婚姻大忌怎么挽回

　　hunyindajizenmewanhui，laogongguoduanliyiwoyaozenmewanliu，gaohaozheisangebuzhou，jibiantazaiwuqingyekeyiwanhuizhangfu：

　　01减少冲突点

　　zanchengduifangjianjie，shibimianyinqilingyifangyanfandezhongyao。yiban，daozhishuangfangxintaiduilimianyuanyinzaiyulingyifangjianjiequebubeirenke。#jiazhonghunyinxinli#

　　zaigoutongjiaoliuzhong，ruguolianggerenbuxianghuzhijianrangbu，jiuhuiyinqizhengchao。

　　changchangfashengzhengzhitongchangdaozhishuangfangqingxubengkui，shishuangfangchuzaishifenbumingzhideqingkuang，bansuizhezhengzhipincidezengduo，aiqingmanmanxiaohaodaijin。

　　shishishang，henduorenbingmeiyoulijieyigezhongyaodedadaoli：zaiqingganzhong，shuyingbingbuzaiyusheizuiqianghan。

　　jinguannikenenghuitongguochaoyingjialaihuodezishenzheigedaoli，danshizheizhonghuoshengbinghaowuyiyi，fanerhuirangnimenzhijiandeganqinggengweishengshu。

　　niyuechangshiyubierenzhengzhishengfu，tamenyejiuyuerenweiniweishouchongzudeweihu。

　　ruguonibuqubiaoshu、zhenglunhuohaiji，ershizhenxinchengyibiaoshitongyiduifangjianjie，huoshiduzhanxianzijidemingan，duifangjiuhuixuehuifangxiagongjinengli，genggaiguandian。

　　dangduifangshuo“woxianglihun”shi，

　　jiarunihuifu“haoya，wodaying”，

　　haoxiangbiaomingnibiduifanggengxiangyaolihun，quefanergengrongyiyindaoduifangkaishifansiliyishifouzhendeshizuilixiangdequeding。

　　jiarunijiashangzheiyangyijuhua：“jinjinliyibushixiaoshi，neimehuranmingquetichulihun，nengfouxianjiwodianshijian，yaowojiejuezijideqingxu，yeshihaiziyufumukeyilijiehejieshouzheigexuanze。”

　　tayibanbuhuihuijuenideqingqiu，zheiyiduanshijianduinilaishuo，shiyigefeichangzhenguidexiufuqi。

　　zaizheiqijian，nijiuyinggaisisuodajiahunyinshenghuochuxianshenmeyangdewenti，zhangwoweihelingyifanghaihuixiangqifangqini，qidaiyousuobianhuayichengweigengyouyiyi、yuelaiyueshoulingyifangbixudelaopo，ruguonifuzhushijian，tayejiubuhuixianglihunle。

　　zaizhaodaohunlianwentibinglejiebicixianglihunyuanyinhou，yaoganyujijichengrenzijidecuowu，bingzhenxinchengyijiduifangzhiqian，laixianshinichengzhi。

　　“guoquwohaizai...cengmianzhuangtaidimi，rangnigandaobeishanghefushang，wobufourenzheijiushiwodeguoshi。ruguonengzhongxinlaiguo，wojueduibuhuizaifantongyangdecuo。”

　　yucitongshi，kongzhihaoneixindeyuwangbingzhidingshentilixingzhengmingzijichengkendetaidu。yizhideyantanjuzhishilajinguanxizuihaodefangshi。

　　zhiqianzhixuyicijiugoule，wentishinizhiqianyihoudegerenxingwei，qiewujingchangzhiqian，zheizhihuidihuizishenjiazhi，tishengtaduinideqianjiayinxiang。

　　02jizhonghuaguanzhuyuzishen，tishengzishendefazhanqushi。

　　genggairongmao。biaomianshiyouxiyinlidezhongyao，jiehunhou，laopoweilejiarenerhushilezishendezhuangban，shenxingyuelaiyuezouxing，mianseqiaocui。zheikenenghuishilaogongyizhiyilaishilipilao。

　　dangganqingsangshireqing，shenghuobiandepingdanwuweishi，laogongkenengcaiyongwaiyudengfangshilaizhuiqiuciji。

　　“sannianzhitong”、“qinianzhiyang”tongchangyehuichanshengzheiyangdezhuangkuang。

　　yiner，dangqizirenshidaozijideyouhuoliburucongqianshi，yingdanggengjiazhongshizishen，liruhuazhuangdaban、tishengyizhepinwei，jianshensuxingdeng。shizijizhongxinhuanfazixinyufengcai。

　　tishengneizaixiuyang。jiehunhounvshijingchangcezhongyuguoduguanxinshenghuosuoshi，youqishizaijialiquanzhidejiatingzhufubijiaorongyihewaijieshengshu。

　　danglaogongtanjijinqixinwenshi，nibingbuzhidao;ruguonizhigenlaogongfalaosao、liaoxieshenghuosuoshishi，laogongbingbuganxingqu。

　　ruoyizhiyilai，niwufagenshanglaogongdesiweishendu，nimenzhijiandeguanxijiuhenyoukenengmanmanshuyuan，congerchuxian“ta/tagenbenbulejiewo”dejingkuang。

　　yiner，dajiayingjiaqiangyuwaijiedelianluo，genjugongzuoshiyelaishixianzijidejiazhi。

　　nengtongguoxuexipeixuntishenggerennengli，kuokuanshejiaoquanzi，yueduwenzhangsuzaoyigexindegerenaihaodengfangshilaifengfuzijideneixinshenchu。neiyang，womenjiunenggouzaisiweigaodushangyutarenbaochiyizhi，yiqichengzhanghejinbu。

　　03guifanshiyong“nvxingyoushi”laijinxingjiaoliu

　　hunyindajizenmewanhui，neinixianzaihenyoukenengjuedefeichangshangxin，danruguonigentashuochuqu，huirangnideqingxubengkui，rangnimenzhijiandeguanxigengjiazaogao。neixianzaigaizenmeban?

　　忍吗?

　　renshoubule，jiarubiezhubufabing，kenengchanshenggengdadehuimiexing。

　　congnibiaoshuzijiyiqian，shouxianyaoquebaonidexintaizhangqibaochi。

　　womenkeyitongguoduozhongfangshilaishifanghehuanjiexiaojiqingxu，biruqujianshen、kaizhanyundongjianshen、yuhaoyouqingtu，huoshiduziyirenjinqingdikuyichang，neiyangnengjianqingnigongjinengli，shidetayongyukaojinni。

　　ruguonimeijiangzijidexiaojiqingxujiejuehao，zaiqingxubengkuidebianyuanshitan，neiyangnidexinqingyoukenenghuihuiyingxiangnidegoutongjiaoliushijixiaoguo。

　　dajiajugelizilaishuoming，zuichangjiandeqingkuangshizhangfuhuijialechile。