内向的女人真的容易出轨吗？女人头一次出轨的感受是？

zaiwoguo，nvrenmendaduoshuyaochulaigongzuozhongyangjiahukou，xiabanleyeyaojianjujiawuhuojiernvdezhaoliao，yinerchengdanzhebinanshenggenggaodegongzuoyali。nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？zaijiazhong，nvrenmenzhaoliaonansheng、zhaoliaoxiaohai，shiyanzhaoliaozhederenwujiaose，danshijishang，nvrenbenshengengbixubeizhaoliao，bixuneixindejiyu。yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？butongnianlingduandechuguilvshibutongde，neime，wushisuinvrenchuguilvshiduoshaoni？

yibanjuede，youzisedenvrenzuifeichangrongyiwaiyu。danzheijinjinxiangfa，meiyoukeguanshishigenjude。zheizhongzhibuguoshishiyouyunanshengguangfanhaoyin，zhenduiyouzisedenvren，bianrumifengdingmiyiyang，jinertishenglewaiyudegailv。danshi，youyixienvrenkanqilaipingpingchangchangxianhuidehen，jieguoyouyitianquejiandaotayubiedexiaohuoqingqingwowodemoyang。bingbushiyouzisedenvrencaifeichangrongyiwaiyuma?jiujingnaxiedenvrenzuifeichangrongyiwaiyuni?jingdiaoyanfajue，richangrichangshenghuo，gangweinvxinghejiatingfunvweiwaiyudezhongdianduixiang。

gangweinvxingcaifuziyou，jinerdulirenge，zhujiulexionghuaitandangdepinxing。ciwaiyouhendadeshejiaoquan，yiyudaodongxindenanshi，yinerfeichangrongyiwaiyu。birunannvguanxi，gongchujidujialvyouzhongtudeyanyugushideng。wushisuinvrenchuguilvshiduoshaoni？

gangweinvxingguangfanjienaguogaodengzhiyejiaoyuyulijing，youtabenrendefengcai，erqietamenhuiduizishendegerenxingweichengdan，burongyiweilegenghaodiduanzanxingdehuanaierchiailingyifang，nvrenxiangmutouzitanlianaiyoudaxuewen，neiyangburongyidaozhijiazhongbuxing。

nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？jiatingfunvdewaiyugailvjincigangweinvxing。zheimianbulelingrenzaochenggulv。yinxiangzhong，jiatingfunvyibanquanshimeiyoujingjifazhanyingxiangli、zimingqinggao、zhangpang、taolao。tamenyounaxiefengcaini?jiaruniyaoduijiatingfunvchizheileiyishi，neimajiudacuotecuole。rujindejiatingfunvyibanlaogongjingjifazhanbiaozhunyouyi，neiyangdenvren，doushiyouxueliyouzise。jinjinzainianqingdeshihou，tamenbingchi“zuodehaobibushangjiadehao”，chengzishennianqingmaomei，zhaoyigejinguixu，wujuwushuzuojiatingzhufu。tamenburongyifanmangyugongzuozhong、jiawuhuojizhaoliaoxiaohai。tamenmeirizuodeshishishangmeirongdian，lianxiyujia，kandianshiju，qukanshu，dujialvyoudeng。tamenshenergengweidenianqingmaomeierqieyantanjuzhiyazhi，lanmansatuo，gengweidexiyinren。gaileijiatingfunv，yinweilaogonggongzuozhongtaimang，meikongzaiyijiazhong，shijianyizhang，mianbuleyanfanjinsiquederichangshenghuo，tamenbixuxunzhaodaliangdecijixing，waiyufandaoshidangrandeshile。

yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？xiaiwaiyudenvrenbiyouqimeilidongrendeyimian。yaobuhaokan，yaobulanmansatuo。huoshihuoxutamenbingbingbushihenmei，danyebiranshifenzhongshizishendexinlipinxinghanyangjiyazhi，tamenshandaiziji，reaishenghuo。duinanrenmenlaijiang，tamenshishenmide，chongchizheyinyoude，erqiejiankangpingan，lingrenkandaotamenbianlingrenwujinxiasi

