhizhong，zishenrengranshirujindezishen，bujinmeiyougenggai，bingqiechihuanlezishenyaozuodeshier。

 neimakanshenmeshuhaoni？yaoshishiduizishenyoulide、jijizhudongde、weihude、tigaode、qiangjingxinlidenenggoukan，qiemeiyiyuezuishaokanliangben。chubulaidabannian，woyehuiganshoudaobenshendezishiyulaiyuyazhi，yanjiangkoucaihuifeichanghao，weirenchushiyehuiyulaiyutuodang，meigerendoushishuonibiandegengjiazhixingyouya。zheijiushishuoshujiesuochanshengdenengliang，nenggoulingrentianmankeguanyulingwuli，zuihoushinibianchengyouwenhuayishu、youpinwei、youhanyangdepiaoliangnvshi。

三、这般知性优雅的自身，用智慧型剖析出提出分手的症结所在

 renmenxihuanyigeren，shibuyongnaxieyuanyinde，yaoshihuxiangxiyinzhu，biankeyouqianrushendizijintourudaoqingganzhonglai。keshi，fenshoushi，yuanyinqueshigezhonggeyangde。naxie“nishigehaoren，yongbushang”，“woqinshenjinglilexuduo，danniyaobuchengshuqi”，“nihaoqiongle，nilianqqviphuiyuandoubingbushi”dengdasixuanyang。neimashuozheizhongyuanyinbenzhidenantishizainalini？wojuedezhishijiushishuowobugouainile。zheishiwoyenenggouzhuiyiyixiaxiazhiqianyiqishi，nihetazaiyiqiyoushenmenanshoudediqu。

 lirutaxiaifanhua，yexubuxihuanshuohua；tayouxingquaihaodeshiqingniquebuxihuan。zhujiandenijiuhuifaxian，nitongchudediqu，doushitahuitongchudediqu。yaoshibazheiyitongchujiejue，xuduodenantidoushidedaojiejue。wojuedeliangrenyiqi，budanshideshixiailingyifangjiujiuxingle，daliangdeneishihouyaohuaxieshijianlaisikaoyixiaxia，xianghudexinshifouxiangtongfangwei。

四、认可本身某层面做的不太好，是这种空气的主要表现

 dajiameibanfazhenduigerenquedianhuoshiguoshijiyuzhiqian，tashirenxingdeyoudian，daliangdeshiaiyumianzi，pashanglezizunxin，jinershiguanlianyuelaiyuejiroujiangying。wojuedezaiyoumouxiezhuangkuangxia，yuqinguzongshiqinggantiwenzheizhongyouliangdejinshucuihuaji。

 yingguonbalanqiuyundongyuan“dashayu”aonier，youyihuizaizuozongyijiemudeneishihou，buxiaoxinbeitulidedianlanxianshuaidao，shuailegesijiaochaotian，naizhilianxiedoushuaichuquyitou。zheishidoudedahuoerkaihuaidaxiao，talejiehouganlegejuece，zaixinlangweiboshangshuo：jiaruxuduorenwobeisijiaochaotianpsdeyaowolingrenmanyidehua，wonengjitamen500meiyuan。yixiaziguaqileyizhenzhenpsre，erdahuoerzaijiandaogezhonggeyanggaoxiaotupianhouhuodedeshiyipianwenzhanghuangexiaoyu。shizaitaiyuanrundejiejueleciciweijigongguana！weishenmerenmendoubuxuexini？zaizishenyouguoshideneishihou，dangnanpengyougangxiangfapiqi，jiulijijinbaota，huoshiyong1gewenlaisaizhutadezui，huaguoshiweiganqing，lajinxianghujianju。jiwushizizunxin，youtishengqinggan。ganqing，zishenjiubingbushitaibixuzizunxindeshier。

五、他会了解，你必须他

 youshininengganshoudaoneiyangzheizhongjuede:zheijianshier，nidepenyou、dingtoushangsi，wenyemeiyouwentaren，lijizhaoniqushangyi，suihoulijibashierweirenrangni。cikehuoxunidemeirirenwuzaoyishifenduole，keshinihaihuiquzuo，naizhihengaoxing，zheijiushishuobeibixudenengliang。meigerendoubixubeigaoduzhongshi、beibixu、beixinlai。tongyang，nidenanpengyouyeshiruci。

 zaishidudeneishihougenjugezhonggeyangfangshitahuilejie，nibixuta，nidexingminglitianmanletadeyinhen，shaoleta，shirijinguanhuanshinenggouguoxialai，danshaolezheifenwennuan，duolezheifencanquebuquan。neimazaitahuozhihou，biankegouqinansheng“lianxiangxiyu”debennengfanying，renrang，kejiqinanshengxingxiazhangyideqianli。

六、把他以前对你的好，相反讲给他们听，相互追忆

 “herenshenhoumeiyourenshuo，herenshenhoubuyongshuoren”。renmenyishizhuxingzaigeshigeyangdeshehuiyulunzhizhong，dangshehuiyulunduizishenbuliangyingxiangdeneishihou，renmenhuinaonu；dangshehuiyulunduizishenyouyideneishihou，renmenhuijuedexingfukuaile。neimazaiyiqian，taduinideniyaohaijiyiyouxinma？batayuechuqu，gentaxushuyixiaxiatayiqianduijiniduohao，zailunshuyixiaxianidexinlizaineishihoushishizaitaidedadong，jinerbatalafanhuixingfudeshiguangzhizhong，xianghuzhuiyi。cike，jiaolvbuandeguanlianhuisuizhizhuiyijianjiandihuanjie，chuxianzhongzhuan。

七、懂他，比你注重爱她，更关键

 meigerendoushiyibenhaoshu，changyoubuyiyangdeqinshenjingli，buyiyangdeyishizhuxingshejiaoquan。jiuzheiyanggezhonggeyangdeziranhuanjingzhujiulemeiyirendegexing、xingquaihao。nanshengdegongzuoyalizaixianrujinmeifayongjijujijulaimiaoshuqingxi。yincizainanrenxiangnilunshutajianglaidehongweilantushi，wojuedetadexinlishixiangjinishiyongta、jilita，hetayikuaierzaojiu。neimacikejiyutazixinxin，tahuilejietanenggou；jiarutaxiangnilunshutabuyuanyidafudagui，zhixiangxiaonongyishi，neimawoyenenggoujilitabaxianggandeshigaohao，tanbaiyoutadediquzongyoujia，jiuchongzule。wojuederenmenweibifeideyouyidingdegaokuanbi，yaoshibayishizhuxingguohao，guodexingfukuaile，jiushishuojiaodadequdechenggong。yixieshierruguotaxianglaizuo，jiaruyubuxiangganbiaozhundehua，jiushiyongtayixiaxiaba。

xuehaozheizenyangwanhuiqiannanyoudejidajueji，ganjinquyonggongjianwanhuinanyouba。