老婆出轨之后老公的聪明做法是什么？出轨后断了能瞒住吗？

zaichajuezijidelaopochuguiyihou，zuixianyaozuodeshieryinggaishijingxialaihaohaodidewenyiwenzishenjiujinghaiyouduoailingyifang，chuguihouduanlenengmanzhuma？jiaruhaiaidehuaneimejiuwenqingxilingyifangdechuguiyuangu，suihouzaizunxunzishendexinliquzuojueding。wobeizhelaogongchuguilezenban？neime，duiyubutongdenvrenchuguiyeshibuyiyangde，junsaochuguilvyouduogao？

问一问自身还有多爱另一方

shenghuozhongjuedaduoshunanshengzaichajuezijidelingyibanchuguiyihou，diyifanyinghaowuyiwenbianshiyouqideqinao，naizhiyoudehaihuijixushiqulizhi。

fahuokendingshinenggoulejie，keshidajialingwaitayidingyaoshizhezherangzishenqupingjingxialai，youyuzhongjiuzheiyijianshierzaoyifashengle，dajiayizhixuanxiezishendexintaiyezaoyiwujiyushi。womenzailizhizhihouyaozuodeyinggaishihaohaoquwenyixiazishen，daodizishenhaiyouduoailingyifang，zhenduiliangrenzhongjiandezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyeyoumeishenmexiwangheqipan?meiyoudehuaneihendangrandeyejiubuhuiyounaxieyuanbukuanrongle，zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozaoyinenggouxuanbuwanbi。erruguowomenzhenduilingyifanghaicunyouganqing，lingwaiyeshishifenqidaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuokeyijianchixiaqudehua，neijiuxuyaoshizhezhejilingyifangyigebiaoshudejiyu。junsaochuguilvyouduogao？

弄清楚另一方的出轨缘故

yishangchangshuodejilingyifangyigebiaoshudejiyu，shijishangzhidebianshinanshengyidingyaonongqingchuzishendelingyibanhuichuguideyuangujiujingshishenme。youyuyecunyouyizhonggailvshilingyibanshizaibuzhidaodezhuangkuangxiafashenglezheijianshiqing，huanjuhuashuoshijishangtashiyigeshouhairen，zishendeyixiangbingbingbushiweilegenghaodichuguierchugui，tazhenduidajialiangrenzhongjiandehunyinshenghuohuoshiqipanjianchixiaqude。jinyounongqingchulezheigewentidajiacaikeyibujizishenliuquehan。wobeizhelaogongchuguilezenban？

chuguihouduanlenengmanzhuma？jiarunvxingdechuguishichuziyuzishendebenrenyixiang，neimayejiudaibiaozhetazhenduiliangrenzhongjiandehunyinshenghuozaoyimeilexiwang，yincinanshengyejiumeishenmehaopaheshangxindele，jinzaofangkaishouduibicizhijiandouhao。erjiarunvxingshiyigebeihaifangdehua，neimananshengjiuxuyaoquhengliangyixiazishenxinlidaodinengfoujienaneiyangyigekeguanshishile，ruguokeyidehuajiubahunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，buhaojiudaqiliqu。

1、先头脑清醒的大脑。

dangfajueqizichuguideneiyike，xuduonanshengdoujuedezaoshouleqichidaru，nanrendexinshengzaoshoulejidadetiaozhan，neixinhenshoushang。zaifumianqingxudeweihaixia，dabufennanshengdoushihuibulizhibuji，shiqulixing，yagenwufapingjingxialai。keshizheigeshihoutongchangshizuizhongyaode，yidanziluanzhenjiao，neimajiumeifajiejuehaoqizichuguizheiyishier。

yinci，nanrenyaozaidiyishijianneizhendingchulai，qianwanbunengfashengguojixingwei。

2、剖析老婆究竟是什么缘故要出轨，要离去这一家。

dailizhizhihou，doubutiyiyulaopozhengliangoutongjiaoliu，pouxilaopochuguideyuanguyinggaishidierbuyaozuode。qizibuzhenyouhunhouchugui，yizhiyouyuangude，jinyouzhaodaoshijiyuangu，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，tuoshanchuli。conghenduoshiliyuancailiaokan，qizipanbianzhangfu，guanjianyuanguyou3ge：

yishiqizidaodelunsang，fenggelangdang，shuixingyanghua;ershifuqijianqianquejiandingbuyideganqingjiben，qingganbushen，lingxunxinhuan;sanshizhangfudeguoshi，huozhenanrenbuxing，huozheqingganshangdadaobushangqizidebixu，huozheyeshiyouhunhouchugui。xunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyin，goutongjiaoliucaihuikanqilaigengweiheli。

3、反省自己的身上存在的不足。

zuoweiyigenanren，qizichugui，bukeyibacunzaidewentisuoyoudeyiyulaopo，xiangyixiangzishenshifounaerzuodebuzuhao，ranglaopoquefaanquangan，xiangchuquzhaoyigejingshenzhizhu!

4、再次思考夫妻间的情感。

chuguihouduanlenengmanzhuma？jiaruzhangfuxinliduiqizishenshendideai。jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhaizhangfudeshier，zhangfuyiranyaoxiangzaici。shubuzhiqizishibushiyetongyangdeaizhangfushifeichangzhidesisuode。jiaruzhangfuaiqizibiqiziaizhangfuyaoduoyixie，huoshiduohenduo。zhangfubixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，zhendeshitasuobixudeaima?shibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。

5、挑选宽容后的心理平衡。

chuguihehunhouchugui，shi“yuanzewentidenanti”。qizichuguideshi，duobanhuidaozhizhangfuxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。jiarujunhengbushang，neimazhihouzaishenghuoheyingduibicizhijianshi，bicideguanlianbianhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong，wufazhangqifazhanqushi。

6、丰富生活，避免再度出轨行为。

chuguihouduanlenengmanzhuma？youdezhangfuyixinmangliugongzuo，baqiziyirenpaozaijiali。shenghuojiandan，zaochengjingshenkongxu，disanzhechenxuerru。zhenduizheileizhuangkuang，zhangfuzexucongfengfuqizishenghuoxiashou，fengfuduocaijiazhongdeyeyuzushenghuo，changchangshouhouyixiaqizi，yidaoyouxiyule，yidaocaochijiawu，jinmifuqiganqing，tuijinfuqiguanxi，zusaidisanzhechazudedongxi。