yizhiyilai，dajiadouyouyigewuhui，neibianshijuedechukoudaoxiangxingderengengzhanyouyoushi、gengheshizheiyiqunjudongwuxingderenleishehuifazhan。

yiyangdi，zailiangxingguanxizhong，dajiayelisuoyingdangdijuedexinggekailangdechukoudaoxiangxingnvshenggengtaonanshenghuanxi。

shubuzhikeguanshishibingbushizheiyang，shehuixinlixuegaozhidajia，xingqingneixiangderenyiyangyouzhezhexinggewaixiangrensuobujubeidezhenguiderengezhiliang。

erduibiyudandajijidechukoudaoxiangxingnvsheng，xingqingyuefaneixiangdenvren，yuefaqiangda，zhuyaobiaoxianzaiqinggancengmianbianshi——yueshanyubawozhunanrenxin。

什么叫内向型性情?

zaishehuixinlixueshang，neixiangxingjiushizhiqichangpianxiangxingdeyizhong，zuikaishishizai1921niande《xinlileixingxue》zhongzhengshibuqiangmingquetichulexinggewaixiangheneixiangdedingyi。

zheierzhongtexingdechabiequjueyuxinlinengliangpianxiangdefangwei，zhenduineixiangdereneryan，tamendedongnengpianxiangneibu，yinertamenduineixinshenchugengyouxingqu，gengqingjing，xihuanduchu、fanshenghesisuo。

 aisenkezaiqigexinghuawenjuandiaochazhong，jiangdianxingxingdeneixiangxinggemiaoshuwei：qingjing、liqun，chuantong、ziwu，xihuanduchuertaoyanchupengren，xiguanxingherenweichiyidingdejianju。

quxiangyubanshiyoufangan，juqibuding，bupingyishichongdong。richangrichangshenghuoyouguilvxing，renzhenxizhideng。

nenggoukandechu，neixianghexinggewaixiangdoujinjinrendeqichangpianxiangdeyizhong，zishenbingbujubeihaohuohuaideduibixing。bingqie，neixiangxingxingqingbidajiasiweidingshizhongsuogandegengweijubeishejiaomeitihecunhuodeyoudian。

xingqingneixiangdenvren，doujubeishenmefeichangrongyibeibierenhushideyoudianni?

一、心思缜密，更擅于照料别人

dajiaxiguanxingshangjuedenvxingtongchangbinanshijubeigengweibijiaominganxizhidexingqingtexing，eryixiangshehuixinlixuekexueyanjiuzejinyibushuoming，neixiangxingdenvxing，budanbinanshigengbijiaomingan，bingqiexiangduiyutongnianlingcengdehuopokailangdenvxingjubeigengweibijiaomingandejuedetizhihexinlixianxiangtizhi。

zheidaibiaozhe，yiyangyijianshiqing，xingqingneixiangdenvrentongchangnenggengkuaisu、gengxinididuiqipouxibingzuochufanying。

azhanyiqianshiyigejiaolvzhenghuanzhe，yizhiyilaiweijutanlianaihehunyinshenghuo，—zhizhipengdaorujindenvpengyou。

neijiushiyigehaixiuneixiangdenvsheng，zhujianazhanshenpangdepenyouyebukanzhongtamenzheiyidui，ganjueazhanyingdangzhaoyigexinggekailang、taiyangzixinxindenvsheng，neiyangcaikeyiyouyiyuquanyutayiqiandexinsui。

shubuzhi，ganghaojiuzheiyangyigebuzhiyitideneixiangdenvren，wanquanjiejiuleazhan。

lianggerenjiaowangquanguochengzhong，ganqingshang，tazongshinengminruidifajueazhanweixiaodexintaizhuanbian，binglijijitamenzuiwenwanxizhideshudaohekuanwei;richangshenghuoyeshikaolvzhouquan，jiangazhanzhaoliaodetitieruwei。

“dajiazheiyisheng，pengdaoai，pengdaoxing，doubuxihan，xiqideshipengdaozhangwo。”

haowuyiwen，duiazhaneryan，zheiyibijiaominganxizhi、neixiangchenmoguayandenvshengbianshizhenzhenzhengzhenglejieta、zhongshita、kuanrongtaderen。

