怎么挽回老公的原配婚姻

　　zenmewanhuilaogongdeyuanpeihunyin，ruguonifaxianlaopoyanlideguangzhujianmiediao，neileiwushengxinhanyuxinhuiyileng，shirenhezhengzhidoufeichanglingrenzhixi。hunyinzhongzuifenglidedao，bingbuyidingshijingshipanbian，fanershirijiyueleidefuyanleshi、hushihechenmowuyan。dangxinhanduijirushan，aibianruzhuiluobingku。zheibingbushiaiqingdejieshu，ershitafachulaidezuizhonghujiuxinhao——ruoyaowanliu，zhiyouyizhenxinshiyi、naixinyujinyibugenggaiquwunuanzheikejianlengdeneixin。

　　1. 倾听，听到她沉默无言其背后的响声

　　hunyinlizuinandedebingbushihuayanqiaoyu，fanershizhenxinchengyilingting。dangqizibuhuizaishushuobiequ，neichenmowuyanshenhoutongchangshibeihulvetaijiudebengkui。henduolaogongxihuanyong“jiangli”yingduilaopoxintai，quebuzhidaozheishitazuixuyaojinjinyishuangzhuanxindeerduolimianyuyikelejiedeneixin。zhenzhengyiyishangdelingting，shipaokaishouji，kanzhetadeshuangyan，tingzhemeishuochukoudepijuanyubiequ。

　　erduolimianbizuiguanjian。tatucaogongzuolei，bingbushiyaojiejuefangfa，fanershiqipanyiju“nixinkule，youwopeizheni”;tashushuoyuerjiaoyuburongyi，bingbushichize，fanershiqipanfentan。ruguoninengzhenzhenzhengzhengtingdaotachenmowuyanshenhouxinsheng，cainengzuodaozhenzhengzourutadeshijie。

　　2. 重建信任，行为是最好的语言

　　xinhuiyilengdegenbenyuanyin，changshiyicicifuwuchengnuochengkongzhihoudexinlaitanta。zheixiesuikoudayingde“xiayicipeizheni”huo“zhihougai”defuyanleshi，wanrudundaozigerou，jianjiandixiaoqianzheaidegenji。xinlaiyidanfensui，zhikaoyanciwufawanhui;zhiyouxingwei，caisuanshizhongjianxinrendezhuanwayao。

　　hunyinshenghuoshiyigexinyongzhanghu，meiyiciyuedingdeduifuquanshicunkuan。tongyipeizhetakanyichangdianying，jiubuyaozaiyinsuoshituiwei;fuwuchengnuofendanjiawu，jiubuyaozaizhishenshiwai。dangtakandaoninulijianxingchengnuoshi，napazhiyouxiuhaoshenshuishuilongtou，xinlaidenenyejiuhuizaixichuqiaoqiaodizaisheng。jushaochengduo，xingweijileixialaidegerenxinyongzhongjiuhuizaiciwenxinlengquedexin。

　　3. 改变现状，不要让爱败给习惯性

　　hunyinshenghuodemanxingzhongduchangchangshi“lisuoyingdang”defama。jiangqizidefuchushizuochangtaihua，wangledangchuzhuiqiutadeshihoudereqingyurenzhen。dangqizijuedezijizaihunyinshenghuozhongbiancheng“yinxingren”，aibiansuizhediaoxie。wanliudeguanjian，qujueyuzaicihuanqineiyifen“kandao”yu“zhenxi”nengli。

　　aibushiyilaoyongyidechuxu，fanershichixutourudejingshui。jijifendanjiawubingbushi“bangzhu”，fanershiyiwu;jilaotahaoebingbushimeirirenwu，fanershirenzhen;zaitashengbingdeshihousongshangkaishuiyuyao，pibeishijijijiedaoxiaohai……zheizhongxiweiquezhenzhidegenggai，shicuihuixinhuiyilengyandongdezhongchuishi。rangtazaicitihuidao：tabingbushihunyinzhongdebeijingqiang，fanershinishijieliwuketidaideguang。

　　zenmewanhuilaogongdeyuanpeihunyin，wanliuyikehanlexin，meiyoujiejingkezou，weikaozhenxinshiyifuchuyuyongbufangqidezhizhe。hunyinshenghuoruzhuzhou，shudubugouzebanshengbushu，huoguojiyouyihu，zhiyouchixubuduandewenhuomandun，caikeyiaochengzuichunzhengdeweidao。buyaodengtayanlideguangwanquanxihuocaihouhuibuyi。congjintianqi，yongerduoquqingting，yongnidexingdongquzhengming，yongzijidegenggaiquwenxin——rangzheilengquedechufangzaotaizhongxinranqisishoudeniaoniaochuiyan。