情感咨询：性格不合适怎么挽回婚姻

　　xinggebuheshizenmewanhuihunyin，hunyinjiushirenshengdedashi，bunengnaozhewande。danglianggerentongguolianai，maijinhunyinshenghuo，zaihunqingsiyidelishixia，quedingshouweizheifenganqing，zheiyiduanyigejiatingdeqingkuangxia，fenqiquejianjiandiruqierzhi，maixianghunyinshenghuojintoudeni，zenmeyexiangbudao，dangshineiyanglangmandedajia，weishenmejiuzhujiantongchuangyimengdaonumuduiwangde。keshinibukenengjingguofanfuhunyinshenghuolaihuodeduiyingdegongzuojingyan，xianshizhuangkuangzhiyourangdajiazaihunyinshenghuodeguochengzhongkaizhantansuo，yincichuxianyidingkunjingyeshizhengchangde，chuxianwentilebukongbu，yinweiwomennenggoulejieyixiejiqiao，wanjiuhunyinhuoshiqieshikexingde，jintianxiaobianjiulaijiaojiaodajiahunyinwanhuijigefangfa。

　　一：不心烦，懂得优先选择冷暴力自己的心情

　　meiyigerendangmianduiyouhaidejushishi，huichuziyuxiayishidezaochengfanzaobuan、yumenqingxu，youshishenzhihaibeiqizhaletou，jiangchurangzijihouhuidehua，meimeidaozheigeshihouniyidingyaodongdekongzhihaozijiqingxu，bunenggourangnidexintaizhanjuniguanniandezhudaodiwei，fouzenizaizheishihousuozuochudeyiqiequedingquanshinichongdongtiaoxuan，neishihouniyidinghuihouhui，suoyiweilebimianrangzijihouhuideshiqingchansheng，niyidingyaozaifashengzhengzhishenghuozhongdemaodunshi，chendezhuqi，nikeyirangzijichuzaiyigeqingjing，keyirangzijixuehuisikaodequyu，suihouhaohaodifansiyixiazijidejuecehuoshigerenxingweijiujingshibushizhengque，zhishaoniyaodengshizijidebulizhixintaidanchulaiqianqujiejuedajiajiandemaodun，zheizhongcaishiduidezuofa。

　　二：自己的问题，敢于承担，另一方自己的错，暂时不谈及

　　jinguanwomenzishenweichizijidelixing，keshiduifangdeganshoubuyidingcongbulizhizhongtachu，suoyiweilebimianchongtudejiazhong，zheishihoujiuyaonifuchuyidian，zaihunyinshenghuozhongbenshenjiushixianghuzhichi、xianghulijiedeyigeguocheng，jiarunizaizheishihoubuzuochudiantuoxie，neinimenzhijiandeganqingshizhendekeyiyaoyaoyuzhui，jiaruzheijianshinilengjingfenxiwanlezhihou，fajuedequeshizijideyuanyin，neimejiuganyuchengdanzijidewenti，danshiruguonipingjingxialaiyihou，fajueshitacuowu，zainifenqishoufadangri，nijiubiezaitidaolingyifangzijidecuole，nizaimiandaiweixiao，shitajuechadao，nidexinlishihenruande，nihaishixiangyaoweihubaoyangzheiyiduanhunyinde，jinkenengdeshitapingjingxialai，dengnimenpingjingxialaiyihou，guoleyiduanshijian，zaigentatanjitadebuzhengque，neiyangkeyiyouxiaofangzhidajiaerrendemaodun。

　　三：懂得解决相互之间的差别

　　xinggebuheshizenmewanhuihunyin，liangrenzaiyiqijiule，nanmianyouxingxingsesedechabiefasheng，fuqizailejie、jishudengcengmianshibihuicunzaiyidingdequbie，dongdejiejuezheixiechabieshihunyinshenghuochenggongdejishi，youyixieqingshanggaodenvrenjiuchaojihuijiejuefufujiandeganqingqubie，birushuoniyunanrenjiaoyuhaizifangmianyouzhebutongdeyijian，neiyanghenduorenyinggaihuilikehezijidelaogongfashengzhengzhi，danqingshanggaodenvrenburongyizheimezuo，jingmingdenvrenhuidongdezhaoliangrenzhijiancunyouyoushenmesiweichayi，zaimanmanquzongjieyixiazijigenduifangcunyoudezheixiechayidehaoyubuhao，zaihelingyifangzongjieguinajigoutongshi，tadechabiebingmeidaozhilianggerenzhijiandefenqi，fandaoshigengweijiashenlelianggerendeganqing。

　　四：需要时刻表示自己

　　lianggerenzhijiandeganqingzhisuoyinengzhangxiangsishou，bianshiyinweiliangrenbicizhijianyizhibaochizhegoutongjiaoliu，jiaruwomenlianrichangdegoutongjiaoliudoumeile，neiyanggengbuyaoshuozhihouyaomanmanzouxiaqu，dajiataguorujindouburongyi，zaiganqingli，nixuyaoshikejiduifangmiaoshuzijidexiangfahuoshiniantou，henduorendouhuishuo，woliangtiantianchaojia，neihaiyoushenmebixugentabiaodachulaide，jiarunizheimeshuo，neibianshizijideguandianbuduile，jiusuannihetazaizhengchao，neiyangniyeyaoyaogentabiaoshizijiweishenmexiangyutachaojianiantou，jiaruwomenyijingshihenshaoshuohuadechengdu，neiyangnijiukeyihuanyizhongfangshilaiyutajinxingjiaoliu，birunikeyitongguodianhuahuoshijixindefangshiquduitashuo，nideguandian。