二、共情能力强，更善于运营一段情感

zaiyixiangduiyuneixiangxinghechukoudaoxiangxingxingqingdexinlixueceshizhongfajue，xiangbiyuchukoudaoxiangxingren，neixiangxingrentongchangjubeigengqiangjingdegongqingnengli，erzaineixiangxingrenqunzhong，nvxingyoubinanshidegongqingnengligengqiang。

shuobaile“gongqingnengli”，daibiaozhechaoguobenshendeziyiweishierqulejietarenziyiweishidegongzuonengli，jiandandijiang，bianshiyizhongnengjiejinsuonengganshoubierenjingyu，jinerzuodaotihuihelejiebierenganqingdegongzuonengli。

dajiajingchangshuo，meiyousheikeyizhenzhenzhengzhengjiejinsuonengdiganshoulingyigerensuochujingkuangdexinqinghexintai。

jiurutongluxunchangshuodeneiju：“renleidebeihuanbingbuhutong，wozhiganjuetamendachaodanao”。

shubuzhi，zhenduifeichangyibufenneixiangdenvxingeryan，yexutamenyubierendexibeishikeyihutongde。

tamenjinguankanqilaibushanyanci、chenmoguayan，dantamenyongyoubipingchangrengengweixizhibijiaomingandexinlihegengweiqiangjingdegongqingnengli。

zheileiyuzhongbutongdeqiangjingdegongqingnengli，daibiaozheneixiangdenvrenzaiyiduanhunyinguanxilinenggengjiazhouquanxinidizhaoliaodaolingyifang，jiusuanyidingdianweixiaodetihui。

三、善于与人相处，给人一种绝世独立的现代感

meishujiajiandianyingdaoyanshuo：“renzhuiqiumengxiangzhishi，jiushizhuiluogudanzhishi。”

shide，ren，tianshenggudan;yigeyaoxiangjiandingbuyidixunzhexinlizoudong、zuncongshengmingzhaohuanderen，yigeyaoxiangwanchengzishenderen，zuixianbixuxuehaodebianshizuozhenshideziji。

erneixiangdenvrenhaowuyiwengengjubeiwanchengzishen、daodaqudechenggongdezhenguitexing，youyutamenquanshineiqingxingrengetezhi，xiguanxinghequxiangyuxiangneibudexinlihuodongmiaoxielaicunkuandongneng，yejiugengweishanyuyurenxiangchu、xiangyouzhangqidezishengudan。nvrentouyicichuguideganshoushi？

qici，dajiameiyigerenquanshidandudegeren，nenggoudabandanbukefushuxiangqian，erjinyoukeyigesanchawuchechuqinmiwujiandereqingquandebicicaikeyihaiyoujihuiweiziji“dianchichongdian”，lingwaiyejibicizhijianchuanqideshijian。

tashifenbiejingshenshizhidexiuxiherengetezhideyizhixingdeweichi，yeshiweiyiduanqingganweichishenmiganyuzoudegengyuandegenbensuozai。

yiner，neixiangnvrendezheileiyuzishenjiaowangde“chaozirannengli”xianeryijianyegengyouyiyuyiduanhunyinguanxidezhangqixinghekekaoxing。

shijishang，henduozuihouhuodehuihuangchengjiuderendaduoshushineixiangxingren，yourenjiucengbiaoming，jiaruershimeiyouyigerenbashijiandouyongzaiyueduwenzhanghesisuoshang，tajiuburongyibianchengyimingzheibandandadejiaoyujia;youruyidaijipinnvshenaodailihebenyeshuozishengengxihuanduchu，shuo，jiaruhaiyoujihuixiangyaocongzhouliuyeliduziyirendaidaozhouyizaoshang……

erruguonibeiyigeneixiangdenvrenzhiaizhedeqingkuangxia，ninenggengweizhenqiediganshoudaoneifenlaiyuanyubijiaominganxizhideaizhongyongyouyizhongdichendeweier：“woyaoyonghengzhiyedeqianzhishuangyan，bianyupianpianxinshangni。

yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？zongyouyitianninengfajue，xingqingyuefaneixiangdenvren，yuefameilidongren，yuefaqiangda。