zenmewanhuilaogongdeyuanpeihunyin,ruguonifaxianlaopoyanlideguangzhujianmiediao,neileiwushengxinhanyuxinhuiyileng,shirenhezhengzhidoufeichanglingrenzhixi。hunyinzhongzuifenglidedao,bingbuyidingshijingshipanbian,fanershirijiyueleidefuyanleshi、hushihechenmowuyan。dangxinhanduijirushan,aibianruzhuiluobingku。zheibingbushiaiqingdejieshu,ershitafachulaidezuizhonghujiuxinhao——ruoyaowanliu,zhiyouyizhenxinshiyi、naixinyujinyibugenggaiquwunuanzheikejianlengdeneixin。
1. 倾听,听到她沉默无言其背后的响声

hunyinlizuinandedebingbushihuayanqiaoyu,fanershizhenxinchengyilingting。dangqizibuhuizaishushuobiequ,neichenmowuyanshenhoutongchangshibeihulvetaijiudebengkui。henduolaogongxihuanyong“jiangli”yingduilaopoxintai,quebuzhidaozheishitazuixuyaojinjinyishuangzhuanxindeerduolimianyuyikelejiedeneixin。zhenzhengyiyishangdelingting,shipaokaishouji,kanzhetadeshuangyan,tingzhemeishuochukoudepijuanyubiequ。
erduolimianbizuiguanjian。tatucaogongzuolei,bingbushiyaojiejuefangfa,fanershiqipanyiju“nixinkule,youwopeizheni”;tashushuoyuerjiaoyuburongyi,bingbushichize,fanershiqipanfentan。ruguoninengzhenzhenzhengzhengtingdaotachenmowuyanshenhouxinsheng,cainengzuodaozhenzhengzourutadeshijie。
2. 重建信任,行为是最好的语言
xinhuiyilengdegenbenyuanyin,changshiyicicifuwuchengnuochengkongzhihoudexinlaitanta。zheixiesuikoudayingde“xiayicipeizheni”huo“zhihougai”defuyanleshi,wanrudundaozigerou,jianjiandixiaoqianzheaidegenji。xinlaiyidanfensui,zhikaoyanciwufawanhui;zhiyouxingwei,caisuanshizhongjianxinrendezhuanwayao。
hunyinshenghuoshiyigexinyongzhanghu,meiyiciyuedingdeduifuquanshicunkuan。tongyipeizhetakanyichangdianying,jiubuyaozaiyinsuoshituiwei;fuwuchengnuofendanjiawu,jiubuyaozaizhishenshiwai。dangtakandaoninulijianxingchengnuoshi,napazhiyouxiuhaoshenshuishuilongtou,xinlaidenenyejiuhuizaixichuqiaoqiaodizaisheng。jushaochengduo,xingweijileixialaidegerenxinyongzhongjiuhuizaiciwenxinlengquedexin。
3. 改变现状,不要让爱败给习惯性
hunyinshenghuodemanxingzhongduchangchangshi“lisuoyingdang”defama。jiangqizidefuchushizuochangtaihua,wangledangchuzhuiqiutadeshihoudereqingyurenzhen。dangqizijuedezijizaihunyinshenghuozhongbiancheng“yinxingren”,aibiansuizhediaoxie。wanliudeguanjian,qujueyuzaicihuanqineiyifen“kandao”yu“zhenxi”nengli。
aibushiyilaoyongyidechuxu,fanershichixutourudejingshui。jijifendanjiawubingbushi“bangzhu”,fanershiyiwu;jilaotahaoebingbushimeirirenwu,fanershirenzhen;zaitashengbingdeshihousongshangkaishuiyuyao,pibeishijijijiedaoxiaohai……zheizhongxiweiquezhenzhidegenggai,shicuihuixinhuiyilengyandongdezhongchuishi。rangtazaicitihuidao:tabingbushihunyinzhongdebeijingqiang,fanershinishijieliwuketidaideguang。
zenmewanhuilaogongdeyuanpeihunyin,wanliuyikehanlexin,meiyoujiejingkezou,weikaozhenxinshiyifuchuyuyongbufangqidezhizhe。hunyinshenghuoruzhuzhou,shudubugouzebanshengbushu,huoguojiyouyihu,zhiyouchixubuduandewenhuomandun,caikeyiaochengzuichunzhengdeweidao。buyaodengtayanlideguangwanquanxihuocaihouhuibuyi。congjintianqi,yongerduoquqingting,yongnidexingdongquzhengming,yongzijidegenggaiquwenxin——rangzheilengquedechufangzaotaizhongxinranqisishoudeniaoniaochuiyan。
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